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Mossfern

(4,182 posts)
45. I stopped coloring my hair during Covid
Tue Jul 29, 2025, 05:56 PM
Tuesday

The hairdresser I had been using kept telling me that I wasn't "ready" yet. Then I found out that he was a Trump supporter, so I stopped going to him. My new hairdresser just poo-pooed what he said and told me that by the color of my roots, my hair would look great natural.

I had been dying my hair brown - which always faded and became what I called Old Lady Brown, and I was sick at looking at that stripe if I waited too long between colorings. It turns out that my hair is a beautiful shade of silver with dark streaks that give it a dimensional look.

My friends who were discouraging me from going natural were quite surprised at how fantastic it looks. My husband was concerned that I would look "old", my friends were concerned I would look "washed out". I cut my long hair and now rock an edgy short hair style. BTW, I told my husband "I AM old!"

I do wear make-up every day though because I have red blotches that are kind of like a birthmark that make me look like someone slapped me in my face, and I got tired of people asking me about what happened to my face.

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Men teach their own sons (by example) to ignore women over a certain age, excepting their own mothers (usually)... hlthe2b Tuesday #1
This message was self-deleted by its author BannonsLiver Tuesday #32
That is so true. I hate being invisible. LisaM Tuesday #36
I love being invisible. Demobrat Tuesday #42
Every time I say it, someone says how great it is. That bothers me LisaM Tuesday #47
You're right Lisa. It sucks when we share a vulnerability, something which Maru Kitteh Tuesday #59
same Skittles Tuesday #53
It took me a while until I realised that being invisible GenThePerservering Tuesday #55
I like being invisible but sometimes I still get noticed and I get upset. kimbutgar Tuesday #58
Fortunately the Internet is a cornucopia of women supporting each other TheProle Tuesday #40
Yes, right. NT GenThePerservering Tuesday #56
I have never had any kind of cosmetic surgery Jilly_in_VA Tuesday #2
Ha! You sound exactly like me! senseandsensibility Tuesday #3
My Wife Doesn't Either ProfessorGAC Tuesday #9
Me too! My DH and my boys love me the way I am Bettie Tuesday #15
that's something I learned a long time ago Skittles Tuesday #29
I'm still coming to terms with aging Bettie Tuesday #31
One thing about getting older is less interest in what other people think Ritabert Tuesday #4
I have a dear friend I've known almost 50 years. She and her sister were the two most attractive women Deuxcents Tuesday #5
Wow that's a shame. Ritabert Tuesday #6
It really is. The push to look the way the newest trend is has been a big marketing blow to many people Deuxcents Tuesday #10
And permanent eyeliner and lip liner are a real mistake Ritabert Tuesday #37
The comments I read regarding women not coloring their hair anymore is so frustrating and sad oregonjen Tuesday #7
That's terrible that support groups are needed senseandsensibility Tuesday #8
Let's apply positives, let's call women distinguished. . . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Tuesday #13
I've always had very dark hair Bettie Tuesday #16
I think mid stage looks so cool! oregonjen Tuesday #18
I occasionally use a temporary color Bettie Tuesday #21
I gave it up due to maintenance on the roots Ritabert Tuesday #38
Me too Unwind Your Mind Tuesday #46
Wow. You lucked out. Ritabert Wednesday #63
I stopped coloring my hair during Covid Mossfern Tuesday #45
Same here. My hairdresser was terrific & I went to her for about 35 years. Great auburn color... Hekate Wednesday #61
About the eye thing ..... Mossfern Wednesday #62
I stopped dying my hair in 2008, I thought if men can let their hair become gray MagickMuffin Tuesday #22
Sometimes, I'm tempted to put "low lights" in my silver hair WhiteTara Tuesday #34
I have the opposite problem BigmanPigman Tuesday #43
Is it me? SocialDemocrat61 Tuesday #11
Killing the spirit, at least partially, on such a large scale is, at least partially, a genocide of sorts. Bernardo de La Paz Tuesday #14
The pressure to be very thin is also Bettie Tuesday #25
Very true SocialDemocrat61 Tuesday #51
don't care for the word genocide here Skittles Tuesday #12
To pushback a bit, it's the societal pressure that women face to look as young as possible oregonjen Tuesday #17
well I guess that pressure never worked on me and many others Skittles Tuesday #20
It's everywhere in the media oregonjen Tuesday #23
no one says you have to pay attention to it Skittles Tuesday #26
Of course, you're right, I'm trying to teach my kids that. oregonjen Tuesday #28
EXCELLENT Skittles Tuesday #30
Probably because it's the wrong word. maxsolomon Tuesday #49
Joan Rivers died during surgery Mossfern Tuesday #52
Laryngoscopy I see maxsolomon Tuesday #60
Women (and men) for as long as there have been women and men have obsessed over physical appearance ToxMarz Tuesday #19
She says she means it's "disfigurement" -- in that case she should bloody well say so Hekate Tuesday #24
There are procedures that are less invasive that may be better. To me, many woman celebs who get them look maybe twodogsbarking Tuesday #27
There is a saying: you can either look old or look weird. Still I believe jrthin Tuesday #33
What will be biologically possible in the future Johonny Tuesday #35
Stealing "cosmeceutical industrial complex". I have long pointed out niyad Tuesday #39
Recommended. H2O Man Tuesday #41
I wore makeup occasionally in a very brief period as a new lawyer - Ms. Toad Tuesday #44
I've thought Jamie Lee Curtis was beautiful... appmanga Tuesday #48
I disagree with the use of the word Luciferous Tuesday #50
I had to quit coloring my hair about 5yrs ago. I developed a very bad allergic Raine Tuesday #54
I've had one plastic surgery procedure and I'd do it again in a heartbeat. 3catwoman3 Tuesday #57
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