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In reply to the discussion: I'm messed up. My girl dog passed in March. It's gotten worse. [View all]sprinkleeninow
(21,829 posts)10. There is one rescue adoption girl aways away in my state.
Found her in a roundabout manner
She's 11.
Someone close to me only mentioned there 'may' be grief some day. Sure, that occurred to me. But I wouldn't let that prevent me from adopting her. My heart wants her, but my head says hold up. Be sure in this serious commitment
She's currently being fostered. The facility shared a short video of her gently taking a slice of pizza toy I sent her n settling on a cushion to play with it. I have great peace that she's being cared for in a home. I told the facility I would like to at least sponsor her for now and they quite welcomed that. She was the first to show up online after a search. I broke down sobbing seeing her sweet smiling face.
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I'm messed up. My girl dog passed in March. It's gotten worse. [View all]
sprinkleeninow
19 hrs ago
OP
I have a tendency geared toward perfectionism. Which can also be a negative.
sprinkleeninow
16 hrs ago
#16
I can certainly relate to it being difficult without our planetary neighbors.
SheltieLover
12 hrs ago
#24
Thank you much for your uplifting words, sharing your personal experiences.
sprinkleeninow
17 hrs ago
#14
I've been there, too, my friend. It's been over 2 years for me, but I still hurt when I think of my pup
Rhiannon12866
17 hrs ago
#12
Mourning a loved animal is so very, very hard. Give yourself as much time as you need.
Timeflyer
12 hrs ago
#25
The more you loved your dog and the more your dog loved you the more it will hurt.
Botany
12 hrs ago
#29
I understand how you feel. Still mourning my GSD who disappeared when I was 11.
ms liberty
11 hrs ago
#30