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In reply to the discussion: Call for co-hosts [View all]

Violet_Crumble

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62. I strongly disagree with that...
Thu Feb 2, 2012, 05:36 AM
Feb 2012

For the record, I don't have anyone at DU on ignore, and have no intention of doing so....

Why should a co-host step down because of the behaviour of someone else, which is something they can't control? If there's some personal crap going on and DUer A puts Duer B on ignore, and DUer B just happens to be a host of a group DUer A posts in, then DUer A can suck it up for all I care, because it's got nothing to do with me and I don't see why the hosting of any group should be affected by someone who could be the most sensitive poppet in the world and have an ignore list as long as a roll of toilet paper. I'm a host both in a group and two forums, and I've got two DUers ignoring me, and I don't know or care who they are, and have no idea if they post in any group or forum I'm a host of...

As to the technicalities of what happens if a host needs to communicate with someone who's got them on ignore, that's not an issue in groups with several co-hosts, and definitely not a problem in the forums. If the person who's ignoring a host is causing problems in the group, they'll be aware of it because of the responses of others in the group, probably long before a host gets involved. Plus, even if someone makes some big announcement that they've got someone else on ignore, only the admin and the person saying it know if it's true or not. So, when it comes to hosts or members who might have someone on ignore or have someone claiming they're ignoring someone else, let's just not be bothered about it, as it has no effect at all on how a group is run or the experience anyone else has in that group...

Back to the subject of this thread, I noticed the other day that iverglas was the only nominee who'd accepted hosting who's been left off as a host. I hope it's rectified sooner rather than later...

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Call for co-hosts [View all] redqueen Jan 2012 OP
I nominate . . . CrispyQ Jan 2012 #1
Those are good picks. nt ZombieHorde Jan 2012 #3
What about bunny? Violet_Crumble Jan 2012 #2
I second Bunny. CrispyQ Jan 2012 #4
hey... i have no desire, need, want to be in whatever. lol. seabeyond Jan 2012 #5
crispyQ, you are the other one i would like to know if you want to be co host? seabeyond Jan 2012 #18
sorry I've been awol iverglas Jan 2012 #6
Oh, I'm so sorry. My sincere condolences. Remember Me Jan 2012 #10
That sucks. Condolences to you and yr partner's family... Violet_Crumble Jan 2012 #22
I nominate Sera_Bellum Jan 2012 #7
Oh! Sera_Bellum Jan 2012 #8
Aw redqueen Jan 2012 #9
Can we get some more feedback and get some co-hosts? redqueen Jan 2012 #11
i dont think it really matters. seabeyond Jan 2012 #12
As I understand it, there aren't term limits for group hosts. laconicsax Jan 2012 #21
What laconicsax said. Group hosts don't have a time limit.. Violet_Crumble Jan 2012 #23
i dont trust any longer. nt seabeyond Jan 2012 #24
I don't mind being a co-host, CrispyQ Jan 2012 #30
good. i pmed two people that have not made a definite claim. you can have my place or one of seabeyond Jan 2012 #31
aye captain aye iverglas Jan 2012 #13
Any Woman that actively Texasgal Jan 2012 #14
do you want to do it. would love for you to. and you would have access to host forum and... seabeyond Jan 2012 #15
No, I am not as well versed Texasgal Jan 2012 #16
ok.... seabeyond Jan 2012 #17
YOU ROCK Texasgal Jan 2012 #19
backatcha.... and you are welcome. nt seabeyond Jan 2012 #20
iverglas seabeyond laconicsax Neoma. i say put these names in. no one says otherwise. nt seabeyond Jan 2012 #25
Okay we have the following names nominated, redqueen Jan 2012 #26
bunny doesnt want to just yet. next time. and crispy can have my slot whenever she is ready. seabeyond Jan 2012 #27
Heh, see, I thought you said upthread you *didn't* want to... redqueen Jan 2012 #28
'yes I will serve' seabeyond Jan 2012 #29
crispyq, iverglas, and i have said a definite yes. i pmed neomi and lac for a reply seabeyond Jan 2012 #32
I don't mind being co-host. Neoma Jan 2012 #33
This message was self-deleted by its author redqueen Jan 2012 #34
It just means that you will also get alerts, redqueen Jan 2012 #35
Well, if there's anything I'm addicted to... Neoma Jan 2012 #36
so.... take me out, put crispy in. i am already co host elsewhere. give her the opportunity. seabeyond Jan 2012 #37
I know you are ready to get this done, redqueen Jan 2012 #38
post 21 laconicsax says she is there. and crispy is right above this subthread i believe and iver seabeyond Jan 2012 #39
Well there is also the issue of wanting a variety of views represented... redqueen Jan 2012 #40
lol lol.... you didnt see on post 21 her saying, you betcha.... lol. ok. seabeyond Jan 2012 #41
I'm willing to serve if chosen. laconicsax Jan 2012 #42
Done! redqueen Jan 2012 #43
shoot redqueen, lets make zombie a host, too, while we are at it. he is a HUGE support, lol seabeyond Jan 2012 #45
I didn't make any earlier statement. laconicsax Jan 2012 #46
no, you didnt. i was pushin and lying.... thought the lying obvious seabeyond Feb 2012 #51
Please tell me you didn't just quote Larry the Cable Guy. laconicsax Feb 2012 #56
bah hahahaha. lol. no way. i wouldnt know seabeyond Feb 2012 #57
EVERYONE is fuckin with me on this new du seabeyond Jan 2012 #44
Well, I'm happy to let everyone assume what they like. laconicsax Jan 2012 #47
of course not. it was fun. nt seabeyond Feb 2012 #52
so what's up? iverglas Feb 2012 #48
No no no, there was no unselecting... redqueen Feb 2012 #49
sorted then ;) iverglas Feb 2012 #50
i have half du ignoring me. if implemented, might make for a slow forum. seabeyond Feb 2012 #53
yes, but are those the half we want posting here? iverglas Feb 2012 #54
. seabeyond Feb 2012 #55
As I see it, persons who are ignored by other members of the group should opt out as cohosts. Gormy Cuss Feb 2012 #58
sorry, that seems to be a completely different issue iverglas Feb 2012 #59
i am not taking the responsibility because another chooses to ignore me. that is their business seabeyond Feb 2012 #60
I guess what I'm saying is somehow not clear iverglas Feb 2012 #61
i was responding to gormy. i get what you are saying. nt seabeyond Feb 2012 #63
See my response to Violet Crumble. Gormy Cuss Feb 2012 #66
of course it is something i do. and i am ok with it. i dont try any more to say it delicately but seabeyond Feb 2012 #67
I strongly disagree with that... Violet_Crumble Feb 2012 #62
my little squeaks of acceptance iverglas Feb 2012 #64
IMHO a cohost shouldn't be someone who has alienated multiple members. Gormy Cuss Feb 2012 #65
well, I guess about half the co-hosts in this forum iverglas Feb 2012 #68
sheeeit, i think the host would be outta a job, too. i dont know if we could find anyone seabeyond Feb 2012 #69
yeah, her wuz included in my thought ;) iverglas Feb 2012 #70
Yep, I would. redqueen Feb 2012 #71
since if a woman dare to say something on du challenging the sexism seabeyond Feb 2012 #72
omg, you have me beat iverglas Feb 2012 #73
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