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MIButterfly

(3,617 posts)
Wed Jul 8, 2026, 10:52 AM 5 hrs ago

I just got a call from the vet's office

and Holly's ashes and memorial plate are ready for pickup. I'll have to get up off the couch, where I've been pretty much glued for two days, and go get them. I looked up the cremation place online and the plate seems to be not a 6" or so sized plate with the paw print in the middle, but just the size of her print. Whatever.

I am obviously not dealing with this very well. Thank goodness for Martini; having her and having to take care of her helps. Otherwise, I'd be in even worse shape than I am now. I'd probably never get off the couch.

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I just got a call from the vet's office (Original Post) MIButterfly 5 hrs ago OP
- mdbl 5 hrs ago #1
I'm so sorry. It never gets easier FullySupportDems 5 hrs ago #2
Just a Thought ahnakneemoose 4 hrs ago #3
🥺 alittlelark 4 hrs ago #4
We just lost our two fur babies in the last month. The Wizard 4 hrs ago #5
I'm so sorry for your loss, The Wizard MIButterfly 4 hrs ago #6
I am so very sorry for the loss of Holly Grim Chieftain 4 hrs ago #7
I'm so sorry, but I completely understand. littlemissmartypants 2 hrs ago #8
I'm so sorry. Pets add so much goodness to our lives MackinacBridge 2 hrs ago #9

FullySupportDems

(531 posts)
2. I'm so sorry. It never gets easier
Wed Jul 8, 2026, 11:01 AM
5 hrs ago

We've lost many dogs and cats now. But it hurts so much every time. You reminded me of what we inscribed on our beloved yellow lab Tyson's urn -

If love could have kept you alive
You would have lived forever

I still tear up. I hope you can feel a little better today. It will get better. You are not alone. Hugs to you.

ahnakneemoose

(117 posts)
3. Just a Thought
Wed Jul 8, 2026, 11:10 AM
4 hrs ago

On your way, perhaps stop at any nearby department store and wander around in the kitchen goods area. I found a very nice porcelain container that served well for my Daisy. No, it did not come from my vet, but I did pick it out and now it's become 'special' for us. I glued the lid shut and the entire purchase and transfer routine became a shared memory (of sorts).

Remember: Just a Thought

The Wizard

(13,988 posts)
5. We just lost our two fur babies in the last month.
Wed Jul 8, 2026, 11:16 AM
4 hrs ago

I've never been so sad.
"We who choose to surround ourselves with lives even more temporary than our own live within a fragile circle."
(Irving Townsend)

Grim Chieftain

(2,403 posts)
7. I am so very sorry for the loss of Holly
Wed Jul 8, 2026, 11:40 AM
4 hrs ago

The loss of a beloved pet is absolutely heartbreaking. I hope you can take comfort in knowing you were a wonderful pet parent and gave Holly a life filled with love.

You are in my thoughts, MIButterfly.

littlemissmartypants

(35,816 posts)
8. I'm so sorry, but I completely understand.
Wed Jul 8, 2026, 01:47 PM
2 hrs ago

The day that I found my very first kitty, Diamond Eyes, dead on the highway still seems like yesterday. I was eight years old. More than sixty years ago and I can still see her beautiful long grey coat and her bewitching eyes in my mind.

Nothing prepares us.

Be kind to yourself, MIButterfly. We love you.



❤️

MackinacBridge

(40 posts)
9. I'm so sorry. Pets add so much goodness to our lives
Wed Jul 8, 2026, 01:49 PM
2 hrs ago

I'm thinking of you as you are bringing your little Holly back home. You and Martini will need to love on each other in the days ahead.

Both our pets (one cat, one dog) are seniors. We know how incredibly fortunate we are that they are healthy so far. Your journey with Holly is a stark reminder of how quickly things can change. She was lucky to have such a caring human.

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