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laundry_queen

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10. Exactly. The only thing I don't have is the right tools
Thu Nov 7, 2013, 03:13 AM
Nov 2013

That's where my dad comes in, lol. But when I was married I had to be handy because my ex refused to lift a finger to help me out with anything. So I learned pretty much all the 'guy' stuff - changing headlights and signal lights, changing wipers, taking care of the mower and mowing the lawn, fixing the dishwasher, working my FIL's old snowblower and, well, all the household stuff, like hanging the tv on the wall. Now that I'm on my own, the only thing I need help with is things that I'm not strong enough for (rare, I'm freakishly strong for a woman, and one of my teen daughters is too, and together we moved all our furniture, LOL) or things that logistically need 2 people, or if I need tools. I can make time when it comes to money, and I'm very patient, so I just require the info and tools. I rather enjoy doing it too - it's a bit meditative to take things apart and put them back together.

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Just want to share. [View all] laundry_queen Nov 2013 OP
Congrats. The Internet is really revolutionizing things like this. n/t PoliticAverse Nov 2013 #1
It is. I love my internet :) nt laundry_queen Nov 2013 #4
Good for you! njlib Nov 2013 #2
oh, I hope it works out for you. laundry_queen Nov 2013 #3
That has always been my attitude as well..... Curmudgeoness Nov 2013 #8
Most cars I've owned had manual windows & locks... Eleanors38 Nov 2013 #16
Earlier this year I followed instructions on the internet on how to fix my washing machine. Kaleva Nov 2013 #5
Cool! Good for you! nt laundry_queen Nov 2013 #9
Indeed Sherman A1 Nov 2013 #6
Exactly. The only thing I don't have is the right tools laundry_queen Nov 2013 #10
Ah, but You do have the right tools! Sherman A1 Nov 2013 #12
Sort of like an old-fashioned barn raising! IrishAyes Mar 2014 #18
That is so cool! cbayer Nov 2013 #7
Yep, it felt like such an accomplishment! laundry_queen Nov 2013 #11
Good on ya - next project - buy some tools ConcernedCanuk Nov 2013 #13
I still might hit you up for the list laundry_queen Nov 2013 #14
Hit me up if ya like ConcernedCanuk Nov 2013 #15
Your rant will save us a lot of grief. IrishAyes Mar 2014 #19
Message auto-removed Name removed Mar 2014 #17
I too benefit from well written manuals. IrishAyes Mar 2014 #20
Good job... sendero Mar 2014 #21
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