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BobTheSubgenius

(12,157 posts)
44. First, congratulations on both your principles and the upshot.
Sun Nov 16, 2025, 01:08 PM
Sunday

You will have a far better time at the event that sounds FAR more in line with the (vanishing?) spirit of REAL Thanksgiving.

The best T"ing I ever had was not the same, but a bit off beat. My ex, then GF, and I spent the long weekend helping friends build their chalet at Whistler. On "the day", my friend and I spent the day slowly building our way up the side of the building until we had a deck built, that accessed the second floor, but without stairs, as yet. It had been sleeting somewhat all day, and we came in freezing and soaked.

"Inside" was the home of the next-door neighbour who was incredibly gracious and generous. He let the gaggle of us sleep on foamies on the floor, shower, etc. My GF and I had the most enjoyable, almost hedonistic shower I've ever had, and when I had thawed out, we finally went upstairs to find 2 cars full of people had arrived, bringing what was basically 2 turkey dinners.

There was next to no furniture in the place, and lots of finishing work left to do on the place, so we took 2 bedroom doors off their hinges, put them on....I don't remember what...and we all sat on the floor around this huge makeshift table. I knew - at most - 13 of the people, but the feel of the room was incredibly close.

Never had a T'ing close to as good, before or since, and I would do that exact day again and again....except for the working in the sleet part. That was almost 50 years ago, and there is NO WAY this old body could do that part now.

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Sounds like a pretty good Plan B - enjoy!! hatrack Sunday #1
Sounds like a nice party you'll attend. elleng Sunday #2
Congratulations! You have endured enough hard knocks in life and deserve to say your piece. John1956PA Sunday #3
Odd how some are willing to listen to the conman all day long but close ears to family members lostnfound Sunday #4
It's really a shame that anyone in a 'family' has to go through this. Abolishinist Sunday #5
Life is short KentuckyWoman Sunday #11
Love your post! BobsYourUncle Monday #59
Congratulations! You stood up for yourself, stood up for the right side, and you won't have to spend highplainsdem Sunday #6
You had me at "five bean baked beans." NBachers Sunday #7
That kid was born doomed KentuckyWoman Sunday #36
Sounds like you're ending up back in the briar patch. hay rick Sunday #8
That sounds like a great Thanksgiving! C Moon Sunday #9
Sounds like your prospects for a nice Thanksgiving have vastly improved! SunSeeker Sunday #10
Sounds like your Thanksgiving will be lots of fun and less stressful this year. HeartsCanHope Sunday #12
You WIN! BaronChocula Sunday #13
Or you can come to our house. tavernier Sunday #14
Hey, Kentucky Woman! I just moved to a senior village and yours sounds great. I wish ours supported low income seniors. CTyankee Sunday #15
Retired time. KentuckyWoman Sunday #17
My community is Masonicare and I alway associated Masons as a semi-religious group. CTyankee Sunday #20
Your new plans sound like fun Sanity Claws Sunday #16
Sounds like a lot more fun.. mountain grammy Sunday #18
at least you'll be able to keep your dinner down! nt Trueblue Texan Sunday #19
Far too many families... BH liberal Sunday #21
You can't choose your family, but you can choose your friends. Midnight Writer Sunday #22
I do believe you will have a much happieer TG at you villiage home. Best to you. riversedge Sunday #23
Of all my wife's relations I like myself the best. twodogsbarking Sunday #24
Good for you! Have fun and think of all the misery you avoided. 58Sunliner Sunday #25
Sounds to me like your Thanksgiving with the seniors will be better anyway! CousinIT Sunday #26
Your planned Thanksgiving sounds beautiful. You've been "disinvited" to suffering to be invited to real joy. NNadir Sunday #27
I'd say you lucked out! Linda ladeewolf Sunday #28
When you are finally free to enjoy your Thanksgiving YOUR way BobsYourUncle Monday #60
Hey KentuckyWoman, So happy for YOU!! I look at this as bluestarone Sunday #29
Sincere congrats, KentuckyWoman. Paladin Sunday #30
"To argue with a man who has renounced the use and authority of reason Ping Tung Sunday #31
5 bean baked beans! That sounds awesome! Clouds Passing Sunday #32
Sounds like a great Thanksgiving plan! Ritabert Sunday #33
It's not really the food. Turbineguy Sunday #34
Congrats! "Pissant". Heh. Sounds like a hopelessly (and willfully ignorant ) lost sect. Evolve Dammit Sunday #35
you have reason to give thanks barbtries Sunday #37
Good for you Lotusflower70 Sunday #38
Congratulations! Sounds like a great way to spend the day. Phoenix61 Sunday #39
Congrats Duncanpup Sunday #40
Have fun with people who will not be assholes at dinner LetMyPeopleVote Sunday #41
You will have the satisfaction of knowing you made a lot of people have a little joy in their lives for a day. appleannie1 Sunday #42
Good for you. mgardener Sunday #43
First, congratulations on both your principles and the upshot. BobTheSubgenius Sunday #44
"" AllaN01Bear Sunday #45
Your senior village party sounds more like family anyway.... KY_EnviroGuy Sunday #46
Life is too short to deal with tall, featherless, birdbrained humoid turkeys Attilatheblond Sunday #47
Now we must have your recipe. NameAlreadyTaken Sunday #48
Its easy KentuckyWoman Monday #62
OK thank you. NameAlreadyTaken Monday #63
If I were in your shoes I'd be VERY thankful Blue Owl Sunday #49
When it comes to relationships, I can count mine with the fingers of one hand, with one finger left over Xipe Totec Sunday #50
Insurance enid602 Sunday #51
I remember reading of a guy who only see relative at TG, show up, eat, and leave. Not talk to anyone. twodogsbarking Sunday #52
Be thankful you don't have to have turkey everyday BattleRow Sunday #53
Congratulations! You Will Now Spend Thanksgiving With Deserving People.... ColoringFool Sunday #54
Sounds like you've connected with the right group for Thanksgiving. WestMichRad Sunday #55
There are 2 of those in my extended family, cousins I haven't seen in decades Warpy Sunday #56
The rubber stamp KentuckyWoman Monday #61
Llts of outfits are doing custom stamps in the $30-$35 range Warpy Monday #64
Excellent outcome! And sounds like a lot of fun Joinfortmill Sunday #57
Good for you! Sounds like you'll be at a much more enjoyable party. electric_blue68 Sunday #58
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