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Beastly Boy

(13,053 posts)
Mon Jul 21, 2025, 11:41 AM 20 hrs ago

Debra Messing: My inconvenient Jewish fear

For 25 years, no one has questioned my commitment to social justice. But now, when the people being threatened are my own, when I speak out against calls for the extermination of Jews, I am suddenly contemptible. Every post I share on social media, no matter how apolitical, is inundated with hateful comments.

It’s devastating. I’ve always known antisemitism existed on the far right. It’s been there in plain sight. The conspiracy theories. The slogans. The swastikas. The tiki torches. That kind of hatred wears no mask.What I did not expect was to see its shadow growing in places I had always trusted. In rooms that had always felt safe. Among people who say they stand for the vulnerable. At first, the shift was subtle. A hesitation in the room when antisemitism came up. A quiet recalibration when I mentioned Jewish safety. Then it became louder. Stomach-turning chants heard outside my window every weekend. Statements left unchallenged. Leaders who once stood for all marginalized people suddenly growing quiet when the hate was directed at Jews.

Progressives often speak about centering marginalized voices. About listening to the lived experiences of those who have been hurt. About micro-aggressions and how to avoid them. But when Jewish people speak about our fear, our trauma, our history, our murdered families, we are too often met with silence. Or suspicion. Or conditional solidarity.

There’s a phrase that is central to almost every protest: “Globalize the intifada.” Some say it’s a call for justice. But for those of us who know what the word intifada has meant in practice, it’s not abstract. It’s not academic. It’s historical. And it’s personal. It’s the bombing of a Jerusalem café where a Holocaust survivor went to have tea. It’s the murder of a bride the night before her wedding. It’s a school bus full of young children snuffed out by a suicide bomber. It’s the story a friend told me about a grandmother and her 2-year-old grandchild killed while buying ice cream. These are not metaphors. These are memories. And they are real for so many Jews.
https://blogs.timesofisrael.com/my-inconvenient-jewish-fear/?_gl=1
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Debra Messing: My inconvenient Jewish fear (Original Post) Beastly Boy 20 hrs ago OP
This is why i don't trust JustAnotherGen 20 hrs ago #1
I don't know what hurt more Oct 7th or Oct 8th Ken Dayenu 20 hrs ago #2
I'm only half Jewish, on my Dad's mom side... FirstLight 19 hrs ago #3

JustAnotherGen

(35,694 posts)
1. This is why i don't trust
Mon Jul 21, 2025, 11:51 AM
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The far left Progressive movements/branches on the Left.

9 years ago these folks began insisting that a rising tide lifts all boats - when it NEVER HAS in America.

Progressives often speak about centering marginalized voices. About listening to the lived experiences of those who have been hurt. About micro-aggressions and how to avoid them. But when Jewish people speak about our fear, our trauma, our history, our murdered families, we are too often met with silence. Or suspicion. Or conditional solidarity.


It's only when it is convenient for them. The self designated young white woman of the "black lives matter" *Fad* in my community that I vociferously locked horns with has completely crawled away.

Her new thing is Gaza.

Jewish, Black, Indigenous - they always use us.

What they call Democrats of the elite variety - actually do give a damn about us.

Don't tell me Lisa Blunt Rochester, Jasmine Crockett or JB Pritzker don't care. I still believe that had Doug been a member of a Christian sect - Harris wouldn't have had the *Genocider* slur thrown at her.

But - we never talk about that because it might offend *polite anti-semites*.

FirstLight

(15,493 posts)
3. I'm only half Jewish, on my Dad's mom side...
Mon Jul 21, 2025, 12:37 PM
19 hrs ago

never praticed except for being in B'nai B'rith Youth Org in my teens... my middle kid has really dug into the community and goes to synagogue etc. I worry about their safety, because they are trans and openly Jewish in NC.

I have such a hard time reconciling my own feelings towards my Jewishness... I am horrified by the actions of Israel and Netanyahu in Palestine. And while I understand the terrorism has been going on for generations, that doesn't make any of it 'right'... and while I cringe everytime I see another open attack on people just trying to eat - I think about the long term abuse Jews have underwent, at the hands of both christians and muslims.

This article hurts.
Jews all over the world must have these feelings, but especially in the US...where the evangelicals want to support them for their own 'end times' purposes. AND, as you said so eloquently above, the Liberals wo wear a star of david in alliance with their Black Lives Matter and LGBTQ patches as well, not for real solidarity, but convieninece.

Don't know what the answer is, but this is a conversation we need to have as a nation. So much to be healed.

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