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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsMy story for today. Covid booster related.
I just got back from Wegmans. I got my Covid booster. It was my 10th Covid shot. This time, it was Moderna. I live in New York State.
Now, I have one of those faces. I'm told it's my eyes. People talk to me every time I leave the house. I'm not sure how to put this in writing, but it's ridiculous...as soon as someone looks at me, they say something to me. They strike up a conversation. Without fail. Always.
I was in a pissy mood when I got to the parking lot, and really didn't feel like dealing with people, so I thought that maybe wearing my funky sun glasses would keep people the hell away from me.
I checked in for the vax at the pharmacy. There's not much room there, and there were only three chairs in the cramped waiting area, as well as a bench that holds two people.
I was sitting there waiting to be called into the vax room, and this older guy walks up to the pharmacy counter and he is speaking loudly.
Can I help you sir? says the pharmacy tech.
I NEED A VACCINATION!
Which one sir?
I DON'T KNOW! ALL OF THEM!
I almost choked laughing.
He ordered whatever vaccination he was getting, and walked toward me and sat on the bench right next to me.
By this time, his comment had put me in a better mood. As he appraoched me, he yelled
HOW ARE YOU YOUNG MAN?
I raised my sunglasses up, looked him sternly in the eye, and said:
DON'T YOU "YOUNG MAN" ME, PAL". I'M OLDER THAN YOU ARE!
He looked at me quizzically, and said "How old are you"?
I said "almost 67".
OH JESUS CHRIST, I'M 87 YOU WISE ASS! HAHAHAHA!
No way! You don't look it! He said "You really think so"? I said "Hell yeah my friend, you look great! (He really did look good).
I told him my name and shook his hand. His name was Charlie.
He said "My wife died 4 years ago".
I said "How are you holding up Charlie"?
"Not good" he said, and he had a tear run down his cheek.
I put my arm around him and kept it there as we sat together.
"You're doing good Charlie. You're doing good." I'm a cryer, so I was trying not to tear up.
He said "I don't know how to cook. I make peanut butter and jelly sandwiches and come here and get the subs. I said there's nothing wrong with that!
Then I got his life story. He grew up in the same town I did. He is a former tool and die guy, and he started telling me the details of how he got laid off after many years. it was a long story. Very long.
I asked him where he worked, and he said "I don't want to say". So I took a chance and said..."Well, based on what you're telling me, you worked at X, and you got called in to Mr. Y's office and that fucking prick fired you for no reason, right"?
His eyes widened. YES! HOW DID YOU KNOW? YOU KNOW THAT GUY? HE'S DEAD NOW.
I said "Yes, everyone who grew up in our town knew him! He was a fucking prick, wasn't he?
YOU'RE GODDAMN RIGHT HE WAS! said Charlie.
I got called back into the vax room by an attractive friendly intern. I did my usual routine about how I'm afraid of needles and usually faint. She said "OMG YOU TOO? I sometimes faint too! I can give the shots, but I don't like getting them!
I said "Oh no, I'm so sorry. I'm just joking with you. I'm a type one diabetic and take 6 needles a day. I can take a needle easier than I can take a pill". We then got into a detailed conversation about the trouble that diabetics on MDI (multiple daily injections), rather than a pump, have to be concerned with hitting scar tissue from old injections because the insulin could sit in that scar tissue for hours before releasing into your cells where it belongs blah blah blah. She seemed enthralled with that bit of information and told me she had no idea. She said she was really still learning, and that she was glad I told her that.
I thanked her, and as I walked out, I said "You're next guy is Charlie. He's a good guy. Make a fuss over him. She said "I will".
I opened the door, walked out, put my hand on Charlie's shoulder, he put his hand over mine. I told him to keep up the good work, and he said "It was a pleasure Lucky". I said "Same here" and left.
Oh, while the intern stuck the needle in, I started making my Bill the Cat noises and pretending that I was fainting. She laughed and said STOP ITTTTT!
OHHHHH.....OOOP! Ack! PFFFTTTTT!!!!! THBBFT!!!!!

EYESORE 9001
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LuckyCharms
(20,499 posts)
True Dough
(24,388 posts)Oh, we know, Lucky. We know!!!
LuckyCharms
(20,499 posts)
JoseBalow
(8,391 posts)if that picture is hilarious, or terrifying... I think a little bit of both!
littlemissmartypants
(29,696 posts)And asks for my picture online.
Thanks, True. (You) Be (Da) Best.
❤️
True Dough
(24,388 posts)but in my mind, you're better represented by this:
littlemissmartypants
(29,696 posts)
Farmer-Rick
(12,068 posts)I have one those faces no one seems to want to talk to. Don't know why, but when I strike up a conversation in line, people always look surprised. When I chat up sales clerks, they look relieved.
When visiting New York with my friend, and walking on the streets, he always gets stopped for directions. Me, they never ask for directions.
And when I'm deep in thought people ask if I'm feeling OK. I just tell them it hurts to think.
True Dough
(24,388 posts)Perhaps Jeffersonian:
1WorldHope
(1,589 posts)Keep up the good work! Those actions turn whole days around for people.
