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107. You must, I think, feel eversomuch alone

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Sun Nov 9, 2025, 11:13 AM

Nov 9

May you stay well. May you, after a time, find peace.

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my wife passed away yesterday morning [View all] onethatcares Nov 9 OP

I am so sorry to hear this. Irish_Dem Nov 9 #1

So sorry for your loss. piddyprints Nov 9 #2

Ohhhhhh. I'm so sorry. Scrivener7 Nov 9 #3

I'm very sorry for your loss. ❤️ underpants Nov 9 #4

I'm so sorry. Chellee Nov 9 #5

I am so sorry for your loss ms liberty Nov 9 #6

Condolences. I wish I had the words to express my sympathy. NNadir Nov 9 #7

My heart is with you. Hope22 Nov 9 #8

53 years of marriage onethatcares Nov 9 #9

Tears here for that moment, for your loss. Please remember to be kind niyad Nov 9 #24

my heart goes out to you markie Nov 9 #26

There are no words. I am so sorry for your loss. COL Mustard Nov 9 #33

My condolences 49jim Nov 9 #122

Peace PJMcK Nov 9 #10

So sorry for your loss. KS Toronado Nov 9 #11

Oh no. I'm so sorry. Diamond_Dog Nov 9 #12

I am very sorry for the loss of your beloved wife. 💔 GentryDixon Nov 9 #13

I am so sorry. My deepest condolences to you, and I will keep you in my thoughts. HeartsCanHope Nov 9 #14

My deepest condolences. sinkingfeeling Nov 9 #15

I am so sorry lindalou65 Nov 9 #16

So Sorry for your loss-Best wishes to you and your family marked50 Nov 9 #17

She will be with you. cachukis Nov 9 #18

I am so sorry for your loss. She is at peace now. Fla Dem Nov 9 #19

So sorry to hear of your loss. 14 years is a near miracle, same happened with my dad's prostate cancer. lark Nov 9 #20

I am so very sorry for the loss of your wife. Know that your DU family niyad Nov 9 #21

I am so, so sorry... Trueblue Texan Nov 9 #22

I am so sorry for your loss. 💗 58Sunliner Nov 9 #23

Thats kozar Nov 9 #25

So very sorry for your loss Nululu Nov 9 #27

I wish you well. Botany Nov 9 #28

I am so sorry. Dr. Shepper Nov 9 #29

I'm so sorry for your loss. area51 Nov 9 #30

Oh goodness I'm so sorry. AllyCat Nov 9 #31

My consolences. Grumpy Old Guy Nov 9 #32

I am so very sorry Onethatcares, JMCKUSICK Nov 9 #34

I'm so sorry for your loss. Lonestarblue Nov 9 #35

My heart is with you Lifeafter70 Nov 9 #36

I am so sorry to hear about your son. Know that your DU family is niyad Nov 9 #65

Thank you Lifeafter70 Nov 9 #121

Strength to you as well. electric_blue68 Nov 9 #209

I wish I could do more than say things. OldBaldy1701E Nov 9 #37

So very sorry.. PittBlue Nov 9 #38

Your pain comes through your words and I could not hope more for all of us to absorb some of it.... hlthe2b Nov 9 #39

Oh, dear onethatcares, please know, as you inch your way through this, your DU family cares mightily for you. Sending KitFox Nov 9 #40

Of course you have my utmost condolences richdj25 Nov 9 #41

I am so sorry UpInArms Nov 9 #42

So sorry for your loss edhopper Nov 9 #43

So sorry for your loss. niyad Nov 9 #67

Very sorry, Ed. My sincerest condolences. Tetrachloride Nov 9 #87

Thanks edhopper Nov 9 #94

I am sorry, ed. murielm99 Nov 9 #115

Thanks edhopper Nov 9 #158

The scourge that is still too much with us! Condolences. electric_blue68 Nov 9 #210

Take care of yourself. We are all cheering for you. Stay strong. twodogsbarking Nov 9 #44

