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In reply to the discussion: Is it a privilege to be able to stay at home and not work? [View all]lumberjack_jeff
(33,224 posts)25. "Caregiving dads treated disrespectfully at work, study finds"
        Overall, the studies found consequences for any employee who violated traditional gender roles when it came to having a family. The least harassed in the office? Fathers and mothers who followed more traditional gender norms; that is, men who did less caregiving and domestic tasks at home and women who did more.
The results suggest that how well a worker performs their gender role in the home has more bearing on how they are treated at work than how well that worker performs their job. As a result, men and women are likely to feel pressure at work to conform to traditional roles at home. "They may choose not to have children if these traditional roles are not feasible for them, or get in the way of family or career goals," according to Prof. Berdahl.
Prof. Berdahl points out that workplace treatment is different from pay and promotions. "Both male and female employees suffer lower pay and fewer promotions after taking time off work to care for family, to extents that cannot be explained by possible skill loss, hours, performance, or ambition."
http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2013/06/130611130955.htm?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+sciencedaily%2Fmind_brain+%28ScienceDaily%3A+Mind+%26+Brain+News%29
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        If you are female and you choose to stay at home with the kids, you're a good mom
        Major Nikon
        Oct 2013
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        privilege to stay at home and not work.  no, women do not get much more respect or appreciation
        seabeyond
        Oct 2013
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        ability to choose?  that really was not what your OP was about.  your Op was more acceptable, ya, i
        seabeyond
        Oct 2013
        #12
      
        
        no.  not about zero.  about as many people that appreciate the value of a stay at home mom (and not
        seabeyond
        Oct 2013
        #15
      
        
        everyone has the choice.  what you are really saying is men are respected less if they make that
        seabeyond
        Oct 2013
        #18
      
        
        It's true enough that the first battlefield of the bullshit war is in our own heads.
        lumberjack_jeff
        Oct 2013
        #26
      
        
        I'm beginning to think using the Men's group to post links to reading comprehension training
        lumberjack_jeff
        Oct 2013
        #53
      
        
        I think you are "cleverly" trying to understate the role of the stay at home parent
        ProudToBeBlueInRhody
        Oct 2013
        #55