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mopinko

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1. yeah, i went through this in my marriage.

Reply to janterry (Original post)

Fri Sep 24, 2021, 10:45 AM

Sep 2021

the ex loved his porn. i was outraged in the beginning.
he used to hide it, and i'd bump into it at the worst possible moments.
as time went on, i gave up i guess. i tried to share a couple times, but he had no idea what i objected to, so he had no idea what to share w me.

we divorced after 30 yrs. that wasnt the issue. but it was part of why he was a shitty husband.
he honestly didnt know what to do w a woman who wasnt 8.5" x 11" and a few microns thick.

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Why Sex-Positive Feminism Is Falling Out of Fashion [View all] janterry Sep 2021 OP

yeah, i went through this in my marriage. mopinko Sep 2021 #1

Andrea Dworkin? empedocles Sep 2021 #2

why not dialogue with the article janterry Sep 2021 #3

Yes I read the article. I had already known of Dworkin. empedocles Sep 2021 #4

This is not a topic some here can rationally discuss. Great OP, though. Scrivener7 Sep 2021 #5