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NNadir

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12. My wife was Catholic. Happily I never noticed.

Reply to Ping Tung (Original post)

Thu Nov 13, 2025, 03:25 PM

Nov 13

Our love life, pre and post marital, was wonderful, unimpeded by doctrine of any sort.

We didn't get married in a church, but as there was a blizzard underway, stopped off at a sleezy chapel in Lake Tahoe, where we were married by an obviously drunk "minister" of some sort or another, who if I recall mumbled something or another about Jesus.

My Catholic Father-in-law didn't approve of either me or our wedding, but by the time he went off into entropy, we grew to love one another.

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As an ex-Catholic I never thought I would see this....from Pew. [View all] Ping Tung Nov 13 OP

I'm not sure I've known any but so-called "Cafeteria Catholics" in my life... very selective in their doctrinal beliefs. hlthe2b Nov 13 #1

It's the rigid, doctrinaire Catholics like Vance, Barr, and Bannon who are cafeteria Catholics at this point. lapucelle Nov 13 #5

I was brought up Catholic and have many Catholic friends Diamond_Dog Nov 13 #2

I did 12 years Catholic school but rarely go to mass ( last time for a friends funeral) and the service was awful kimbutgar Nov 13 #4

I'm sorry that happened to you. Diamond_Dog Nov 13 #6

It's obvious why they would believe that but they don't vote accordingly? walkingman Nov 13 #3

The Catholic Church in the U.S.A. is as divided politically as the nation itself. hunter Nov 13 #7

I'm not Catholic.. Permanut Nov 13 #8

Have you been spending too much time with Lucky Charms and Floyd Turbo?.. niyad Nov 13 #10

I think so.. Permanut Nov 13 #11

Well, clearly your time has been well-spent! niyad Nov 13 #13

As a very dear friend once remarked to a gathering of the bishops in niyad Nov 13 #9

My wife was Catholic. Happily I never noticed. NNadir Nov 13 #12

How utterly wonderful. Do you happen to remember the name (Goddess niyad Nov 13 #14

The chapel? No idea although I probably could find out. NNadir Nov 13 #15

doesn't surprise me. Javaman Nov 13 #16

I stopped playing Cathopoly years ago. ChicagoTeamster Nov 13 #17

Catholics hav long been known to fall on the pro choice side of things Warpy Nov 13 #18

This poll result is a reflection of the Baby Boomer generation, as well as the next 2 generations FakeNoose Nov 13 #19

I'm not surprized SocialDemocrat61 Nov 13 #20

I was shocked to find out Conjuay Nov 13 #21