May the beauty of Colorado bring you peace, and the loving thoughts of DUers, your friends, and family bring you comfort.

manifests so physically, too. Losing your spouse is a whole different kind of grief. I actually made myself a sign that said “ Don’t go looking for something big; get through the day; get through the night.” I hung it up by my computer. My heart just aches knowing what he is facing. Gentle hugs to you, kentuck🩷

Thanks for this thread, malaise.

You'll get through this.

My wife passed about 7 years ago, and it still sucks. But believe me when I say, it does get better, but it's never the same.

We’re here for you.

Always here for you.

Everyone has summed it up for me already!

Hope you can feel all of the love being sent to you.

Every morning we get news of the most recent erosion of our great society.

Kentuck, despite the lessening of grief of my hubby's passing a year ago, knowing he doesn't have to see America sink to Fascism is somewhat comforting.

Sending you a big hug,

Kentuck you have friends who care.

The good memories of a lifetime spent getting to know someone crowd out the bad memories of the end of that lifetime.

However, until that happens, it knocks us flat.

But it takes time

Rec and hugs.

🩷

Know we are holding you in our hearts ❤️

You and your family are in my thoughts.

Please know your DU family is with as you grieve the loss of your beloved wife.

And come back to us when you can. We are here for you.

These life changes are so heavy on the soul, and Kentuck, you are so loved. I wish there was more we in your DU family could do for you.

even when we think it can't. The pain will subside as time goes by. Just remember, you are never truly alone. Come here when you feel like you are. We are all here for you.