It is grooming women who: 1) do not work in tech, 2) do not want to work in tech, 3) do not want to waste all their time trying to figure out how creepy and unwanted rubbish tech works and 4) refuse to pretend that some sort of system of trust exists between a user (which has a dual meaning in my case, as an mj user) with a notoriously corrupt industry like the present day tech sector. The purpose is to dupe women into accepting ever increasing degrees of constant discomfort which a mere 15 years ago would have been considered super creepy and invasive. The invasion of living and working spaces without explanation in this way was unexpected.

No one sane trusts the contemporary tech sector. There may be some laggards who still buy the blandly sleazy and mechanical “progressivism” of Apple, Google, Microsoft, Facebook etc as anything but phony bs. But there are way fewer such people these days than say in 2015.

I will cut to the chase and keep this as simple as possible under the circumstances. Sadly I cannot be as laconic as I would like to be.

I am writing this mainly for women who might be receptive to this and even relieved that someone finally said it. This phase of undemocratic technological regress should be checked asap imo.

And you know..men!!!! Yes!! Bros!!!! Burgers and sports! Porn!! I don’t know..I am not very smooth and it tends to turn into rambling volumes of logorrhoea when I try to vaguely reassure..you know..men or something.

The gist is that no one is filing false allegations against you if you have absolutely nothing to do with me or my specific complaints. So go away. It is hard to target stuff this way. Local to me, yeah it is all creepy as was most of the last 14.5 years, but if you are some doltish random who takes it personally please don’t. Unless you work on creepy areas of tech while living in: Si Valley or a communist podunk in the global south and are generally like these guys:

I say doltish because sometimes it seems to be hard to get it through that at least in my experience (which has shaped me), for the most part at an appropriate distance most men are not creeps. But there seems to be a lot of general alarm when women start talking about filing complaints. I really don’t want to be sent back to the psychiatric hospital. I have come to fear male panic.

So it is okay man. Calm down. If you didn’t deliberately drive up and down a street in a communist state in the global south or work in a shitty Sidewalks Lab type of hell in Si Valley, it is not about you.

And there is something fake and disingenuous about fear driven fake empathy so I am not doing that anymore. But I cannot see that this creepy Panopticon is doing most men any favors either. It is a form of inquisition for men as much as for women, just in different ways.

And only a creepy subset of people trying to normalize each new creepy excess actually gain from this. It doesn’t even lead to tawdry pleasures for the vast majority whose job isn’t building, shilling or enabling this trash. And it creates a permacrisis and bullshit work (paid and unpaid). It has no pluses and cannot be forced as it was.

I tried this exercise over and over, but it wasn’t working. I have finally decided to keep it simple and about misconduct (in human subject research), malpractice (in psychiatry) and grooming, exploitation and harassment (sexual and other) involving the forcing of unwanted technological “progress” in Si Valley (Sept 5, 2011-Apr 18, 2012) and later in a podunk in the global south. This is largely a pleasant, quiet, sleepy place. But it is only a livable place minus these creeps forcing their misogynistic harassment and other creeps enabling it/dismissive of it.

There is no way in hell a non-malicious man or woman could fail to see how outrageous it was to force this here if you are honest at all about how socially conservative this place is.

Okay mindnumbingly stupidity and cluelessness would be the other explanation and that is not something to permit either let alone celebrate.

I will now flesh out all relevant details overtime as I finally set my life back in order.
This reminds me of my workplace from 2011. Coercive control sounds about right:

https://rainn.org/get-the-facts-about-sexual-violence/get-the-facts-about-grooming/