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Aristus

(71,356 posts)
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 11:29 AM 21 hrs ago

I need a drink.

Seriously. I don't know how much more of this I can take. I'm just emotionally exhausted. I want to curl up in a corner and cry.

But I won't; not as long as I have my beloved Loungers.

I hope you will join me for cocktail hour this evening.

I love you all...

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I need a drink. (Original Post) Aristus 21 hrs ago OP
"But I don't want to go among mad people," Alice remarked. Ocelot II 21 hrs ago #1
Good analogy vapor2 21 hrs ago #9
I'd love to attend EYESORE 9001 21 hrs ago #2
I will be happy to join you! redwitch 21 hrs ago #3
Drambuie I got. Aristus 21 hrs ago #5
I hear ya but frankly I haven't felt this optimistic or at least not pessimistic underpants 21 hrs ago #4
People just don't like him. MLWR 19 hrs ago #11
Love you too, Aristus Grim Chieftain 21 hrs ago #6
See you then. Aristus 21 hrs ago #8
Regarding the saying of how even a broken clock is right twice a day? DeeDeeNY 21 hrs ago #7
If the clock isn't working, PoindexterOglethorpe 16 hrs ago #33
You certainly are not alone. pandr32 21 hrs ago #10
I'm ready to pour a couple fingers of PA's finest Rye, or any of several solid bourbons The Polack MSgt 19 hrs ago #12
Can do, Top. Aristus 18 hrs ago #17
Happy hour here starts at 4pm... MiHale 19 hrs ago #13
Friday is G & T KT2000 19 hrs ago #14
count me in! Trueblue Texan 19 hrs ago #15
actually a drink sounds kinda good/fun. haven't had one in months orleans 18 hrs ago #16
Sounds delicious. Aristus 18 hrs ago #18
well then... orleans 17 hrs ago #22
To absent friends... Aristus 17 hrs ago #23
Illegitimi non carborundum Marthe48 17 hrs ago #19
Do you do Connections? Marthe48 17 hrs ago #20
I don't. Aristus 17 hrs ago #21
Spoiler alert Marthe48 17 hrs ago #24
What were some of the cocktails? Aristus 17 hrs ago #25
Greyhound was the one I didn't know Marthe48 17 hrs ago #28
That's terrible! Aristus 17 hrs ago #29
My family is noted for inappropriate responses to stress Marthe48 17 hrs ago #31
I've been the Klass Klown in more classes than I can count. Aristus 17 hrs ago #32
Well, it is Friday! PJMcK 17 hrs ago #26
Enjoy! Aristus 17 hrs ago #30
A Dominican friend recently gave me a johnnyfins 17 hrs ago #27
I'll be joining you in spirit only, PoindexterOglethorpe 16 hrs ago #34
Oh my goodness, no! Aristus 15 hrs ago #35
I'm actually doing quite well at this point. PoindexterOglethorpe 15 hrs ago #36
Enjoying my Drambuie. redwitch 13 hrs ago #37
I'mnRight there drinking with you bud Tribetime 12 hrs ago #38

Ocelot II

(128,386 posts)
1. "But I don't want to go among mad people," Alice remarked.
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 11:35 AM
21 hrs ago

"Oh, you can’t help that," said the Cat: "we’re all mad here. I’m mad. You’re mad."
"How do you know I’m mad?" said Alice.
"You must be," said the Cat, "or you wouldn’t have come here.”

I hear ya...

vapor2

(3,482 posts)
9. Good analogy
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 11:54 AM
21 hrs ago

We're all exhausted by his lies, his tantrums, his disregard for the law or for human life. Hang in there

EYESORE 9001

(29,332 posts)
2. I'd love to attend
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 11:39 AM
21 hrs ago

Alas, my drink this evening (lemon tek) is not conducive to coherent conversation. I may drop by if I’m not too ‘cosmic’,

underpants

(193,970 posts)
4. I hear ya but frankly I haven't felt this optimistic or at least not pessimistic
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 11:40 AM
21 hrs ago

in months. He’s crumbling. His numbers are abysmal. We had massive wins just a few weeks ago. People just don’t like him. The ICE crap is seen by most everyone as horrible and tearing down part of the White House was way over a line people didn’t even know they had.

I’ll join you though.

MLWR

(684 posts)
11. People just don't like him.
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 01:30 PM
19 hrs ago

Because there is absolutely NOTHING likeable about him. NOTHING AT ALL.

Grim Chieftain

(951 posts)
6. Love you too, Aristus
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 11:43 AM
21 hrs ago

And I know just how you feel. The joy in life is gone for me. I know we are not supposed to discuss politics in The Lounge, so I won't, but I just want to feel safe and yes, happy again.

