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Emile

(44,228 posts)
Thu Jul 2, 2026, 06:13 PM 11 hrs ago

Post funeral eulogy.

Post funeral eulogy.

Yesterday was a tough day for me.
I went to the funeral of my best friend. 70 years of friendship is a long time. Lots of memories. Growing up, we lived one city block from each other. My earliest memory is sitting side by side in the first grade.

When we were six years old, he rode his bicycle to my house to show me he can ride without training wheels. He peddled his bike down our driveway, and out into the street right out in front of a car. The car hit him and threw him into the air. Another car going the other way ran over him and drugged his body for 30 yards or more. I witnessed the whole thing right in front of my little eyes. I ran out in the street, and his little mangled up body was still under the car. Blood everywhere, and I saw a bone sticking out of his leg. After a long hospital stay, he was sent home in a body cast for almost a year. This set him back one year in school from me, but over the years we always remained best of friends.

The funeral was yesterday, and I'm doing okay. Yesterday was tough seeing my old friend go. The preacher mentioned my name, and the story of my friend when he was six years old being ran over by two cars. The preacher was looking at me, and told everyone my friend should have died that day. But, it wasn't his time. He lived another 70 years, and touched everyone in this room. He went on, and on about meeting his wife, children, and grandchildren and how he had a full life.

My life continues, but I will miss him dearly. I still have all my memories. The most fondest memories are of fishing trips to Itaska County in Northern Minnesota, and as far north as Sioux Lookout, Ontario He always said to me, I love you.

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Post funeral eulogy. (Original Post) Emile 11 hrs ago OP
... alwaysinasnit 11 hrs ago #1
A very sweet story of your friendship ((💐)) Deuxcents 11 hrs ago #2
Thanks for sharing Botany 11 hrs ago #3
Gorgeous scene! calimary 8 hrs ago #24
It's hard sometimes to be thankful when the loss is so profound Easterncedar 11 hrs ago #4
I can imagine your pain malaise 10 hrs ago #5
You're lucky SuzyandPuffpuff 10 hrs ago #6
Condolences. Amazing long friendship. Onthefly 10 hrs ago #7
Sincere condolences, Emile gademocrat7 10 hrs ago #8
You wrote about your friend with such care. democrank 10 hrs ago #9
Being friends for that long, sounds more like losing a brother. 70sEraVet 10 hrs ago #10
Hey, Emile, thank you for sharing this difficult time you're going through. calimary 10 hrs ago #11
Great suggestion. I can't sleep, so I just now had a thought that made me laugh. Emile 2 hrs ago #32
Now yer talkin'! calimary 2 hrs ago #33
Emile.. I am so sorry for your loss. mountain grammy 10 hrs ago #12
💙💙💙 godsentme 10 hrs ago #13
That is so wonderful. warmfeet 9 hrs ago #14
Nothing prepares us. Holding you in my heart, Emile. ❣️🫂 littlemissmartypants 9 hrs ago #15
Beautiful memories of a lifelong friendship Grim Chieftain 9 hrs ago #16
My deepest sympathy Emile. Fla Dem 9 hrs ago #17
What was your friend's name? BaronChocula 9 hrs ago #18
Thanks, I sent you his first name. Emile 9 hrs ago #20
Thank you for sharing that beautiful sentiment. oasis 9 hrs ago #19
What a wonderful tribute to your dearest friend. Tanuki 9 hrs ago #21
Sending you love and peace.💙 PittBlue 8 hrs ago #22
My deepest condolences for your loss Emile. What s KPN 8 hrs ago #23
Friendships that last that long are so rare. Laffy Kat 6 hrs ago #25
Delightful tribute.. Permanut 5 hrs ago #26
My deepest condolences on the loss of your friend. HeartsCanHope 5 hrs ago #27
I'm so sorry for the loss of your dearest friend choie 5 hrs ago #28
🫂 UpInArms 5 hrs ago #29
The hardest part of living long is the losses IbogaProject 4 hrs ago #30
Memories are a wonderful thing Figarosmom 3 hrs ago #31

Botany

(78,330 posts)
3. Thanks for sharing
Thu Jul 2, 2026, 06:26 PM
11 hrs ago

Fishing in Minnesota and Ontario is deep into my being as is my friend I went with.




Btw this is a native brook trout stream in the Appalachian Mountains.

calimary

(91,572 posts)
24. Gorgeous scene!
Thu Jul 2, 2026, 09:14 PM
8 hrs ago

There’s nothing like a waterfall - of ANY size or shape. Scenery like this can help put thoughts to words. Probably because you can’t help but feel at least a little bit inspired.

