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mike_c

(36,866 posts)
19. my experience is that truth is always best
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 12:22 PM
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Even good intentioned lies eventually become indefensible and are never a good look. The truth usually comes out sooner or later.

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Yes, always. Aviation Pro Nov 20 #1
Thank you very much, Aviation Pro, I agree with your statement. debm55 Nov 20 #2
I think honesty is usually the best path unless it can causes hurt that serves no purpose. walkingman Nov 20 #3
if you can't say something good don't say anything at all. rampartd Nov 20 #10
I always side with telling the truth Grim Chieftain Nov 20 #4
Well, don't lie. Full truth is not always necessary if bad feelings will likely result among family, etc. No Vested Interest Nov 20 #5
Being truthful is important.... anciano Nov 20 #6
Nobody likes being lied to. Dorothy V Nov 20 #7
Someone told me many years ago, and I carry it to this day JMCKUSICK Nov 20 #8
That is so true. zanana1 Friday #13
Knowing those moments when the bald truth is really not appropriate, nocoincidences Nov 20 #9
I never lie about anything JoseBalow Friday #11
I don't know any more! True Dough Friday #12
The truth can be an insult. zanana1 Friday #14
Yes. a white lie or not saying saying anything. But when does the "truth" step into gaslighting? debm55 Friday #15
I support Kurt Vonnegut's concept of "foma" - harmless untruths. Aristus Friday #16
But if it not true, is it not a lie? debm55 Friday #17
Probably not, but I do anyway. malthaussen Friday #18
Thank you very much malthaussen. Sometimes the truth will out. but sometimes it doesn't debm55 Friday #20
my experience is that truth is always best mike_c Friday #19
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