Men's Group

Its difficult to have a discussion about the particular details of the Assange case, because the whole story is so weird and -correct or not- there is the feeling that the obsessive international pursuit of the man has more to do with wikileaks, than his willywank.

However, the first question i would ask is, how did (and does) the penetrate-ee feel about the act? Does she consider it a violation? A rape? Does she want to press charges?

As for a blanket policy or attitude towards "sexual advances while one person is sleeping", i will agree with others in this thread who say that communication- beforehand- is the best bet.

People with even a modicum of tact, class and ability to hear and sense how their partner is feeling, i would think, wouldnt run into an issue at all.