Easterncedar

(6,686 posts)
4. It's hard sometimes to be thankful when the loss is so profound
Thu Jul 2, 2026, 06:31 PM
11 hrs ago

But that was a rare friendship. He was lucky to have you.

Hugs to you, Emile.

SuzyandPuffpuff

(806 posts)
6. You're lucky
Thu Jul 2, 2026, 06:40 PM
10 hrs ago

To have had such joy with another person for so many decades. It's a testament to both of you as to what beneficial folks you were/are. To each other and those around you both. A blessing .

gademocrat7

(12,090 posts)
8. Sincere condolences, Emile
Thu Jul 2, 2026, 07:17 PM
10 hrs ago

on the loss of your best friend. Seventy years of friendship is an amazing bond. Take care.

democrank

(12,746 posts)
9. You wrote about your friend with such care.
Thu Jul 2, 2026, 07:20 PM
10 hrs ago

Seventy years is a long time. May the memories of your friend ease the loss. Take good care~ ♥️

70sEraVet

(5,773 posts)
10. Being friends for that long, sounds more like losing a brother.
Thu Jul 2, 2026, 07:21 PM
10 hrs ago

Sorry. It must be hard for you, Emile.

calimary

(91,572 posts)
11. Hey, Emile, thank you for sharing this difficult time you're going through.
Thu Jul 2, 2026, 07:23 PM
10 hrs ago

People who care about you (like your friends here) will lift you up and remind you that YOU matter, and your memories of your friend matter, too. EVERYBODY needs to have dear, close, and beloved friends who are there when you need them. THIS friend will always be with you, even though his passing separates you (at least physically). But I think that'll be the only separation. You and he will ALWAYS be closely and lovingly connected.

Sometimes when I'm thinking about someone dear who's gone, I get around to thinking "AHA! You CAN'T hang up on me NOW! So THERE!" And sometimes it even makes me smile. Sometimes I'll focus on one of many nice trees in our neighborhood, and that helps, too.

Here's a hug:

((((((( * )))))))

mountain grammy

(29,431 posts)
12. Emile.. I am so sorry for your loss.
Thu Jul 2, 2026, 07:25 PM
10 hrs ago

Losing someone you're so close to for so long has got to be devastating..

my sincerest condolences

godsentme

(241 posts)
13. 💙💙💙
Thu Jul 2, 2026, 07:29 PM
10 hrs ago

What a sweet story. I'm glad you shared. Such a rare thing to have life long friends like yours.

Grim Chieftain

(2,357 posts)
16. Beautiful memories of a lifelong friendship
Thu Jul 2, 2026, 07:54 PM
9 hrs ago

You both were blessed to have each other, Emile. Peace and comfort to you.

BaronChocula

(5,013 posts)
18. What was your friend's name?
Thu Jul 2, 2026, 07:58 PM
9 hrs ago

I'll toast him at dinner tonight if I remember. He sounds more than worth the effort.

oasis

(54,392 posts)
19. Thank you for sharing that beautiful sentiment.
Thu Jul 2, 2026, 08:01 PM
9 hrs ago

May your beloved friend rest in peace.

Tanuki

(16,582 posts)
21. What a wonderful tribute to your dearest friend.
Thu Jul 2, 2026, 08:18 PM
9 hrs ago

I am so sorry that you have lost such an important person who walked by your side through most of your life journey. Incredible that he survived that horrific accident to live and thrive another 70 years! It sounds as if he did indeed have a rich and full life. You were lucky to have had each other and I hope you will always find comfort in those cherished memories of a remarkable friend and friendship.

KPN

(17,614 posts)
23. My deepest condolences for your loss Emile. What s
Thu Jul 2, 2026, 08:41 PM
8 hrs ago

beautiful story about a truly lifelong friendship. It brought me tears … of both sadness and joy. Thank you for sharing.

Laffy Kat

(17,014 posts)
25. Friendships that last that long are so rare.
Thu Jul 2, 2026, 11:33 PM
6 hrs ago

That's why we cherish them. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Permanut

(8,744 posts)
26. Delightful tribute..
Thu Jul 2, 2026, 11:52 PM
5 hrs ago

Thanks for posting.

I'm 80 years old, and have also lost childhood friends, like Dave. He and I started collecting and trading pennies in 1957. I still have some of them.

HeartsCanHope

(1,819 posts)
27. My deepest condolences on the loss of your friend.
Thu Jul 2, 2026, 11:54 PM
5 hrs ago

How lucky you were to have found each other so early in life and to be able to keep that

friendship for another 70 years. I will be thinking of you.

IbogaProject

(6,196 posts)
30. The hardest part of living long is the losses
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 01:22 AM
4 hrs ago

Especially a 70 year one w a early childhood friend.

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