There are times I want a stiff drink in the middle of the day, so my husband and I only have wine in the house. I'm not going to let present circumstances lead me down that dark path. I pray for happier days. Soon.

See you tonight, friend.

Aristus

(71,356 posts)
8. See you then.
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 11:52 AM
21 hrs ago

That's it; you said it: the joy is gone out of our lives. And the hell of it is, that is the goal for these horrible people: to suck all the joy out of life. To make us angry and embittered.

I thought Reagan's "Morning In America" was a load of crap. But at least it was designed to appeal to our national sense of optimism, and the hope of a better tomorrow.

We've lost our vaunted optimism; always one of the better traits in our national character.

DeeDeeNY

(3,871 posts)
7. Regarding the saying of how even a broken clock is right twice a day?
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 11:50 AM
21 hrs ago

Shitler has somehow even broken that rule!

PoindexterOglethorpe

(28,348 posts)
33. If the clock isn't working,
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 05:12 PM
16 hrs ago

how in the world would you know the one minute every twelve hours that it's right? You need a working clock for that.

pandr32

(13,648 posts)
10. You certainly are not alone.
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 12:02 PM
21 hrs ago

The stress is constant. Concentration and sleep are hard to achieve. Day after day, week after week, etc., and no end in sight. Trying to hold on to hope and small moments of joy and repeat them to myself like a mantra so I don't forget.
An early cheers to you if I am unable to check in later.

The Polack MSgt

(13,691 posts)
12. I'm ready to pour a couple fingers of PA's finest Rye, or any of several solid bourbons
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 01:41 PM
19 hrs ago

Mrs Polack is playing Volleyball tonight so just pull on up.

MiHale

(12,380 posts)
13. Happy hour here starts at 4pm...
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 01:46 PM
19 hrs ago

We’re usually done with chores by then.

(of course we will be)

On edit…thoughts that came too late…
It’s a beautiful sunny day here after a 24 hour period of unnerving heavy mist captured our area…and nothing is going to take that away from me.
I was a very chunky kid and was bullied because of it. Plus being a rural farm kid transplanted to a city environment at the tender age of ten added tinder to the flames. The 50’s were not my favorite time.
I utterly refuse to be bullied theses days and that is all trumpig is a bully.
He will die in disgrace…I will pass with a smile.

orleans

(36,562 posts)
16. actually a drink sounds kinda good/fun. haven't had one in months
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 02:16 PM
18 hrs ago

and i've got coconut rum!!!
maybe tonight i'll pour some... and think of you

Marthe48

(22,401 posts)
19. Illegitimi non carborundum
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 03:20 PM
17 hrs ago

My Dad had a little sign hanging in the meat department of our family grocery. The sentiment certainly carries me on some days :/

Excelsior!

Marthe48

(22,401 posts)
28. Greyhound was the one I didn't know
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 04:04 PM
17 hrs ago

that fit in the group.

But there is also a cocktail called Bolt Cutter.

I didn't get a perfect score today.

I have an off-color cocktail joke:

A young lady was being chauffeured back to her college after a weekend at home. On the way, one of the tires went flat. The chauffeur parked the car, and opened the trunk to get the tools and spare to change the tire. However, some of the tools were missing. As the chauffeur stood thinking about the problem, the young lady, unfamiliar with tire-changing, but wanting to be helpful, leaned out the window and asked, "Do you want a screwdriver?"
The chauffeur muttered, "May as well. I can't change the tire."

Marthe48

(22,401 posts)
31. My family is noted for inappropriate responses to stress
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 04:11 PM
17 hrs ago

being a clown is always good Well, mostly.

PJMcK

(24,473 posts)
26. Well, it is Friday!
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 03:57 PM
17 hrs ago

Vodka-buzz tonight.

We have guests coming by at 5:00 so we’ll be starting a little earlier than normal.

Cheers!

johnnyfins

(3,298 posts)
27. A Dominican friend recently gave me a
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 03:59 PM
17 hrs ago

bottle of Mamajuana. I'M Interested to sample it, but I have the dreaded head/chest cold. Maybe next Friday. Cheers to all ya.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(28,348 posts)
34. I'll be joining you in spirit only,
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 05:15 PM
16 hrs ago

as I had a heart attack four days ago, and can't drink at least for a while.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(28,348 posts)
36. I'm actually doing quite well at this point.
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 06:08 PM
15 hrs ago

No pain, but I absolutely must remember that at least for a bit, I need to take it very easy. I'm 77. Heart disease runs in my family, both sides. No cancer. If I'd had to choose, I'd take heart disease over cancer.

I also tend to recover quickly from anything.

redwitch

(15,218 posts)
37. Enjoying my Drambuie.
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 08:08 PM
13 hrs ago

But I am so tired tonight I’m gonna go to bed early.
Hang in there everyone!

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