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LuckyCharms

(21,236 posts)
21. When we are in chronic pain...
Thu Oct 9, 2025, 08:57 PM
Oct 9

it's almost like we are compelled to talk about it. It becomes central to who we are. When people ask "How are you" and we reply "good", we feel like liars. At least I do.

I can commiserate with you about how you are feeling. I used to be a runner, and I worked out faithfully for a few decades, lifting heavy weights. Now? That 1/4 mile walk, then the next 1/4 mile back to the car...bothered me. I didn't get winded, but my back and pelvis hurt so bad, all I could think was WTF!

To my knowledge, I've never had Covid. But the way I feel sometimes, I wonder if I DID indeed have it at some point and didn't know it, and now I have long Covid?

I don't know...I'm pretty sure there is no definitive test for long Covid, but I'm guessing by now that there is some kind of protocol in the medical profession where a doctor can take a look at your signs and symptoms, and at least make a guess, if not a formal diagnosis, on whether you have long Covid or not. But again, I've never had reason to question this in my own case, because I've never tested positive. However, I became the world's biggest hermit for 5 years, and that has affected me both mentally and physically, so who knows why things are the way they are.

I think I saw that you posted your age once. I think you are a year or two older than me. One way I am changing is that I no longer worry about stating how I feel. I no longer worry about how others view me. If I feel like talking about it, I do. If I don't, I don't.

Best wishes, and hang tough.

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Boy have I got a story for you ... dweller Oct 9 #1
OK chief! Let's do lunch real soon! LuckyCharms Oct 9 #3
Your story reminds me of my older friend dweller Oct 9 #16
This is amazing. LuckyCharms Oct 9 #17
My dear LuckyCharms! I want you to know that *I* care. About you, your life, anything you want to talk about! CaliforniaPeggy Oct 9 #2
I'm fine, Peg, but thank you. LuckyCharms Oct 9 #4
You're welcome. I am doing well too, and thank you! CaliforniaPeggy Oct 9 #5
You must have one of those faces that encourages people to open up to you. MIButterfly Oct 9 #6
This happened to Lucky when he was fully masked Niagara Oct 9 #12
He had on a mask AND sunglasses? MIButterfly Oct 9 #13
I'm sorry. I didn't mean this particular event or doctors visit Niagara Oct 9 #14
Even strangers love Lucky and are attracted by his empathetic aura. quaint Oct 9 #7
I learned quite early in my nursing career to never, EVER, tell anyone I was a nurse... 3catwoman3 Oct 9 #8
So, I guess you're not going to tell us what the sunglasses are called. 2MuchNoise Oct 9 #9
Here's a link. I got the blue ones. LuckyCharms Oct 9 #10
LOL, Thanks. 2MuchNoise Oct 9 #11
You must be a very approachable dude. Prairie_Seagull Oct 9 #15
He's a very nice guy... LuckyCharms Oct 9 #24
I *do* care about that Oeditpus Rex Oct 9 #18
When we are in chronic pain... LuckyCharms Oct 9 #21
That's the most touching post I've read on DU Oeditpus Rex Oct 9 #25
Frankly, your story is better than a lot of stories on Netflix. chouchou Oct 9 #19
Oh thank you... LuckyCharms Oct 9 #23
Now, if you would have STARTED at the weed store... WestMichRad Oct 9 #20
I probably should have started there, but I was driving... LuckyCharms Oct 9 #22
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