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In reply to the discussion: Full week ahead [View all]

Uben

(7,719 posts)
10. Thanks cmd
Sun Dec 18, 2011, 09:46 PM
Dec 2011

We're not that far from treatment. 30 miles for these tests, but chemo and radiation can be done about 15 miles away. That's the nearest town, and I make that trip 5-6 times a week anyway. We are both retired (too young for medicare) and we have a private healthcare policy. It's a high deductible ($5K), with a total out-of-pocket of $10K. Since her first bout with cancer, we have always kept an additional $10K available for an emergency such as this.

I can tell ya if someone had told us 9 yrs ago we would have another nine yrs, that would have been a good thing. We both retired and have spent every day together since then. I realize how fortunate we are to have been able to do that, and there has never been a regret. So even if that's all we are gonna get, I guess we should be thankful for those years. Not all are as lucky. I have hope that the chemo can ease the pains and extend her life for a good while longer, and I hope the quality of those days are favorable.

And to you, I wish for the best outcome available. We got at least nine yrs, and are looking forward to more.

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Full week ahead [View all] Uben Dec 2011 OP
It's not humane... YvonneCa Dec 2011 #1
Texas Uben Dec 2011 #2
Glad to hear... YvonneCa Dec 2011 #3
I am glad you have insurance Irishonly Dec 2011 #4
Oooooh! I like that. Uben Dec 2011 #5
You have a lot more things to deal with Irishonly Dec 2011 #7
We are burning Irish peat jumptheshadow Dec 2011 #9
What a week... jumptheshadow Dec 2011 #6
That is a full week cmd Dec 2011 #8
Thanks cmd Uben Dec 2011 #10
You're going to get hit again for that deductible next month because it's another year. dmr Dec 2011 #11
Yeah, that bites! Uben Dec 2011 #12
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