My condolences snowybirdie Nov 9 #45

Condolences LovelyStuff Nov 9 #46

I'm sorry for your loss. nt Gore1FL Nov 9 #47

I'm so sorry! Ocelot II Nov 9 #48

I am so sorry, onethatcares. badhair77 Nov 9 #49

Oh, SO sorry! 70sEraVet Nov 9 #50

I'm sorry dem4decades Nov 9 #51

🫂❤️😢🕯️ QueerDuck Nov 9 #52

I am sorry for your loss. masmdu Nov 9 #53

I know your heart is hurting. tavernier Nov 9 #54

I'm so sorry! redwitch Nov 9 #55

We care about you, True Dough Nov 9 #56

Sending comfort to you, onethatcares 💖 Clouds Passing Nov 9 #57

My sincerest condolences. Tetrachloride Nov 9 #58

My deepest condolences to you and yours Hey Joe Nov 9 #59

You have my sympathy. bluescribbler Nov 9 #60

I am so sorry. I can't even imagine 14 years. Please take care of yourself and come here and talk to us. ratchiweenie Nov 9 #61

I'm so sorry. highplainsdem Nov 9 #62

Know that those who have walked this trail are with you and here for you Attilatheblond Nov 9 #63

I'm sorry you are going through this heartache. Emile Nov 9 #64

I'm so sorry for your loss. Mr. Mustard 2023 Nov 9 #66

I am so very sorry TNNurse Nov 9 #68

So sorry. appleannie1 Nov 9 #69

I'm so sorry JustAnotherGen Nov 9 #70

So sorry...you both gave it a good fight... Karadeniz Nov 9 #71

We are with you OddMom20 Nov 9 #72

So sorry for your loss essaynnc Nov 9 #73

🫂 mwmisses4289 Nov 9 #74

My sincere condolences Sanity Claws Nov 9 #75

I am sorry for your loss LetMyPeopleVote Nov 9 #76

So sorry DownriverDem Nov 9 #77

I'm very sorry for your loss. Texin Nov 9 #78

Sorry Onethatcares. You need some hugs. Doodley Nov 9 #79

My brother on Feb 15 SuzyandPuffpuff Nov 9 #80

Hugs to your brother and you electric_blue68 Nov 9 #211

Don't try and do this alone justaprogressive Nov 9 #81

So sorry SocialDemocrat61 Nov 9 #82

I am so very sorry, onethatcares Grim Chieftain Nov 9 #83

I am so sorry, one that cares. May the memories of your dear wife be a blessing to you. debm55 Nov 9 #84

Holding you in my heart... thank you for letting us know. n/t TygrBright Nov 9 #85

Of course you hurt, my dear onethatcares . . . CaliforniaPeggy Nov 9 #86

... Aristus Nov 9 #88

Heartbreaking IndyPepper Nov 9 #89

So sorry paxmoki Nov 9 #90

So sorry to here this Mz Pip Nov 9 #91

aw heck AllaN01Bear Nov 9 #92

I join with others and send my sympathy. nt in2herbs Nov 9 #93

I know this feeling 🌠 Richluu Nov 9 #95

We're surrounding you with love. democrank Nov 9 #96

Aww! Chi67 Nov 9 #97

So sorry for your loss Tree Lady Nov 9 #98

I bet you hurt. That was a good long fight. 1WorldHope Nov 9 #99

So sorry, onethatcares. We love you. ❤️ littlemissmartypants Nov 9 #100

I'm so sorry for your loss! yardwork Nov 9 #101

Maybe additional cancer research could avoid such horrors. But of course tax cuts are more important. flashman13 Nov 9 #102

