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In reply to the discussion: Just as police need crime, dentists need cavities and firemen need fires... [View all]BainsBane
(56,109 posts)and I appreciate your thoughtful response.
As for the blog entry, I don't think it proposed to be anything other than that woman's own struggle with expectations about having children. I can imagine it wouldn't have resonated with a lot of people, as many experiences others have don't. There is a recent cultural trend of testimonial literature in both published and internet form. I find little of it interesting myself, but once in a great while something strikes me. What I found odd in that case is that you were so irritated over it.
I do recall a discussion we had several months ago where we talked about your quite understandable objection to ideas that society doesn't allow men the range of emotion afforded women. I understood and respect that position. Some of your responses of late have puzzled me, particularly when I ask for explanation or examples and you don't respond.
We all have life experiences that shape how we see the world.
I accept that I have misinterpreted you. I hope I can better understand you in future conversations.
Edit: For what it's worth, I would find it helpful if you would explain WHY you find a particular post or situation offensive or bothersome rather than simply expressing an objection. It would not only help your views be better understood, but it would also give others a chance to learn from the exchange. That's my two cents, for whatever it's worth.
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