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Catherina

(35,568 posts)
19. Wow there are so many great posts in this thread
Thu Feb 23, 2012, 01:46 PM
Feb 2012

and I'm taking you up on your invitation and jumping in but I'm no more qualified than anyone else in this thread.

I haven't seen the movie but I know enough people like Stockett and everything I read up on it only makes me hate it.

Do you guys remember Hogan's Heroes? I hated that as a kid. Later I hated it even more because only Hollywood would be offensive enough to make a comedy pretending it was FUN to be in a German prisoner of war camp during World War II.

This is what I know I'm going to hate about The Help. It romanticizes, and makes funny, a very cruel part of our history and current social fabric. Nothing's changed in places like Mississipi. Black women still slave away raising White women's children and doing all the chores.

For A Lady I Know by Countee Cullen

She even thinks that up in heaven
Her class lies late and snores

While poor black cherubs rise at seven
To do celestial chores.


I feel the same way about The Help as I did about Hogan's heroes and Gone With The Wind. At least Margaret Mitchell told the story through her eyes so I can't fault her for writing from her perspective. But for a White woman to write from the perspective of her Black maid, really? What the f* do you know about your Black maid? And to romanticize it as if White women overseeing this did all they could to help and domestic servitude and racial exploitation was all one big sisterhood. Omagod, that's simply too much.


I was already infuriated before I knew anything about the uglier aspects of the author and her book. Triple my disgust now.

Lawsuit
Abilene Cooper, a maid who used to work for Stockett’s brother, has criticized the author for stealing her life story without her knowledge and sued her for $75,000 in damages. Cooper also criticized her for comparing the character’s skin color to a cockroach.(12) A Hinds County Mississippi judge threw the case out of court, citing the statute of limitations.

...

you used the woman’s NAME, and you STILL deny stealing her story?

What a thieving little snot!

Here’s another article on that note. A quote:

It’s funny. In the book, ‘The Help,’ Skeeter–the character based on phony ‘anti-racism’ crusader Stockett–gives a significant portion of her book advance to the Black maid named Aibileen (which is pronounced the same way Ablene pronounces hers). In real life, Stockett gave Ablene nothing as she continues to make money off of her.

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But Kathryn Stockett expressly refused Cooper’s request and right to privacy, and ripped off her name and destroyed her reputation. The movie is being heavily marketed to the Black community and to liberal White women, none of whom know the real story here about the dissing of Ablene Cooper. The New York Times even referred to “The Help” as a “history lesson.” PUH-LEEZE. Some real history is missing, like what Kathryn Stockett did."

http://www.theloosh.com/blog/archives/5725


There’s nothing unusual about such compensation claims in America, but what makes Abilene’s writ different is that she is claiming just £50,000 in damages, hardly a fortune when set against the millions the author will earn from the book and the movie deal.
Abilene’s lawyer, Edward Sanders, says: ‘It’s not about money for Abilene. It’s about hypocrisy. The Help’s big appeal is to white people. It makes them feel good because it’s about a white woman who reaches across the racial divide to help poor black servants.
Well, let me tell you, it hasn’t done anything to help Abilene. She feels Stockett is just one more white woman who has exploited an African-American.’

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2033369/Her-family-hired-maid-12-years-stole-life-Disney-movie.html


This sums it up brilliantly. The whole rant is brilliant. I wish I could post the whole thing. Since we can't, read the rest at the link.


Some of the most racist shit I’ve ever seen, as a matter of fact. And this is the kind of thing we put out when we finally have our first “officially black” president. We’ve come so fucking far, haven’t we.

Anybody who told you to read this book, or see this movie… they obviously don’t know a damn thing about history, and they certainly didn’t think critically when they indulged in this shit either.

Question anybody who recommended this like a good thing. It’s really offensive, when you consider the implications.

“A big, warm girlfriend of a book about female love that transcends race and class.” – The Times

Are you fucking kidding me? A big warm girlfriend of a book? Oh yeah, because black housemaids were our girlfriends. Right.

What a crock of shit.

http://www.theloosh.com/blog/archives/5725




here’s what all the toiletry was building up to:



Yep. Shit pie.

Not Pretty Women.

Shitty Women



I changed my mind. I want to see this now in an angry way.

Keep those comments coming. This is good stuff.

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Intersectionality in Movies: The Help [View all] obamanut2012 Feb 2012 OP
Interesting review, and I agree that the complete absence of the male was troubling Warpy Feb 2012 #1
I did like how some of the control and power was transferred to obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #4
Are you gonna make me watch this movie? justiceischeap Feb 2012 #2
Watch it for Viola Davis, Octavia Spencer, and Jessica Chastain obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #5
I'm going to have to read the book, or... TreasonousBastard Feb 2012 #3
VERY interesting! obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #6
The book is well written and an interesting read Warpy Feb 2012 #7
I read the book and disliked it so much I avoided the movie. Starry Messenger Feb 2012 #8
The scary thing is, she thinks it's wonderful and all civil roghtsie obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #9
My take on it. Neoma Feb 2012 #10
If you want to better understand the perspective, you might try reading more written from it. laconicsax Feb 2012 #11
There's a lot to unpack there. Starry Messenger Feb 2012 #12
And also reactions from Southern whites knowing she was being crazy racist obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #13
Wow, I never thought about that. Starry Messenger Feb 2012 #14
You didn't threadjack at all obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #15
Not having read the book or seen the movie, I still have an opinion/question justiceischeap Feb 2012 #16
I think they saw $$$$$ and didn't care obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #17
I'll try to watch it over the weekend. justiceischeap Feb 2012 #18
It's old attitudes that are passed on. Neoma Feb 2012 #20
you're kidding right? Most white people don't come from priveleged backgrounds. Just like most Tunkamerica Feb 2012 #25
I was explaining exactly that... Neoma Feb 2012 #26
you implied through your language that not all but most were rich. Tunkamerica Feb 2012 #31
As I said in explanation: Neoma Feb 2012 #32
I never said they did obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #27
Meh, I was verging off topic. Neoma Feb 2012 #28
As I recall history, the ladder of inequality went something like this: justiceischeap Feb 2012 #29
Yep. Neoma Feb 2012 #30
You forgot Italians and Chinese immigrants Tx4obama Feb 2012 #35
Wow there are so many great posts in this thread Catherina Feb 2012 #19
Therein lies the problem. Neoma Feb 2012 #21
I knew about the lawsuit, which shows what a poser Stockett was obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #23
As history, the movie clearly fails. mistertrickster Feb 2012 #22
Skeeter's maid's name was Constantine obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #24
I did not like the movie JustAnotherGen Feb 2012 #33
You know...you've made me rethink my enjoyment of the book. ScreamingMeemie Feb 2012 #34
"Why now?" Starry Messenger Feb 2012 #36
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