Barack Obama

is your right; if one of us disagrees with you there in that other place, we might be upset with what you say there, but likely far less so with the fact that you said it. I trust that over time, your understanding and approval of him will grow. I've gradually learned myself that when something he (or another Dem) does upsets me at first, my best reaction is to study the matter further. Generally with more information and understanding, my stress level drops.