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Figarosmom

(8,492 posts)
30. Yeah....
Sat Sep 6, 2025, 03:10 AM
Sep 6

Last edited Sat Sep 6, 2025, 04:25 AM - Edit history (1)

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There are times when I would just take a day or two off and do just what I want. It could be sleeping all day or doing bongs all day or just playing music and singing. I don't answer the door or the phone, it's my home a d my choice when I do so. Just to wipe out the reality of life for a while and live in the fantasy.


Or there is this guy
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We all need to take the time for just us.

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I'm so sorry for your losses. I know how those can affect you. rsdsharp Sep 3 #1
It will pass. A world with sparkly leaves & hummingbirds is still beautiful & inspiring. Take your time to heal. . . Bernardo de La Paz Sep 3 #2
You know that I care what happens to you ZZenith Sep 3 #3
Thank you. That song has been in a loop in my head for several weeks. LuckyCharms Sep 3 #4
We love you, Lucky Charms. ZZenith Sep 4 #17
Nice touch. Harker Sep 3 #6
The good thing is that... Tesha Sep 3 #5
Awful times, awful feelings. You're part of this community... TygrBright Sep 3 #7
I cannot, I'm sure, offer a fix, but if I may be permitted advice, it would be "find that magnificent sense... NNadir Sep 3 #8
I'm scared, I'm in trouble, and I'm crashing. LuckyCharms Sep 3 #10
I wouldn't be ashamed of being in trouble, even big trouble. Perhaps it won't help much, but at such points I pull... NNadir Sep 3 #12
NNadir... LuckyCharms Sep 3 #13
My experience with grief is that is never "resolved" or goes away, but one learns to live with it. NNadir Sep 3 #16
I so hear you LuckyCharms CountAllVotes Sep 6 #32
How about some bad poetry I wrote 47 years ago when I was super buzzed on some good weed Martin Eden Sep 3 #15
... MiHale Sep 3 #9
I think I may know how you feel MW67 Sep 3 #11
damn markie Sep 3 #14
Don't have anything wise to say, just sending you love. HeartsCanHope Sep 4 #18
''Your brain is not designed to make you happy, it's made to keep you alive. '' Donkees Sep 4 #19
That was exceptionally helpful. It further convinces me of the effectiveness of CBT. halobeam Sep 6 #29
Thoughts are living things, and I trust that your words have the power to reach Lucky. Donkees Sep 6 #31
Every day you live there is hope Marthe48 Sep 4 #20
We love and care. quaint Sep 4 #21
Try Yale's Science of Well Being course SheltieLover Sep 5 #22
A song for you, my friend UpInArms Sep 5 #23
We love you murielm99 Sep 5 #24
Sounds like you are experiencing the dark night of the soul Clouds Passing Sep 5 #25
You have experienced a lot of recent heavy losses...It can spin a person around! Seems natural for u 2 feel this bad... electric_blue68 Sep 5 #26
A healing hug 🫂 to you. mwmisses4289 Sep 5 #27
Thank you for sharing. I just live that way WhiteTara Sep 6 #28
Yeah.... Figarosmom Sep 6 #30
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