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iemanja

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35. I see. So your point wasn't that the party was misandrist
Tue Sep 2, 2025, 09:13 PM
Sep 2

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but that women occasionally make jokes that bruise the male ego. You apparently think the role of women is to ensure that men are never offended or made to feel sad.

Meanwhile, women are referred to as sluts, skanks, whores, bitches with great regularity, but we are told it's okay as long as the women belongs to the opposing party. The English language doesn't even have equivalent words to degrade men, but you think misandry is a great problem plaguing our party.

Trump is able to appeal to the aggrieved white male because MAGA's fundamental ideology is that everyone else is and should be treated as inferior to white men. They don't want equality. They want supremacy, and that is what you want us to indulge. They are pissed off because they have to compete for jobs on merit--that they are no longer guaranteed a high income purely through an accident of birth. Also, some young men in particular are pissed off because they think they are entitled to access to the most beautiful and desirable women in society (ordinary women are not considered acceptable), regardless of their own appeal. Is that what you want us to emulate? Should we also support rounding up brown people and firing them from jobs? Do you think they are right to strip women of equal rights? Where exactly do you draw the line? Or is the goal simply to nurture fragile egos by ensuring men are never offended?

Then there is the fact that there are a number of people who think the role of comedy or jokes is to affirm their preexisting beliefs, political views, or egos. Being humorless is an unfortunate state of being that affects the constantly aggrieved party to their own detriment. That you are so outraged by a mild joke speaks is indeed unfortunate. Women are constantly a comedic target, and if I took that personally I'd be a miserable person.

My view is that the social media problem that hurts us is the culture of constant outrage expressed by too many. Now you have chosen to express similar outrage over virtually nothing.

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Men [View all] dcmfox Sep 1 OP
I hit the the jackpot with my hubby Lifeafter70 Sep 1 #1
Mine does the laundry Mossfern Sep 1 #7
Nice Lifeafter70 Sep 1 #8
He won't let anyone else- including me Mossfern Sep 1 #11
That's great we hope to retire in a couple of years Lifeafter70 Sep 1 #17
Really... TheProle Sep 1 #2
Maybe most men. I cook, vacuum, make the bed, do laundry, clean NewHendoLib Sep 1 #3
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More misandry BeerBarrelPolka Sep 1 #4
Joke dcmfox Sep 1 #5
Not little, none. Male basjing no better than female bashing. Even in a "joke" NoRethugFriends Sep 1 #9
Lighten up Francis dcmfox Sep 1 #10
.. Oeditpus Rex Sep 2 #20
It's more misogynist to assume washing dishes is "for women" Maru Kitteh Sep 1 #12
Yeah, just like Oeditpus Rex Sep 2 #23
Every joke has a victim JoseBalow Sep 2 #24
No, they don't Oeditpus Rex Sep 2 #28
I've been reading DU for two and a half decades. BluesRunTheGame Sep 1 #13
hmmmm Kali Sep 1 #15
It's so oppressive iemanja Sep 2 #22
We could be working on all of that... BluesRunTheGame Sep 2 #25
Tell me which politician expressed misandry in any public speech? iemanja Sep 2 #29
Did you even read my post? BluesRunTheGame Sep 2 #30
I see. So your point wasn't that the party was misandrist iemanja Sep 2 #35
"Outrage over virtually nothing" ? BluesRunTheGame Sep 2 #36
This OP is about none of that iemanja Sep 2 #37
I'm sorry this exchange didn't work out for you. BluesRunTheGame Sep 2 #39
Thank you for deleting that. BluesRunTheGame Sep 3 #42
What the fuck? Brenda Sep 2 #32
I'm a white man. BluesRunTheGame Sep 2 #33
And we wonder why we're lost the male vote pcdb Sep 2 #34
Thank you for deleting that sentence. BluesRunTheGame Sep 3 #40
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