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pat_k

(12,568 posts)
22. A little follow up...
Sat Nov 22, 2025, 09:46 PM
Saturday

I was in an accident in which I was making a left turn from a small residential street onto another residential, but busier thoroughfare. The story follows. But the bottom line is that the experts can tell a hell of a lot from the nature of the damage about who was responsible for yielding the right of way, or who failed to do something they should have to avoid the accident. Nothing anyone can say can change the nature of the damage.

In my case, it was an uncontrolled intersection with stop signs and white lines on the small cross street. After I had moved beyond the white line to see (there was a bush it was difficult to see around), while I was looking left, all the sudden there was this terrible squealing sound. A driver in an SUV taking a left onto the street I was coming out of cut their turn way too close. The side of their car hit the left front corner of mine leaving a long side swipe on their car.

The other driver tried to claim I hit him while pulling out. I took photos at the scene, including the relative positions of our cars immediately after, photos of the complete absence of visibility when I stood at the white line, long side swipe on the other car, crunched bits of the left front fender and quarter panel of my car

Anyway, whether it was the photos I submitted to the insurance company or just the adjuster's inspection of my vehicle and the other vehicle, they found that the other driver's claim to their insurance company that I hit them was wrong. It was obvious from the nature of the damage that I was stationary (or inching forward) while the other car was in motion. That, yes, I was well-passed the white line, but I was not far enough to interfere with cross traffic. There was no other way to get the necessary view of traffic than to "sneak out." I think it came down to an assessment that I was an object that the other driver could see, and should have seen. Hitting me was 100% the other driver's fault.

I don't know if this helps at all with your situation, but it sounds to me a bit like you were an object that the person who hit you was responsible for being aware of.



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Live in Vegas and OMG vapor2 Friday #1
InThink this guy was an undercover cap cuz.They're all buddy , Tribetime Friday #2
Absolutely talk to a lawyer. pat_k Friday #3
Yes, you should! 2naSalit Friday #10
Relax and feel better. Shit happens it's a terrible feeling but you get better. Walleye Friday #4
Yes , I know that feeling I was downtown cleveland Tribetime Friday #8
Good job, it's fraught with danger out there Walleye Saturday #16
No injuries? True Dough Friday #5
That sucks! I had something similar happen. Rizen Friday #6
Oh man.I'm so sorry I feel your pain Tribetime Friday #7
I lost my car in a similar way CountAllVotes Friday #9
That is terrible. 58Sunliner Friday #14
It pays to get a cheap dash board camera KS Toronado Friday #11
I was going to get the kid one and myself onr for christmas Tribetime Saturday #15
Thanks for the reminder. multigraincracker Sunday #26
Have a grandchild close by? KS Toronado Sunday #27
So sorry to hear this... Trueblue Texan Friday #12
I'm hoping you had a dash cam or someone else who was there, did. 58Sunliner Friday #13
If the cop didn't witness the accident, I'm surprised he wrote a ticket. Emile Saturday #17
Ty Tribetime Saturday #18
Yeah he told me you can't go past the white line at the beginning of the intersection Tribetime Saturday #19
Truck drivers learn quickly to keep quiet when Emile Saturday #20
"Can't go past the white line" isn't exactly true. pat_k Saturday #23
That is not correct. mnhtnbb Monday #30
Hope you're ok justaprogressive Saturday #21
A little follow up... pat_k Saturday #22
They were citing him for going through the red light but they also said Tribetime Sunday #28
Keep us posted how it plays out. Hope you find good legal advice! pat_k Sunday #29
Every single driver needs a dashcam. Every single one. flvegan Sunday #24
It's getting aggressive and unsafe out there Niagara Sunday #25
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