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LuckyCharms

(20,499 posts)
Sat Sep 6, 2025, 05:22 PM Sep 6

My story for today. Covid booster related.

I just got back from Wegmans. I got my Covid booster. It was my 10th Covid shot. This time, it was Moderna. I live in New York State.

Now, I have one of those faces. I'm told it's my eyes. People talk to me every time I leave the house. I'm not sure how to put this in writing, but it's ridiculous...as soon as someone looks at me, they say something to me. They strike up a conversation. Without fail. Always.

I was in a pissy mood when I got to the parking lot, and really didn't feel like dealing with people, so I thought that maybe wearing my funky sun glasses would keep people the hell away from me.

I checked in for the vax at the pharmacy. There's not much room there, and there were only three chairs in the cramped waiting area, as well as a bench that holds two people.

I was sitting there waiting to be called into the vax room, and this older guy walks up to the pharmacy counter and he is speaking loudly.

Can I help you sir? says the pharmacy tech.

I NEED A VACCINATION!

Which one sir?

I DON'T KNOW! ALL OF THEM!

I almost choked laughing.

He ordered whatever vaccination he was getting, and walked toward me and sat on the bench right next to me.

By this time, his comment had put me in a better mood. As he appraoched me, he yelled

HOW ARE YOU YOUNG MAN?

I raised my sunglasses up, looked him sternly in the eye, and said:

DON'T YOU "YOUNG MAN" ME, PAL". I'M OLDER THAN YOU ARE!

He looked at me quizzically, and said "How old are you"?

I said "almost 67".

OH JESUS CHRIST, I'M 87 YOU WISE ASS! HAHAHAHA!

No way! You don't look it! He said "You really think so"? I said "Hell yeah my friend, you look great! (He really did look good).

I told him my name and shook his hand. His name was Charlie.

He said "My wife died 4 years ago".

I said "How are you holding up Charlie"?

"Not good" he said, and he had a tear run down his cheek.

I put my arm around him and kept it there as we sat together.

"You're doing good Charlie. You're doing good." I'm a cryer, so I was trying not to tear up.

He said "I don't know how to cook. I make peanut butter and jelly sandwiches and come here and get the subs. I said there's nothing wrong with that!

Then I got his life story. He grew up in the same town I did. He is a former tool and die guy, and he started telling me the details of how he got laid off after many years. it was a long story. Very long.

I asked him where he worked, and he said "I don't want to say". So I took a chance and said..."Well, based on what you're telling me, you worked at X, and you got called in to Mr. Y's office and that fucking prick fired you for no reason, right"?

His eyes widened. YES! HOW DID YOU KNOW? YOU KNOW THAT GUY? HE'S DEAD NOW.

I said "Yes, everyone who grew up in our town knew him! He was a fucking prick, wasn't he?

YOU'RE GODDAMN RIGHT HE WAS! said Charlie.

I got called back into the vax room by an attractive friendly intern. I did my usual routine about how I'm afraid of needles and usually faint. She said "OMG YOU TOO? I sometimes faint too! I can give the shots, but I don't like getting them!

I said "Oh no, I'm so sorry. I'm just joking with you. I'm a type one diabetic and take 6 needles a day. I can take a needle easier than I can take a pill". We then got into a detailed conversation about the trouble that diabetics on MDI (multiple daily injections), rather than a pump, have to be concerned with hitting scar tissue from old injections because the insulin could sit in that scar tissue for hours before releasing into your cells where it belongs blah blah blah. She seemed enthralled with that bit of information and told me she had no idea. She said she was really still learning, and that she was glad I told her that.

I thanked her, and as I walked out, I said "You're next guy is Charlie. He's a good guy. Make a fuss over him. She said "I will".

I opened the door, walked out, put my hand on Charlie's shoulder, he put his hand over mine. I told him to keep up the good work, and he said "It was a pleasure Lucky". I said "Same here" and left.

Oh, while the intern stuck the needle in, I started making my Bill the Cat noises and pretending that I was fainting. She laughed and said STOP ITTTTT!

