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Alexandria pastors Charlie Kirk comments spark national debate
By Ryan Belmore
Published September 15, 2025 at 9:41AM

The Rev. Dr. Howard-John Wesley delivers his Sunday sermon at Alfred Street Baptist Church in Alexandria, Va., on Sept. 15, 2025. During the sermon, Wesley criticized the decision to fly flags at half-staff for slain conservative activist Charlie Kirk, calling Kirk "an unapologetic racist." (Screenshot via YouTube)
The Rev. Dr. Howard-John Wesley, senior pastor of Alfred Street Baptist Church in Alexandria, has found himself at the center of a national controversy after comments he made about slain conservative activist Charlie Kirk went viral on social media over the weekend.
Wesleys remarks, delivered during a Sunday sermon at the historic Alexandria church, were shared widely after journalist Don Lemon posted a clip on Instagram. Wesleys criticism came on the same day hundreds gathered at the nearby Kennedy Center for a prayer vigil honoring Kirk. The pastor argued that Kirk should not be honored with flags at half-staff despite his assassination, calling the activist an unapologetic racist who spent his life sowing seeds of division and hate.
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During his sermon, Wesley made clear his position on the national honor being bestowed upon Kirk, who was shot and killed on Wednesday while speaking at Utah Valley University.... Charlie Kirk did not deserve to be assassinated, Wesley said. But I am overwhelmed seeing the flags of the United States of America at half-staff, calling this nation to honor and venerate a man who was an unapologetic racist and spent all of his life sowing seeds of division and hate into this land.
The pastors criticism extended beyond the flag controversy, addressing broader questions about how public figures should be remembered after death. ...I am sorry, but theres nowhere in the Bible where we are taught to honor evil, Wesley continued. And how you die does not redeem how you lived. You do not become a hero in your death when you are a weapon of the enemy in your life. ... Wesley acknowledged he could abhor the violence that took Kirks life while maintaining he didnt have to celebrate how you chose to live.
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Here's a little of what he said:
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How you die does not redeem how you lived.
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September 14, 2025 at 9:38 PM
âHow you die does not redeem how you lived.â
— Benjamin Dreyer (@bcdreyer.social) 2025-09-15T01:38:34.577Z
Mon Sep 15, 2025: "How you die does not redeem how you lived."

no_hypocrisy
(53,201 posts)non-MAGA Christians (CINOs).
Response to mahatmakanejeeves (Original post)
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eppur_se_muova
(40,126 posts)Particularly in the South -- part of the reason the KKK fire-bombed so many churches. I'm sometimes bothered by seeing Dems campaigning from the pulpit of Black churches, but there are historical and cultural reasons for it. The meaning of the word "church" can be different for different people -- in this case, brought on more by necessity than choice.
neohippie
(1,249 posts)Today we are reminded that even 62 years later, America still has a big problem with political violence
62 years ago today the 16th Street Church in Birmingham Alabama was bombed
duhneece
(4,406 posts)When one of the girls was murdered, I discovered that she was named Denise
and was born in 1951. My name is Denise and I was born in 1951.
I have felt her presence or my memory of her tragic death ever since.
JT45242
(3,640 posts)He would say that's the price of being woke and then make up some lie about it
eppur_se_muova
(40,126 posts)There was a small, rickety old church by the side of a local road near where I grew up. It had almost no parking spaces and was supported by a truss in the back where the hillside had eroded away -- i.e. not premium property. Occasionally we would drive by on Sunday mornings and see an amazingly large crowd of Black churchgoers -- mostly elderly -- and cars jammed in wherever they could find the space. Then, suddenly, one day it was gone. We later learned someone had burned it down. At the time (I was still in grade school) I was just thinking "vandalism" but later realized it was probably a hate crime.
Things were pretty segregated where I grew up -- not by law, but by custom and especially "redlining", most likely. We didn't know of a single Black family in our subdivision and I only ever saw two Black students in five years at the same school, so I just didn't know what sort of things Blacks put up with until I grew up and went to college, but in informed retrospect there were a lot of bad signs there.
