Men's Group

leaves the door open to accusations of creepiness.

I mean, the shitstorm was entirely predictable- right up to the combination of yowling outrage over remonstrations that people should have made to you but didn't, or didn't quickly enough, along with the flagrant just making shit up out of whole cloth and then pretending as if they were things people actually said in response... (an old favorite)

but that said, we have concepts like "consenting adults" for a reason, as much as some love to pretend that any adult who does stuff that pisses them off or they don't agree with, deserves to be treated like a child with no agency who can't possibly consent.

You would do well to make it extra clear in the future when you're asking these sorts of questions, that you're clearly talking about consenting adults and not trying to justify or make some sideways argument for child abuse.