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steve2470

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Thu Jul 31, 2014, 05:18 AM Jul 2014

MRA versus healthy acknowledgement of male issues [View all]

Last edited Tue Aug 5, 2014, 06:32 PM - Edit history (2)

I will state upfront that I'm no expert on the term MRA. That being said, I think one can acknowledge the issues we men face without being an MRA, a sexist or a misogynist.

Let me list a few:

1- Prostate cancer
2- Men as the default fodder for all American wars, justified or not
3- The cult of machismo
4- How to be a good father/brother/husband/son/grandfather/uncle/partner
5- How men deal with mental health issues and feelings

That's just off the top of my head. We men can deal with our issues without being anti-female or anti-feminism. Being a healthy male in American culture is great, but I don't think it's easy, at least not for those of us of my generation.

At any rate, hopefully this thread is constructive and helpful.

ETA: Changed wording of #2 to be less inflammatory.

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Great post, but... Bonobo Jul 2014 #1
or an item-by-description on how those are nothing compared to womens' issues Doctor_J Jul 2014 #2
And that it's men who are behind all of it doing it to other men..... n/m ProudToBeBlueInRhody Jul 2014 #3
One serious question is whether DU is a forum where such discussions can be had. Jim Lane Aug 2014 #4
In't that because these issues are most frequently raised in threads about women? Even the first bettyellen Aug 2014 #10
Well, there was Bonobo's suicide thread. sibelian Aug 2014 #12
I missed that whole thing, thankfully. But I have seen him and others start some interesting bettyellen Aug 2014 #14
It was pretty awful... sibelian Aug 2014 #17
no apology needed! I really do wish violence and aggression against both sexes was not as bettyellen Aug 2014 #18
The MG seems to be where you go to get a respectful Eleanors38 Aug 2014 #11
Off topic but can we admit Trumad again ? steve2470 Aug 2014 #5
Not a host, but may I ask why? ProudToBeBlueInRhody Aug 2014 #6
I like him so yea I'm biased nt steve2470 Aug 2014 #7
I understand ProudToBeBlueInRhody Aug 2014 #8
yes that's true nt steve2470 Aug 2014 #9
Post removed Post removed Oct 2014 #20
Do you regard these issues as part of a wholesale misunderstanding of men? sibelian Aug 2014 #13
No steve2470 Aug 2014 #15
Yes, v clear, thanks steve sibelian Aug 2014 #16
It's so pervasive as to be invisible. lumberjack_jeff Aug 2014 #19
I see the alert trolls are about ProudToBeBlueInRhody Oct 2014 #21
A solution is in the works... Major Nikon Oct 2014 #22
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