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4th law of robotics

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Wed Aug 8, 2012, 08:26 PM Aug 2012

Men Are More Likely Than Women To Be Victims In Dating Violence [View all]

DURHAM, N.H. -- A 32-nation study of violence against dating partners by university partners found that about a third had been violent, and most incidents of partner violence involve violence by both the man and woman, according to Murray Straus, founder and co-director of the Family Research Laboratory at the University of New Hampshire. The second largest category was couples where the female partner was the only one to carry about physical attacks, not the male partner.

Straus’ new research also found that dominance by the female partner is even more closely related to violence by women than is male dominance. These results call into question the widely held belief that partner violence is primarily a male crime and that when women are violent it is self defense.

“In the 35 years since I began research on partner violence, I have seen my assumptions about prevalence and etiology contradicted by a mass of empirical evidence from my own research and from research by many others,” Straus said. “My view on partner violence now recognizes the overwhelming evidence that women assault their partners at about the same rate as men. However, when women are violent, the injury rate is lower.”

http://www.unh.edu/news/cj_nr/2006/may/em_060519male.cfm?type=n

I admit that for the longest time I assumed domestic violence was a predominately male affair. That's how it's portrayed and the crime stats certainly support that. But it's becoming apparent that it's a far more equal-opportunity crime than is popularly believed.

I think removing the stigma on men reporting abuse by their wives/girlfriends and working to get this acknowledged (like by changing the tone of domestic violence PSAs) represents a significant men's health issue.

Just my 2 cents.

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Yeah, us poor men are so abused while women have big screen TV's and recliners in the ladies room. Scuba Aug 2012 #1
Reminds me of some of the discussions after the Duke Rape case 4th law of robotics Aug 2012 #2
I oppose violence, but to claim that men are victims more than women is delusional. Scuba Aug 2012 #4
This message was self-deleted by its author AnotherMcIntosh Aug 2012 #5
Could you present your studies? 4th law of robotics Aug 2012 #6
outlandish? I'm sure it happens sometimes- but I think men are, in general, physically stronger. Warren DeMontague Aug 2012 #10
You don't need to be stronger than another person to do real damage to them 4th law of robotics Aug 2012 #11
This message was self-deleted by its author Major Nikon Aug 2012 #7
It is not delusional, it is accurate. lumberjack_jeff Aug 2012 #21
Looks like you just joined in April Kingofalldems Aug 2012 #16
Indeed 4th law of robotics Aug 2012 #17
I don't know that I buy the OP ProudToBeBlueInRhody Aug 2012 #3
I've known two men who were beaten by their wives Major Nikon Aug 2012 #8
There really is no system in place for this 4th law of robotics Aug 2012 #13
I don't think too many LEOs treat it as a joke anymore Major Nikon Aug 2012 #14
Is it truly not necessary though? 4th law of robotics Aug 2012 #19
I think in terms of getting accurate information, if it's not being reported, that's gonna confuse Warren DeMontague Aug 2012 #15
True. Violence is never acceptable. lumberjack_jeff Aug 2012 #20
I think this has been roundly debunked. Warren DeMontague Aug 2012 #9
The CDC found comparable results 4th law of robotics Aug 2012 #12
Domestic violence is a cycle. Usually, neither party is blameless. lumberjack_jeff Aug 2012 #18
Still don't know that I buy it.... ProudToBeBlueInRhody Aug 2012 #22
I think the stigma against men hitting women is a good thing 4th law of robotics Aug 2012 #23
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