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Mon Sep 22, 2025, 04:52 PM Monday

Boomer Dad Paid $25K for His First Home in 1980. Now Admits To His Kids, 'This Isn't Just Expensive...It's Impossible.

Full headline: Boomer Dad Paid $25K for His First Home in 1980. Now Admits To His Kids, 'This Isn't Just Expensive...It's Impossible. You're Playing a Rigged Game'

For years, generational debates have been fueled by the same talking points: avocado toast, lazy work ethics, and complaints about "kids these days." But when it comes to housing, the clash between baby boomers and younger generations isn't just a culture war—it's a balance sheet problem.

A man recalled how his boomer father, born in the 1950s, would always tell him "kids today just don't work as hard." Back in 1980, that same dad and his mom bought their first home for $25,000. Their combined household income? $11,000. Just two years' worth of paychecks, and they were homeowners.

Fast forward to the present. When the son and his partner began house-hunting, his father insisted they were looking "way outside" their means. So the son challenged him: go find a house today at the price he thought was fair. Hours later, the boomer dad returned pale, admitting defeat. "This isn't just expensive... it's impossible. You're playing a rigged game."

Another user said their grandfather bought a six-bedroom home in 1970 for $40,000. Today, it's worth close to $950,000. When the younger family member adjusted that $40,000 for inflation—about $333,000 in 2025 dollars—the math still didn't add up. They asked their grandfather point blank if he'd sell the home for $333,000. His silence was telling.

It wasn't just one dad admitting prices are high. It was a recognition that the playing field has shifted. Wages haven't kept pace, mortgage requirements are stricter, and institutional buyers are outbidding families. What was once achievable in two years of income now looks like a lifetime of debt.

https://finance.yahoo.com/news/boomer-dad-paid-25k-first-151630128.html?ICID=ref_fark&fr=yhssrp_catchall


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yorkster

(3,404 posts)
11. In certain parts if the country, downsizing
Mon Sep 22, 2025, 06:19 PM
Monday

to a condo or 2bdrm costs same or more than you can get for your current home.
For many their home is most of their equity. So, the result is stasis. Also, in many cases mortgages are paid off at closing, deducted from the profit of course.
For many who want to go smaller, it may be the last time they have a choice about where they live. Potentially the final sale of their major asset. The next step may be renting or "the Home".
Who knows...or you stay put if you can and do repairs and upgrades as funds permit and eventually move on and out.

Silent Type

(11,246 posts)
3. I wish houses had remained same size as our first one in 1952. 800 sq ft, 1 bath, 2 bedrooms.
Mon Sep 22, 2025, 05:18 PM
Monday

That would have helped a lot. Hope local communities fight out an answer.

dem4decades

(13,180 posts)
7. Having grown up in a 3 bedroom, 1 bath house that's not ideal.
Mon Sep 22, 2025, 05:24 PM
Monday

Especially when the old man sat in the bathroom for 15 minutes smoking his cigarette and preparing for work.

Silent Type

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8. My dad smoked in bathroom too, hated going in there. Of course in a small home, everything stunk.
Mon Sep 22, 2025, 05:26 PM
Monday

But we were happy, didn’t know any difference.

dem4decades

(13,180 posts)
9. Driving around in the 65 Chevy wasn't pleasant either, especially winter, windows up, smoke in.
Mon Sep 22, 2025, 05:32 PM
Monday

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