I'm so sorry... CaptainTruth Nov 9 #103

Our hearts are with you along with our condolences lostnfound Nov 9 #104

two songs saving me today onethatcares Nov 9 #105

Words never suffice in a time like this jmbar2 Nov 9 #106

You must, I think, feel eversomuch alone SorellaLaBefana Nov 9 #107

My condolences to you and your family, onethatcares Niagara Nov 9 #108

I am so sorry for your loss. Solly Mack Nov 9 #109

I am terribly sorry for your loss. AltairIV Nov 9 #110

My condolences to you and your family kimbutgar Nov 9 #111

I am so sorry to read this. hamsterjill Nov 9 #112

How fortunate your wife had you stollen Nov 9 #113

I am so sorry. murielm99 Nov 9 #114

I'm so sorry for your loss awesomerwb1 Nov 9 #116

🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂 MayReasonRule Nov 9 #117

I am so sorry for your loss. WestMichRad Nov 9 #118

my heart goes out to you orleans Nov 9 #119

So very sorry for your loss. byronius Nov 9 #120

I'm very sorry JoseBalow Nov 9 #123

I am so sorry! barbtries Nov 9 #124

My Heart popsdenver Nov 9 #125

Dear onethatcares...we care Wicked Blue Nov 9 #126

I'm so very sorry for your lose angrychair Nov 9 #127

Hugs Duncanpup Nov 9 #128

How awful! pandr32 Nov 9 #129

We are all thinking of you people Nov 9 #130

I am so sorry. May you know peace. LoisB Nov 9 #131

Deepest condolences to you SheltieLover Nov 9 #132

I'm so sorry. maveric Nov 9 #133

A Hug to you. electric_blue68 Nov 9 #212

Thank you maveric Nov 9 #219

YW. I hope you have support. It's relatively new on a long journey to a different life. electric_blue68 Nov 9 #222

My condolences for your loss. greatauntoftriplets Nov 9 #134

Heartfelt condolences on the loss of your wife. 14 years is a long time, may she rest in peace and may you find Ninga Nov 9 #135

So sorry for your loss IbogaProject Nov 9 #136

So sorry for your loss Picaro Nov 9 #137

I'm so sorry. Alliepoo Nov 9 #138

I'm really sorry, FoxNewsSucks Nov 9 #139

Love Never Ends Dorothy V Nov 9 #140

On no, I am so sorry KT2000 Nov 9 #141

Im sorry quakerboy Nov 9 #142

The saddest part is sellitman Nov 9 #143

Very sorry. S/V Loner Nov 9 #144

Sincere Condolences gademocrat7 Nov 9 #145

I am sorry to here this. ironman99 Nov 9 #146

So Sorry For Your Loss! Deep State Witch Nov 9 #147

Very sorry for your loss jackcrow2001 Nov 9 #148

Because of cultural conditioning I'm glad you found a group to process, unburden yourself, and heal electric_blue68 Nov 9 #214

We embrace you, onethatcares, cilla4progress Nov 9 #149

Prayers for both of you. creeksneakers2 Nov 9 #150

Oh, I'm So Very Sorry DarthDem Nov 9 #151

Very sorry oldtime dfl_er Nov 9 #152

My deepest sympathies. Mad_Dem_X Nov 9 #153

So sorry. BootinUp Nov 9 #154

I am so sorry for your loss debsy Nov 9 #155

Onethatcares, I'm so sorry that you lost your dear wife FakeNoose Nov 9 #156

I'm sorry for your loss. I'm sure each of us feel a little pain on your behalf in the hope that it might alleviate some Buddyzbuddy Nov 9 #157

Strong hugs around the onethatcares family and friends... Tikki Nov 9 #159

I'm so sorry! cate94 Nov 9 #160

I'm so so sorry. I understand the hurt. I'm still grieving the loss of my wonderful husband 🙏 TommieMommy Nov 9 #161

A Hug to you electric_blue68 Nov 9 #215

Condolences vishnura Nov 9 #162

May her memory be a blessing BaronChocula Nov 9 #163

I am so sorry! I pray memories of the wonderful times you shared vanessa_ca Nov 9 #164

May she rest in peace. Queso Delicioso Nov 9 #165

Oh Onethatcares choie Nov 9 #166

(((Onethatcares))) mahina Nov 9 #167

I'm so sorry for your loss. 💔 live love laugh Nov 9 #168

I am so, so sorry. EuterpeThelo Nov 9 #169

Sending love and good vibes... thomhartmann Nov 9 #170

Oh how awful for you. Stay close - we care. Marie Marie Nov 9 #171

I am so sorry ... rustysgurl Nov 9 #172

Condolences. She must have put up a heck of a fight. 14 years. So sad for you. Vinca Nov 9 #173

I'm so sorry onethatcares. skylucy Nov 9 #174

(((HUGS))) BumRushDaShow Nov 9 #175

I'm really sorry for you and your loss. Sometimes I think that us men really should "go" first because we don't..... FadedMullet Nov 9 #176