Tesha
(21,061 posts)You just made his month, and made me laugh and cry.
Thank you
sprinkleeninow
(21,585 posts)erronis
(21,256 posts)and wouldn't stop until she knew their life story. Sometimes it made for a very long check-out line when she started talking with the cashier.
You are obviously a charmer, Lucky.
hlthe2b
(111,291 posts)--to someone I will never know but care about.
70sEraVet
(4,879 posts)And suddenly find that we have some real oddball connections. In the story you shared, Charlie really NEEDED to hear those connections -- with his wife gone, he needed to know that somebody still understood him.
Nice work, Lucky!
niyad
(127,177 posts)Harker
(16,852 posts)It's a gift, and when you share it life gets better.
Thank you.
Chicagogrl1
(573 posts)Congrats on spreading joy LC!!!
Bernardo de La Paz
(58,315 posts)mgardener
(2,165 posts)I bet you made his day!
I have that kind of face too.
Thanks for the reminder.
Scheduled a COVID vaccine for my husband and me for tomorrow!
Don't forget flu shots!!!
LuckyCharms
(20,499 posts)I always have a huge reaction to the Covid vax. It starts about 12 hours after the shot, and I feel like shit for about 36 hours after that.
I thought about getting my flu shot while I was already there, but didn't have the guts to get both at once.
Hekate
(99,409 posts)So I do but like you, the Covid vax gives me a couple of days of malaise.
For you and Charlie
2naSalit
(97,776 posts)
mountain grammy
(28,199 posts)and a good reminder. We could all be more friendly.. just friendly!
MiHale
(12,147 posts)Thanks for relating your day.
frogstar0
(173 posts)I don't know where you were talking about but it certainly could be my town.
Tikki
(14,934 posts)It Say:
MAKE AMERICA
KIND AGAIN
Let's do this..person by person.
Tikki
popsdenver
(448 posts)Trumphumpers........
I have noticed most of them have been even bigger assholes,
But, all of us KIND people have been getting even KINDER !!!!!!! SERIOUSLY
hay rick
(9,040 posts)are also a good guy, Lucky. You write much better than you usually let on and have a great way with stories. This is one of them.
mahatmakanejeeves
(66,681 posts)Figarosmom
(8,486 posts)Strangers walk up to me and ask directions or start conversations. I'm told I just look trusting and safe.
You gave Charlie hope and I bet he'll have a lighter step.
Dem2theMax
(10,986 posts)I don't think any of us are surprised to hear that you have the kind of face that makes people want to reach out to you. If your personality is any indication, we already knew that.
Charlie needed someone just like you to be there in just that moment. I'm so glad you were there.
Your sharing this made me realize that I needed to reach out to thank someone for doing something extra special for me. So I did that before I even wrote this.
So double thank you.
KitFox
(405 posts)and the vax attendant! My late husband was like that. He always struck up conversation with folks in line, checkout workers, etc. He had a lot of medical issues. His doctors and nurses always told me how much they loved having him for a patient because even though he was the patient, he made them smile and laugh and feel better. When he would be in for his cancer checkups, Id be in the waiting room and could hear laughter all the way out there. Good on you and glad you were able to get a covid booster. Be well, Lucky😊
MLAA
(19,475 posts)You are what I call an earth angel. In the right place at the right time to help a stranger. I needed one once in a hospital when I was about 10 and mom, always at my side, went to get a coffee to bring back to the room. It was then an intern/resident said he needed to saw a line down the front of a full leg cast because it was too tight. He started and I told him he was cutting me and he said that wasnt possible. Then saw blade just vibrated and didnt go around. I said you are cutting me and started crying. He wouldnt stop. A stranger came over to hold my hand. An earth angel. 3 months later when the surgeon removed the cast he said I dont recall making an incision down the front of your shin. I said you didnt and told him what happened. I have a clearly visible 8 inch scar to this day. Anyway, that was my earth angel and I was able to do something similar a few years ago by sitting with a pregnant woman who was crying while waiting for an MRI or scan of some kind.
Long story to explain why I called you an earth angel.
a kennedy
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3catwoman3
(27,674 posts)And you live near a Wegmans - you are lucky. I grew up in Rochester NY, and we always shopped at Wegmans.
In one of their flagship stores, in Pittsford NY, I could spend half a day just in their cheese section.
live love laugh
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BumRushDaShow
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Marthe48
(21,785 posts)Maybe there was some kind of cosmic shift yesterday. I was in a good mood too
Keep up the good work, Lucky. You're a good guy
hamsterjill
(16,537 posts)These people show up when they are supposed to. When they need someone. And you were there!
ProfessorGAC
(74,411 posts)I'm the guy who chats with everyone to kill waiting time.
Hope I run into you one day.
malaise
(288,994 posts)Rec😀
Clouds Passing
(5,773 posts)
moniss
(8,046 posts)hell and so people leave me alone unless spoken to. A blessing. When I speak, unless I am mad, my face opens up into a broad jolly smile. When I stop talking it goes back to looking like the biggest grump in the world.