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Sarah Ibarruri

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26. Americans live incredibly isolated lives already. Do they need a little MORE isolation?
Thu Mar 15, 2012, 05:26 PM
Mar 2012

Here are 3 articles on that. And I can post more.

Study: 25% of Americans have no one to confide in

Americans have a third fewer close friends and confidants than just two decades ago — a sign that people may be living lonelier, more isolated lives than in the past. In 1985, the average American had three people in whom to confide matters that were important to them, says a study in today's American Sociological Review. In 2004, that number dropped to two, and one in four had no close confidants at all.

"You usually don't see that kind of big social change in a couple of decades," says study co-author Lynn Smith-Lovin, professor of sociology at Duke University in Durham, N.C. Close relationships are a safety net, she says. "Whether it's picking up a child or finding someone to help you out of the city in a hurricane, these are people we depend on." Also, research has linked social isolation and loneliness to mental and physical illness.

The study finds fewer contacts are from clubs and neighbors; people are relying more on

Continued here: http://www.usatoday.com/news/nation/2006-06-22-friendship_x.htm


Despite our inter-connectedness, we're now more alone than ever.

There are more than 300 million of us in the United States, and sometimes it seems like we're all friends on Facebook. But the sad truth is that Americans are lonelier than ever. Between 1985 and 2004, the number of people who said there was no one with whom they discussed important matters tripled, to 25 percent, according to Duke University researchers. Unfortunately, as a new study linking women to increased risk of heart disease shows, all this loneliness can be detrimental to our health.

The bad news doesn't just affect women. Social isolation in all adults has been linked to a raft of physical and mental ailments, including sleep disorders, high blood pressure, and an increased risk of depression and suicide. How lonely you feel today actually predicts how well you'll sleep tonight and how depressed you'll feel a year from now, says John T. Cacioppo, a neuroscientist at the University of Chicago and coauthor of Loneliness: Human Nature and the Need for Social Connection. Studies have shown that loneliness can cause stress levels to rise and can weaken the immune system. Lonely people also tend to have less healthy lifestyles, drinking more alcohol, eating more fattening food, and exercising less than those who are not lonely.

Continued here: http://www.thedailybeast.com/newsweek/2009/08/20/lonely-planet.html

The Lonely States of America

•More than half, 53.4 percent, do not have any confidants who aren't family. In 1985, 80 percent had at least one confidant who was not family; now only 57.2 percent do.
•The average size of Americans' social networks decreased by a third between 1985 and 2004, from 2.94 to 2.08; basically this means the loss of one confidant.

Though they are mostly into documenting not explaining, the authors do put out a couple of hypotheses. The main culprits are work time and commutes. Both have increased since 1985 and both take time away from families, friends and voluntary participation. As women entered the workforce in bulk, the total number of hours family members spent working outside the home went way up. As people fled the cities, suburbs and exurbs boomed and so did commute times.

I do suspect that this study overlooks one simple contributing factor, the decline of real geographic communities — places where people grow up where their parents grew up, where non-nuclear relatives live near by, where friendships and acquaintances go across generations.

More at: http://www.cbsnews.com/2100-500159_162-1762234.html?pageNum=2&tag=contentMain;contentBody


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It is the same in the US but it has been improving. I used to teach a class at my home. One night appleannie1 Mar 2012 #1
The oldest Boomers found themselves new women but they were married to the same old men Warpy Mar 2012 #2
My Dad must have been a very unsual man in the 50s HockeyMom Mar 2012 #3
I was raised that way, too. I guess it's why I don't "get" a lot of stereotypes, particularly when MADem Mar 2012 #23
If women leave the housework to men Gman Mar 2012 #4
Yeah, because us stupid men don't know how to use a sponge snooper2 Mar 2012 #6
Well, then you've been trained well Gman Mar 2012 #7
"trained well" , I guess some PC folks would take offense to that... snooper2 Mar 2012 #8
My BIL is a very capable house husband. He LOVES to cook, kestrel91316 Mar 2012 #5
Come to think of it, mine is too. MADem Mar 2012 #25
I do dishes, laundry, and garbage, but I almost never vacuum. nt ZombieHorde Mar 2012 #9
I know there's the patriarchy thing, but could it also be because... Sarah Ibarruri Mar 2012 #10
My dad and husband disprove that theory... Neoma Mar 2012 #11
They're great exceptions? nt Sarah Ibarruri Mar 2012 #12
They both know how to work as a team. Neoma Mar 2012 #14
I think that's part of our problem in the U.S. - we don't work as teams Sarah Ibarruri Mar 2012 #16
Being independent and going into isolation isn't entirely a bad thing. Neoma Mar 2012 #19
Americans live incredibly isolated lives already. Do they need a little MORE isolation? Sarah Ibarruri Mar 2012 #26
Ah, well, I don't believe that isolation equate loneliness 100% of the time. Neoma Mar 2012 #28
I don't know if isolation could be good for human beings with human needs... Sarah Ibarruri Mar 2012 #29
It depends on what you are talking about, Women leave the bathroom in a mess snooper2 Mar 2012 #13
I know why. Whisp Mar 2012 #15
Women use more stuff in the bathroom lol Not to mention that we use lots of paper Sarah Ibarruri Mar 2012 #17
That's an interesting article. I think areas that don't get a cleaning Sarah Ibarruri Mar 2012 #18
I can only speak for my own household. ZenLefty Mar 2012 #20
In my household, none of us do the housework.... MADem Mar 2012 #21
Can't use the "If you mess it up..." rule. Neoma Mar 2012 #22
Ha ha! MADem Mar 2012 #24
My standard of "clean" is about 1/4 of my wife's lumberjack_jeff Mar 2012 #27
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