Condolences to you. spooky3 Nov 9 #177

So sorry for your loss - nt. TBF Nov 9 #178

Love, just love Roy Rolling Nov 9 #179

May you, your family and friends mercuryblues Nov 9 #180

I'm So Sorry, onethatcares 💙 Cha Nov 9 #181

Deepest Condolences ProfessorGAC Nov 9 #182

I am so very sorry. FM123 Nov 9 #183

so very sorry Skittles Nov 9 #184

As a recent widower my heart goes out to you. TexLaProgressive Nov 9 #185

So sorry to hear 4Sitka Nov 9 #186

So sorry for the passing 0f your wife. riverbendviewgal Nov 9 #187

That's way too close shocks. A hug to you. electric_blue68 Nov 9 #217

My deepest sympathy. Joinfortmill Nov 9 #188

Sending my deepest condolences Tumbulu Nov 9 #189

Caring Ksout Nov 9 #190

I'm so sorry onethatcares .... cliffside Nov 9 #191

I hope she visits you BigmanPigman Nov 9 #192

((Hugs)) AKwannabe Nov 9 #193

So very sorry. That's a long time Phentex Nov 9 #194

((one)) blm Nov 9 #195

I am so sorry. Morbius Nov 9 #196

I'm so sorry. blogslug Nov 9 #197

Just feel our love wrapping around you some_of_us_are_sane Nov 9 #198

I am so sorry for your loss. Jay25 Nov 9 #199

I feel so very sorry for you. I'm married, too, to a wonderful woman. 14 years is a hell of a battle. She was very Exp Nov 9 #200

Dear onethatcares, I understand. My dear husband of 38 years passed 26 days ago. I'm finding comfort in talking MLAA Nov 9 #201

Not long ago at all! A hug to you. electric_blue68 Nov 9 #216

Thank you for your kindness. 🩷 MLAA Nov 10 #233

I'm so sorry, MLAA Niagara Tuesday #240

Thank you for your kindness. 💕 MLAA 16 hrs ago #245

I am so sorry for your loss, MLAA debm55 18 hrs ago #243

Thank you for the hugs, Deb. I need them. MLAA 17 hrs ago #244

I am so sorry for your loss. BlueKota Nov 9 #202

I am so sorry. Thinking of you. bronxiteforever Nov 9 #203

So sorry for your loss onethatcares. Vibes to you and yours. applegrove Nov 9 #204

It's good that she had you.. Permanut Nov 9 #205

My deepest condolences. ❤️ herding cats Nov 9 #206

Time well spent. May you spend your new life well. Festivito Nov 9 #207

My heart breaks for you Mz.LadyRe22 Nov 9 #208

I hurt for you. babylonsister Nov 9 #213

I'm so sorry for your loss. Beacool Nov 9 #218

I'm sorry. 😢 Bluepinky Nov 9 #220

Dang! So sorry. Just seeing this. Strength to you as you navigate both the practical things, and the roils of emotions.. electric_blue68 Nov 9 #221

I'm very sorry for your tough, painful loss. JohnnyLib2 Nov 9 #223

The only consolation I can offer is 'she only left you against her will' Jack Valentino Nov 9 #224

May you fondly remember to good moments spent with her Xipe Totec Nov 10 #225

My most sincere condolences to you and your family. Basso8vb Nov 10 #226

I'm so sorry for your loss, OTC. summer_in_TX Nov 10 #227

I cannot find the words...I grieve by your side irisblue Nov 10 #228

that pain will always have place in your heart Shellback Squid Nov 10 #229

My heartfelt condolences Dystopian Nov 10 #230

Today we are manythatcare. Prairie_Seagull Nov 10 #231

Peace Magoo48 Nov 10 #232

I whish I had words of wisdom for you. I am not so foolish as to think I do. DFW Nov 10 #234

it's been "remission after remission" onethatcares Nov 10 #236

A cruel cycle of, "I think we've beaten it--oh, sorry, no we didn't." And you put up with that for fourteen years? DFW Nov 10 #237

cholangial carcenoma was her first onethatcares Nov 10 #238

onethatcares.... Niagara Nov 10 #239

Thinking of you this morning OTC. Nittersing Nov 10 #235

I'm so sorry. lapucelle 20 hrs ago #241

You have the right to hurt malaise 19 hrs ago #242