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BluesRunTheGame

(1,854 posts)
36. "Outrage over virtually nothing" ?
Tue Sep 2, 2025, 10:33 PM
Tuesday

We’ve been losing important elections. That’s not “virtually nothing”.

We’ve lost the Supreme Court. That’s not “virtually nothing’.

We’ve lost both houses of Congress. That’s not “virtually nothing”.

In my first post I noted that for the two and a half decades that I’ve been reading DU l have learned that posts about “men” are usually negative toward men. If they don’t start off negative they’ll almost always turn negative in the response.

This is a pattern, as far as I can tell that holds true across the liberal side of the internet.

This pattern, is itself, misandrist and toxic.

There isn’t anyplace on the liberal internet where a young man searching for his political identity won’t encounter this pattern.

He will certainly come across phrases like “the sexual assault that males engage in” as if sexual assault is a common male activity. The vast majority of men are not sexual assaulters. The vast majority of men are not violent. Blaming or implicating “men” as a group, for crimes committed by a small percentage of men is also misandrist.

And more than that, it’s really, really, really stupid politics.

We need to learn to use the internet to cultivate allies, not pick stupid fights and chase people away.











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Men [View all] dcmfox Sep 1 OP
I hit the the jackpot with my hubby Lifeafter70 Sep 1 #1
Mine does the laundry Mossfern Sep 1 #7
Nice Lifeafter70 Sep 1 #8
He won't let anyone else- including me Mossfern Sep 1 #11
That's great we hope to retire in a couple of years Lifeafter70 Sep 1 #17
Really... TheProle Sep 1 #2
Maybe most men. I cook, vacuum, make the bed, do laundry, clean NewHendoLib Sep 1 #3
My hubby and I share the work too Tree Lady Sep 1 #18
More misandry BeerBarrelPolka Sep 1 #4
Joke dcmfox Sep 1 #5
Not little, none. Male basjing no better than female bashing. Even in a "joke" NoRethugFriends Sep 1 #9
Lighten up Francis dcmfox Sep 1 #10
.. Oeditpus Rex Tuesday #20
It's more misogynist to assume washing dishes is "for women" Maru Kitteh Sep 1 #12
Yeah, just like Oeditpus Rex Tuesday #23
Every joke has a victim JoseBalow Tuesday #24
No, they don't Oeditpus Rex Tuesday #28
I've been reading DU for two and a half decades. BluesRunTheGame Sep 1 #13
hmmmm Kali Sep 1 #15
It's so oppressive iemanja Tuesday #22
We could be working on all of that... BluesRunTheGame Tuesday #25
Tell me which politician expressed misandry in any public speech? iemanja Tuesday #29
Did you even read my post? BluesRunTheGame Tuesday #30
I see. So your point wasn't that the party was misandrist iemanja Tuesday #35
"Outrage over virtually nothing" ? BluesRunTheGame Tuesday #36
This OP is about none of that iemanja Tuesday #37
I'm sorry this exchange didn't work out for you. BluesRunTheGame Tuesday #39
Thank you for deleting that. BluesRunTheGame Wednesday #42
What the fuck? Brenda Tuesday #32
I'm a white man. BluesRunTheGame Tuesday #33
And we wonder why we're lost the male vote pcdb Tuesday #34
Thank you for deleting that sentence. BluesRunTheGame Wednesday #40
This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Sep 1 #14
This message was self-deleted by its author iemanja Tuesday #21
My wife of 45 years has Parkinson's. I do all the housework amd all the cooking, driving, and shopping. Ping Tung Sep 1 #6
NOBODY in my house wants to do those things Kali Sep 1 #16
Which is why doG created.. Abolishinist Tuesday #19
I vacuum every Tuesday and do dishes all the time. underpants Tuesday #26
Interesting phenomenon in our home. Hope22 Tuesday #27
Trashed. maxsolomon Tuesday #31
Thank whatever entities that were responsible, but I am so glad I am gay. OldBaldy1701E Tuesday #38
Women GusBob Wednesday #41
This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Wednesday #43
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