OHHHHH.....OOOP! Ack! PFFFTTTTT!!!!! THBBFT!!!!!










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My story for today. Covid booster related. (Original Post) LuckyCharms Sep 6 OP
Hi, guy EYESORE 9001 Sep 6 #1
Hi there, EYESORE! LuckyCharms Sep 6 #2
"Now, I have one of those faces" True Dough Sep 6 #3
LMAO! That's pretty close! LuckyCharms Sep 6 #6
I'm trying to decide JoseBalow Sep 6 #16
I'm saving this for the next time a guy chats me up... littlemissmartypants Sep 7 #36
I understand the message you'd want to convey, LMSP, True Dough Sep 7 #37
Awe. Add a scarf around my neck and that's me exactly. ❤️ littlemissmartypants Sep 7 #38
Very cute, I have the opposite problem Farmer-Rick Sep 7 #40
I guess you're more the studious type True Dough Sep 7 #42
People like you are exactly why I like to go to the store! 1WorldHope Sep 6 #4
How wonderful of you! Tesha Sep 6 #5
Your account made me verklempt. 🩷 nt sprinkleeninow Sep 6 #7
Damn, that's a great story. My mother would engage in a conversation with anyone erronis Sep 6 #8
I'm so glad you took time with that guy. Now I'm teary-eyed. 'Sending warm thoughts his way hlthe2b Sep 6 #9
I'm sometimes amazed at talking a few minutes to a random stranger, 70sEraVet Sep 6 #10
Damned onions!!! niyad Sep 6 #11
That's beautiful, Lucky. Harker Sep 6 #12
We all need human connection Chicagogrl1 Sep 6 #13
That was a fun little story! . . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Sep 6 #14
That was very kind of you. mgardener Sep 6 #15
Flu shot is next weekend! LuckyCharms Sep 6 #18
My doc swears by getting both at once, something about your immune system producing better... Hekate Sep 6 #21
Best story of the day! 2naSalit Sep 6 #17
You made Charlie's day. It's a gift! mountain grammy Sep 6 #19
So good to hear from ya Lucky... MiHale Sep 6 #20
From upstate NY myself... frogstar0 Sep 6 #22
I keep seeing this bumper sticker on cars around my So Cal area.. Tikki Sep 6 #23
All these past years of popsdenver Sep 6 #29
Great story. Thanks! hay rick Sep 6 #24
YOU yonder Sep 6 #25
Thanks. This place wouldn't be the same without you. NT mahatmakanejeeves Sep 6 #26
I'm the same. People tell me their life story. Figarosmom Sep 6 #27
Lucky, thank you for sharing this with us. Dem2theMax Sep 6 #28
Oh,Lucky! What an uplifting account! Thank you so much for sharing and for bringing random joy and kindness to Charlie KitFox Sep 6 #30
You are a fine person, Lucky. MLAA Sep 6 #31
Hey man, you ARE DU's LUCKY CHARM. a kennedy Sep 6 #32
Sounds like a very meaningful encounter for both of you. 3catwoman3 Sep 6 #33
Awwww Charlie was lucky to meet you. live love laugh Sep 6 #34
;-) elleng Sep 7 #35
You coulda done this too... BumRushDaShow Sep 7 #39
Cheering to hear your mood! Marthe48 Sep 7 #41
Lucky, that was a sweet thing to do. hamsterjill Sep 7 #43
Glad I Read That ProfessorGAC Sep 7 #44
A fabulous post malaise Sep 7 #45
What a gift you have LC ❤️ You always make people feel better and smile Clouds Passing Sep 7 #46
I have the face that looks forever like I'm mad as moniss Sep 7 #47

JoseBalow

(8,391 posts)
16. I'm trying to decide
Sat Sep 6, 2025, 06:54 PM
Sep 6

if that picture is hilarious, or terrifying... I think a little bit of both!

littlemissmartypants

(29,696 posts)
36. I'm saving this for the next time a guy chats me up...
Sun Sep 7, 2025, 04:00 AM
Sep 7

And asks for my picture online.

