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Sun Jan 22, 2023, 04:21 AM Jan 2023

'Gay' or 'queer'? On Twitter, the word debate rages on [View all]

As we’ve covered before, some gays aren’t fans of the word “queer”… and some queer folk aren’t so hot about the word “gay.” The two words aren’t as synonymous as homophobes would have you believe, but that hasn’t stopped those bullies from slinging both words as slurs.

Twitter user @CoolRiderr recently sparked a debate over the two terms on Twitter, tweeting on January 5, “Quit calling gay people queer, we don’t like it.”

Television writer Bryan Fuller, mastermind of the TV shows Pushing Daisies and Hannibal, was one of the famous figures who responded. “Queer is an inclusive word—that is the reason toxic white gay jocks don’t like it,” Fuller tweeted (in all caps, for emphasis).

Preston Mitchum, Director of Advocacy and Government Affairs at The Trevor Project, observed that the “we” in @CoolRiderr’s post “is doing a lot of work.”

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I'll be interested in LGBTQ DUer's thoughts on this... n/t hlthe2b Jan 2023 #1
Everything I've read/seen/discussed indicates it's mostly generational NullTuples Jan 2023 #12
Lesbian, Lezzie, Dyke, Femme, Queer, Woman Loving Womyn irisblue Jan 2023 #2
I'm straight male, but... Layzeebeaver Jan 2023 #3
It means when he said "we", "I" would've been more suitable. He was making a claim... NullTuples Jan 2023 #11
Fair enough and a good observation Layzeebeaver Jan 2023 #18
I doubt I'd have ever used "queer" because *I* see it as derogatory based on when I was a kid. underpants Jan 2023 #4
Yes, I will never use the term for that reason. But, it is not my hlthe2b Jan 2023 #6
Strange Currencies underpants Jan 2023 #7
I read the name of that game & it took me back. NullTuples Jan 2023 #13
I was called "queerbait" in middle and high school and frequently beaten bloody by bullies. hunter Jan 2023 #16
Queer has made a strong comeback Tree-Hugger Jan 2023 #5
I need to check with my daughter but don't use that word. That being said.... underpants Jan 2023 #8
Historically ... Pete Ross Junior Jan 2023 #9
I wonder if the shame of needing a code word is part of what the younger generations... NullTuples Jan 2023 #14
"Queer" isn't a term I identify with. David__77 Jan 2023 #10
That is correct! Younger people use it as an all-inclusive term that includes neurodiversity... NullTuples Jan 2023 #15
This one is interesting vercetti2021 Jan 2023 #17
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