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Flaxbee

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20. I don't like clutter. Which is one reason I really don't like thrift stores...
Fri Mar 2, 2012, 12:34 PM
Mar 2012

because to me, you don't know if they have something you need, you go in there to find something and convince yourself you want it. My husband has what he calls "the junk gene" and he loves thrift stores - I'll get books, and I've found a nice sweater or two at Goodwill or Salvation Army. But he'll go in to a thrift store and he used to come out with tons of things we didn't need, but that he thought were neat or possibly useful. He doesn't do it nearly as much these days but all of that stuff would drive me CRAZY. But it made him happy to have half-busted pieces of electronics to tinker with.

I do like to shop, when I have money and need something or things. Key word is "need". I like interiors (design, dishes, etc.) and fashion and have a weakness for beauty products (only if they're paraben and phlalate-free, and not tested on animals, though), but I just can't emphasize enough how much I despise clutter and extra stuff that doesn't get used. I don't really like knick-knacks, can't understand collecting dishes or dolls or anything like that. But I do I wish I could shop a little more these days. I don't buy just anything, and I don't get swayed by commercials. I don't ever feel the need to try something new simply b/c I saw an add for a Swiffer, or an exercise machine, or whatever.

So, I guess I'm not in any way an impulse buyer, and don't respond to TV advertising (but if you show me a beautiful textile in a home magazine and I'll lust after it.

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i dunno, hubby and i spend a lot of time laughing at ads on TV NMDemDist2 Jan 2012 #1
Laughing at ads doesn't count. Curmudgeoness Jan 2012 #2
Won't you have fun! pengillian101 Feb 2012 #18
Possibly Sherman A1 Jan 2012 #3
I completely agree that there is nothing wrong with advertising. Curmudgeoness Jan 2012 #4
Sometime I think it is genetic. JDPriestly Feb 2012 #5
Nature/nurture. Curmudgeoness Feb 2012 #6
I hate shopping -- except gardening shops. JDPriestly Feb 2012 #7
Ah, yes, that is where I have seen you before. Curmudgeoness Feb 2012 #8
How would I know if I am being taken in by the advertising and newness? Kolesar Feb 2012 #9
I suppose that none of us know for sure Curmudgeoness Feb 2012 #10
I am affected but I don't necessarily act... Phentex Feb 2012 #11
LOL. My first suggestion to you is Curmudgeoness Feb 2012 #12
In very strange news... Phentex Feb 2012 #15
Has anything on infomercials ever been good? Curmudgeoness Feb 2012 #16
Two things... Phentex Feb 2012 #17
My frugal brain will ask me, "Can you live without this?" RebelOne Feb 2012 #19
Ads on TV either make me laugh or make me mad Irishonly Feb 2012 #13
LOL. That's the truth. Curmudgeoness Feb 2012 #14
I don't like clutter. Which is one reason I really don't like thrift stores... Flaxbee Mar 2012 #20
Ah, lust, that is a big downfall. Curmudgeoness Mar 2012 #21
it used to end up on the dining room table, and a piece on the coffee table, and the tools scattered Flaxbee Apr 2012 #22
Are frugals "normal?" Absolutely! txlibdem Apr 2012 #23
It is sad when "society" makes me wonder Curmudgeoness Apr 2012 #24
the ads on tv are why I stopped watching it stuntcat Apr 2012 #25
Now that's what I'm talking about.... Curmudgeoness Apr 2012 #26
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