Actually, my Dad's family lived in B'ham, but all that happened "over there" at "that church" to "those people", so even though it was national news we didn't hear much about it as kids. Had to read the history books to find out what happened just a short distance from relatives we visited fairly frequently.
calimary
(87,931 posts)Have we learned ANYTHING?
Havent we learned ANYTHING?
OldBaldy1701E
(9,147 posts)Bernardo de La Paz
(58,929 posts)Orrex
(66,098 posts)and his drooling fanbois would still say that you're taking it out of context.
Bernardo de La Paz
(58,929 posts)Response to mahatmakanejeeves (Original post)
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Midnight Writer
(24,781 posts)Fil1957
(234 posts)iluvtennis
(21,367 posts)honors evil.
Martin68
(26,519 posts)harumph
(3,021 posts)It might somewhat if a selfish person runs into a burning building to save trapped children. But I can't see Charlie Kirk doing that.
CK was more a fire starter than a fire putter-outer.
Beacool
(30,455 posts)The Right is trying to whitewash, pun intended, Kirk by portraying him as a great Christian patriotic family man. In reality he was a loser who couldn't get into West Point and dropped out of community college. I found this interesting article from Baptist News Global.
In her book Raising Them Right: The Untold Story of Americas Ultraconservative Youth Movement and its Plot for Power, journalist Kyle Spencer sums up Kirks trajectory within the politics of resentment: His metamorphosis can be seen as a case study of the power of grievance politics and a reminder that resentment is an energizing fuel most potent when delivered by leaders who have felt it deeply themselves.
Kirks resentment was in full-bloom a few months later at the start of his freshman year under the new Obama presidency. Obamas career began in the same Chicago suburb where Kirk attended high school. While the first African American presidents political win was celebrated by most in the rapidly diversifying suburb, it was not celebrated by Kirk.
Whether it was Obamas continuance of George W. Bushs bank bailouts or his skin color, Kirk was not a fan. In response, he began building a contrarian political persona around his freshman interpretation of Reagan economics, the work of the economist Milton Friedman and gun rights.
Kirks classmates described him as rude, arrogant and as someone with a superiority complex. He called teachers with whom he disagreed neo-Marxists and often was belligerent in class. On the topic of gun rights, Spencer writes that Kirk once asked a teacher if guns make people violent, do forks make people fat?
https://baptistnews.com/article/how-charlie-kirk-went-from-college-dropout-to-trump-influencer-2/
GoneOffShore
(17,903 posts)JustAnotherGen
(37,118 posts)It's all true
Keepthesoulalive
(1,848 posts)They dont say the same thing about the garbage that came from Kirks mouth. It is viral and people love his fire. Atheists on Reddit are ready to go to church and say amen. We could use a few more like him telling the truth.
appleannie1
(5,348 posts)Or for those of you that have never read the Bible, Karma.
I see nothing to debate about in what he said. When one speaks the truth, there should be no controversity.
bsiebs
(876 posts)Dark n Stormy Knight
(10,465 posts)Just as many of us see what CK really did. He gets far more credit than he deserves for being willing to talk to his opponents. He was so arrogant that he believed he always won the debates he participated in, even though he didn't.
William Seger
(11,835 posts)There was a time when I would have wondered how anyone could be so devoid of empathy, but now I recognize that too many MAGA cultists are actually enjoying the humiliation -- it's just more "retribution" for liberals trying to knock them off their perch.
twodogsbarking
(16,000 posts)Not unlike a TV show that you have already seen and know the ending but you have to watch. There's nothing else to watch. Stayed tuned.
LT Barclay
(3,110 posts)Fox News was on and a front desk person was stomping around saying that they need to bring back public executions. I said that they did and now a very bad man is gone.
The contention is that I said he deserved to die.
BeyondGeography
(40,679 posts)Someone had to say it. Not a single vowel or consonant was out of place.
returnee
(677 posts)Hell need it.
He does not deserve honor.