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Catherina

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17. Those infuriated me

Reply to tblue37 (Reply #5)

Mon Feb 20, 2012, 04:23 PM

Feb 2012

Both of them were adults and knew what they were doing. And we can't blame Bobby Brown for all the heartache and pressures in Whitney's life any more than we came blame him if she had a genetic predisposition to addiction.

I did drugs when I was younger because I wanted to, not because my ex thrust them on me. And it's a good thing that was at a happy time in my life because I shudder to think what could have happened if, at the time they were available, I had all the pressure and heartbreak Whitney had to deal with. It would have been my choice not anyone else's.

The weak little woman meme is so infuriating.

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Whitney Houston and moving beyond tragic narratives for women [View all] Catherina Feb 2012 OP

if Charlie Sheen died tomorrow, somehow I think 'drugs' would also be listed in the first paragraph stockholmer Feb 2012 #1

That's why I was up for a while just thinking about it Catherina Feb 2012 #2

well, you definitely have my support in the war against sexism stockholmer Feb 2012 #3

Thanks for even more questions to think about Catherina Feb 2012 #4

To be honest - DURHAM D Feb 2012 #7

I wondered about this justiceischeap Feb 2012 #10

I can just shake my head in sadness after reading your words Catherina Feb 2012 #14

Autopsy results released today indicate that Whitney died of legal drugs in a lethal combination. yardwork Feb 2012 #22

I was more annoyed by the constant claims on message boards and in some tblue37 Feb 2012 #5

They had a biography of Whitney Houston on last night tammywammy Feb 2012 #8

Those infuriated me Catherina Feb 2012 #17

I've been thinking about this article too, I saw it a couple of days ago. Starry Messenger Feb 2012 #6

When the Beatle's broke up, who did they blame? justiceischeap Feb 2012 #9

Right? I think she still catches shit for that. Starry Messenger Feb 2012 #11

I heard a new twist on this story: John Lennon wanted to leave the Beatles no_hypocrisy Feb 2012 #13

I agree but get confused when I throw in the race aspect on top of it Catherina Feb 2012 #15

The racism is definitely putting her at the bottom of the disrespect pile. Starry Messenger Feb 2012 #18

Other great women who sang their hearts out were given an asterisk next to their names no_hypocrisy Feb 2012 #12

That list Catherina Feb 2012 #16

Don't forget "Mama" Cass Elliot - not Black but fat REP Feb 2012 #19

Oh yeah, my bad. no_hypocrisy Feb 2012 #20

That was a particularly cruel rumor that she choked while eating. Way to invalidate a person's life. yardwork Feb 2012 #21

I think so, since dieting may very well have killed her REP Feb 2012 #23

True that - "offensive on so many levels" DURHAM D Feb 2012 #24

Agree on all counts. Absolutely. yardwork Feb 2012 #25

I was so mad over the way she was treated. Rex Feb 2012 #26