Thanks, True. (You) Be (Da) Best.



❤️

True Dough

(24,388 posts)
37. I understand the message you'd want to convey, LMSP,
Sun Sep 7, 2025, 06:09 AM
Sep 7

but in my mind, you're better represented by this:



Farmer-Rick

(12,068 posts)
40. Very cute, I have the opposite problem
Sun Sep 7, 2025, 09:56 AM
Sep 7

I have one those faces no one seems to want to talk to. Don't know why, but when I strike up a conversation in line, people always look surprised. When I chat up sales clerks, they look relieved.

When visiting New York with my friend, and walking on the streets, he always gets stopped for directions. Me, they never ask for directions.

And when I'm deep in thought people ask if I'm feeling OK. I just tell them it hurts to think.

1WorldHope

(1,589 posts)
4. People like you are exactly why I like to go to the store!
Sat Sep 6, 2025, 05:39 PM
Sep 6

Keep up the good work! Those actions turn whole days around for people.

erronis

(21,256 posts)
8. Damn, that's a great story. My mother would engage in a conversation with anyone
Sat Sep 6, 2025, 06:24 PM
Sep 6

and wouldn't stop until she knew their life story. Sometimes it made for a very long check-out line when she started talking with the cashier.

You are obviously a charmer, Lucky.

hlthe2b

(111,291 posts)
9. I'm so glad you took time with that guy. Now I'm teary-eyed. 'Sending warm thoughts his way
Sat Sep 6, 2025, 06:26 PM
Sep 6

--to someone I will never know but care about.

70sEraVet

(4,879 posts)
10. I'm sometimes amazed at talking a few minutes to a random stranger,
Sat Sep 6, 2025, 06:35 PM
Sep 6

And suddenly find that we have some real oddball connections. In the story you shared, Charlie really NEEDED to hear those connections -- with his wife gone, he needed to know that somebody still understood him.
Nice work, Lucky!

mgardener

(2,165 posts)
15. That was very kind of you.
Sat Sep 6, 2025, 06:52 PM
Sep 6

I bet you made his day!
I have that kind of face too.

Thanks for the reminder.
Scheduled a COVID vaccine for my husband and me for tomorrow!

Don't forget flu shots!!!

LuckyCharms

(20,499 posts)
18. Flu shot is next weekend!
Sat Sep 6, 2025, 06:59 PM
Sep 6

I always have a huge reaction to the Covid vax. It starts about 12 hours after the shot, and I feel like shit for about 36 hours after that.

I thought about getting my flu shot while I was already there, but didn't have the guts to get both at once.

Hekate

(99,409 posts)
21. My doc swears by getting both at once, something about your immune system producing better...
Sat Sep 6, 2025, 07:07 PM
Sep 6

So I do — but like you, the Covid vax gives me a couple of days of malaise.

For you and Charlie

mountain grammy

(28,199 posts)
19. You made Charlie's day. It's a gift!
Sat Sep 6, 2025, 07:03 PM
Sep 6

and a good reminder. We could all be more friendly.. just friendly!

frogstar0

(173 posts)
22. From upstate NY myself...
Sat Sep 6, 2025, 07:36 PM
Sep 6

I don't know where you were talking about but it certainly could be my town.

Tikki

(14,934 posts)
23. I keep seeing this bumper sticker on cars around my So Cal area..
Sat Sep 6, 2025, 07:41 PM
Sep 6

It Say:

MAKE AMERICA
KIND AGAIN

Let's do this..person by person.

Tikki

popsdenver

(448 posts)
29. All these past years of
Sat Sep 6, 2025, 08:18 PM
Sep 6

Trumphumpers........

I have noticed most of them have been even bigger assholes,

But, all of us KIND people have been getting even KINDER !!!!!!! SERIOUSLY

yonder

(10,136 posts)
25. YOU
Sat Sep 6, 2025, 07:43 PM
Sep 6

are also a good guy, Lucky. You write much better than you usually let on and have a great way with stories. This is one of them.

