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ElboRuum

(4,717 posts)
28. Yikes.
Sun Sep 29, 2013, 06:43 AM
Sep 2013

Observation and critical analysis by whom exactly? Others within the bubble? That conversation has been had many times. Always the same result. The evidence of this non thing is some blogger of dubious standing, some "study" which fails the smell test, whatever.

I don't portray it as anything. Among some people on DU, these easily conjecturable ideas ARE dogma, but you'll be happy to know that here in this forum they are not.

What's tragic is some members' obsession with the "goings on" in this forum. There are those who truly believe that men talking about things from their perspective is anathema to feminism; a fact I find odd since most who post here regularly also count themselves as feminists... just not a kind of feminist which meets with their approval, I guess. But since many feminists on DU also fall into this 'undesirable' category, I can't say we're in bad company there. These same people also fall under the erroneous corollary belief that DU is no place for such "goings on", I suppose because in their minds DU supports only their views on feminism and keeping such a group around is clearly in violation of their sensibilities. Just a guess on my part, but one which seems to fit the facts.

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Not sure where this originated, but the quoted statement is sexist tripe Major Nikon Sep 2013 #1
Here ProudToBeBlueInRhody Sep 2013 #3
At least the peanut gallery is staying busy Major Nikon Sep 2013 #5
Wow.. Upton Sep 2013 #6
Uh oh. You said the magic "R" word.. opiate69 Sep 2013 #8
There are no radical feminists... TreasonousBastard Sep 2013 #12
You're also not a "real" feminist unless they've cleared you as such ProudToBeBlueInRhody Sep 2013 #14
And then, out of the other side of their mouths... opiate69 Sep 2013 #16
There are radical feminists who are sex positive and negative... Gravitycollapse Sep 2013 #19
it does seem sex is bad unless its within a narrow definition. loli phabay Oct 2013 #42
There are radical feminists. Gravitycollapse Sep 2013 #18
it depends on what kind you are, some are hateful of men, trans and anyone loli phabay Oct 2013 #46
Well, if 51% of us vote anything other than #4, we'll have to defer to the poster Doctor_J Sep 2013 #2
When I was younger... lumberjack_jeff Sep 2013 #4
Sort of the reverse situation here Doctor_J Sep 2013 #10
Disgustingly enough, those are the two adjectives hurled at gays and lesbians. Behind the Aegis Sep 2013 #7
Anyone who likes sex is going to be pathogilized for it Major Nikon Sep 2013 #9
a big issue is that people believe that what they are into is normal and others are wierd loli phabay Oct 2013 #44
My sexual appetite is so extreme... TreasonousBastard Sep 2013 #11
I don't see your vote in there. Doctor_J Sep 2013 #13
Normal, healthy Denninmi Sep 2013 #15
define normal and healthy, i guess different peoples mileage varies loli phabay Oct 2013 #39
Uh, what you said. Denninmi Oct 2013 #47
I really wonder just how much contact the HoFer's have with ordinary women, Sen. Walter Sobchak Sep 2013 #17
I'd wager very little. ElboRuum Sep 2013 #20
The OP completely took what I said out of context. Gravitycollapse Sep 2013 #21
No, link's there. Plenty of context... ElboRuum Sep 2013 #22
Believe me, there hasn't been a single legitimately critical comment in this thread thus far. Gravitycollapse Sep 2013 #23
And the predictable, one-liner reply. ElboRuum Sep 2013 #24
My comment was made to reflect the predation and exploitation engrained into the male psyche... Gravitycollapse Sep 2013 #25
Your comment was made to reflect... ElboRuum Sep 2013 #26
Incorrect. There is no presumption made. It is the product of observation and critical analysis. Gravitycollapse Sep 2013 #27
Yikes. ElboRuum Sep 2013 #28
The reality is clear: Every group on DU is a men's group. Gravitycollapse Sep 2013 #29
No. ElboRuum Sep 2013 #33
Oh, don't you know? ProudToBeBlueInRhody Sep 2013 #35
Er, you just did it again Doctor_J Sep 2013 #30
Keep in mind, this is the same poster who thinks... opiate69 Sep 2013 #36
being an asshole is being an asshole, end of. loli phabay Oct 2013 #45
some men want to be the prey also, its noy so black and white. loli phabay Oct 2013 #40
you understand neither predation nor the male psyche then. tillikum Oct 2013 #38
It would have made the poll too long. And by including only two of your insults Doctor_J Sep 2013 #31
Oh, I'm sorry quoting in totality my message would have made your poll too long. Gravitycollapse Sep 2013 #32
And it was the most damning aspects of your insult. ElboRuum Sep 2013 #34
interested in understanding where you are coming from with demeaning loli phabay Oct 2013 #43
Define excessive. PeteSelman Oct 2013 #37
three days, wow your almost a monk loli phabay Oct 2013 #41
Haha! PeteSelman Oct 2013 #48
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