Figarosmom

(8,486 posts)
27. I'm the same. People tell me their life story.
Sat Sep 6, 2025, 07:53 PM
Sep 6

Strangers walk up to me and ask directions or start conversations. I'm told I just look trusting and safe.

You gave Charlie hope and I bet he'll have a lighter step.

Dem2theMax

(10,986 posts)
28. Lucky, thank you for sharing this with us.
Sat Sep 6, 2025, 08:04 PM
Sep 6

I don't think any of us are surprised to hear that you have the kind of face that makes people want to reach out to you. If your personality is any indication, we already knew that.

Charlie needed someone just like you to be there in just that moment. I'm so glad you were there.

Your sharing this made me realize that I needed to reach out to thank someone for doing something extra special for me. So I did that before I even wrote this.
So double thank you.

KitFox

(405 posts)
30. Oh,Lucky! What an uplifting account! Thank you so much for sharing and for bringing random joy and kindness to Charlie
Sat Sep 6, 2025, 08:35 PM
Sep 6

and the vax attendant! My late husband was like that. He always struck up conversation with folks in line, checkout workers, etc. He had a lot of medical issues. His doctors and nurses always told me how much they loved having him for a patient because even though he was the patient, he made them smile and laugh and feel better. When he would be in for his cancer checkups, I’d be in the waiting room and could hear laughter all the way out there. Good on you and glad you were able to get a covid booster. Be well, Lucky😊

MLAA

(19,475 posts)
31. You are a fine person, Lucky.
Sat Sep 6, 2025, 09:15 PM
Sep 6

You are what I call an earth angel. In the right place at the right time to help a stranger. I needed one once in a hospital when I was about 10 and mom, always at my side, went to get a coffee to bring back to the room. It was then an intern/resident said he needed to saw a line down the front of a full leg cast because it was too tight. He started and I told him he was cutting me and he said that wasn’t possible. Then saw blade just vibrated and didn’t go around. I said you are cutting me and started crying. He wouldn’t stop. A stranger came over to hold my hand. An earth angel. 3 months later when the surgeon removed the cast he said I don’t recall making an incision down the front of your shin. I said you didn’t and told him what happened. I have a clearly visible 8 inch scar to this day. Anyway, that was my earth angel and I was able to do something similar a few years ago by sitting with a pregnant woman who was crying while waiting for an MRI or scan of some kind.

Long story to explain why I called you an earth angel.

3catwoman3

(27,674 posts)
33. Sounds like a very meaningful encounter for both of you.
Sat Sep 6, 2025, 10:01 PM
Sep 6

And you live near a Wegmans - you are lucky. I grew up in Rochester NY, and we always shopped at Wegmans.

In one of their flagship stores, in Pittsford NY, I could spend half a day just in their cheese section.

Marthe48

(21,785 posts)
41. Cheering to hear your mood!
Sun Sep 7, 2025, 10:25 AM
Sep 7

Maybe there was some kind of cosmic shift yesterday. I was in a good mood too

Keep up the good work, Lucky. You're a good guy

hamsterjill

(16,537 posts)
43. Lucky, that was a sweet thing to do.
Sun Sep 7, 2025, 01:38 PM
Sep 7

These people show up when they are supposed to. When they need someone. And you were there!

ProfessorGAC

(74,411 posts)
44. Glad I Read That
Sun Sep 7, 2025, 01:42 PM
Sep 7

I'm the guy who chats with everyone to kill waiting time.
Hope I run into you one day.

moniss

(8,046 posts)
47. I have the face that looks forever like I'm mad as
Sun Sep 7, 2025, 03:24 PM
Sep 7

hell and so people leave me alone unless spoken to. A blessing. When I speak, unless I am mad, my face opens up into a broad jolly smile. When I stop talking it goes back to looking like the biggest grump in the world.

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