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NNadir

(35,625 posts)
Fri Apr 18, 2025, 08:11 PM Friday

Ever check in on the people on your DU "ignore list?"

I used to get in a lot of trouble around here until I realized that whenever I want to go over the line - and often I do - the "ignore" button is my friend.

Every once in a while though, I go to my ignore list through "My DU" and click on the people on it to check on their "Chance of Serving On Juries" which is a defacto register of how problematic some of us - myself included - are.

It's a guilty little puerile thing I do; I should really grow up, but maybe I'm too old to grow up.

This said, it seems my anti-friends here are getting in a certain amount of trouble themselves, some zero percenters here and there. I'd recommend the "ignore list" to them, but well, we're not friends and not in communication. Others seem to have just gone away. (I've been here a long time.)

The ignore list and the jury system are features that make DU the best liberal site there is. Kudos to the admins/owners!

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Ever check in on the people on your DU "ignore list?" (Original Post) NNadir Friday OP
I forgot about the ignore list stillcool Friday #1
It's a super wonderful feature. I recommend it highly. When I serve on juries myself, having been dinged, I try... NNadir Friday #3
Interesting add on. You are engaged. You have evidence. cachukis Friday #6
I loathe fight pickers and argument starters Faux pas Friday #2
every once in a while I clear it Skittles Friday #4
I would never clear mine. I'd get in trouble. I'm a hothead myself on certain issues, but happily I know it now. NNadir Friday #5
If a member Ignores a member they miss out on whole subthreads of friends & allies. Plus OPs are not Ignored Bernardo de La Paz Friday #7
Kudos to you. I clearly lack your maturity; I need the ignore list. NNadir Friday #8
I don't know about my maturity. I'm dinged for one post recently, which is debatable, but I let it go. Bernardo de La Paz Friday #9
LOL... creative! hlthe2b Friday #11
One can always log off, open DU, and see what an anti-friend is saying and the responses they get. NNadir Saturday #15
It can be very useful function especially in the "heat of argument." That said I usually only keep hlthe2b Friday #10
I probably should check my ignore list bif Friday #12
I can't bring myself to put anyone on the ignore list. TomSlick Friday #13
My Ignore List RobinA Monday #23
I've been a lawyer for years, including 28 years as an Army Judge Advocate. TomSlick Monday #32
Don't have one, just love my loves UTUSN Friday #14
I use it sparingly, and when I check it, I frequently find some are FFR'd RandomNumbers Saturday #16
Yeah, I noticed that too. A lot just went away. n/t. NNadir Saturday #17
No Such List Exists For Me ProfessorGAC Saturday #18
I need it, because I anger easily. That said, the list apparently hasn't been maintained well. I'm only aware... NNadir Sunday #19
I Get It ProfessorGAC Monday #20
No problem. I'm pleased to not be on your... NNadir Monday #24
Well Done! ProfessorGAC Monday #25
I do once in a while and just did... AKwannabe Monday #21
AKwannabe .... Niagara Monday #30
If it's the same one I'm thinking of, it went away sulking apparently, close to FFR status. NNadir Tuesday #34
When I check on it most all are banned mercuryblues Monday #22
How do you ignore someone. Is that the Trash button? Bluestocking Monday #26
Click on the person's name in their post. NNadir Monday #28
Some don't like me, a few hate me, some are patronizing bucolic_frolic Monday #27
I don't check that list too often Niagara Monday #29
I've erased my ignore list a couple time. Angleae Monday #31
Yes, I periodically check it and remove people. Elessar Zappa Monday #33

stillcool

(33,659 posts)
1. I forgot about the ignore list
Fri Apr 18, 2025, 08:17 PM
Friday

probably why I have to take so many breaks. Thanks for the reminder!

NNadir

(35,625 posts)
3. It's a super wonderful feature. I recommend it highly. When I serve on juries myself, having been dinged, I try...
Fri Apr 18, 2025, 08:22 PM
Friday

...to be generous and tolerant, but don't always succeed, because let's face it, there is some obnoxious stuff that the rules are well designed to address.

You cannot be called, as I understand it, to act on a jury for someone on your ignore list, so my anti-friends cannot blame me if they're getting in trouble.

I try to avoid alerting, except in clearly egregious cases.

cachukis

(3,103 posts)
6. Interesting add on. You are engaged. You have evidence.
Fri Apr 18, 2025, 08:33 PM
Friday

Was thinking about arrogance.
There is an unavoidable military bragadaccio, even in the less militarized and there is an intellectual pomposity that really troubles those who miss that it is not pompous, but fact.
We are here.

Faux pas

(15,634 posts)
2. I loathe fight pickers and argument starters
Fri Apr 18, 2025, 08:17 PM
Friday

it effs with my Peace, Love and Joy.
To answer your question, I check it every few years. It's not that important to me

Skittles

(163,558 posts)
4. every once in a while I clear it
Fri Apr 18, 2025, 08:29 PM
Friday

but I always almost immediately am putting the same fly-under-the-radar trolls on Ignore yet again; those folk have been here for YEARS

NNadir

(35,625 posts)
5. I would never clear mine. I'd get in trouble. I'm a hothead myself on certain issues, but happily I know it now.
Fri Apr 18, 2025, 08:32 PM
Friday

I'm not strong on maturity, so it's good I have finally come to recognize my limits.

Bernardo de La Paz

(54,817 posts)
7. If a member Ignores a member they miss out on whole subthreads of friends & allies. Plus OPs are not Ignored
Fri Apr 18, 2025, 08:49 PM
Friday

It's not as if only the posts are ignored. You end up silently missing many other posts. (I have tested this with momentary Ignores.) I think it used to be that individual posts would be Ignored and you'd see the rest of a subthread and just a marker of some kind to let you know a post or two was Ignored. Now you have to notice that there numbers missing in the titles summary of a thread or that there seem to be fewer posts than the count.

I have not needed to Ignore people. I am able to handle them via replies or get over them without difficulty. There are people who resolutely oppose some of my positions and others (some overlap) who I think should study up on logic and reasoning, but my basic approach is to keep bringing it back to logic and facts and let them reveal their deficits to the readers.

The DU system is remarkably effective overall and part of the reason there is such loyalty and long term participation by such a large number of members.

Bernardo de La Paz

(54,817 posts)
9. I don't know about my maturity. I'm dinged for one post recently, which is debatable, but I let it go.
Fri Apr 18, 2025, 08:53 PM
Friday

In the old days if I was told by a member that they were ignoring me, I'd engineer my replies such that the gaps in their threads would be intriguing and obvious and sometimes it they would make mistakes when not Ignoring would have prevented it. Tweaking their noses was a bit "puerile", to use your word

NNadir

(35,625 posts)
15. One can always log off, open DU, and see what an anti-friend is saying and the responses they get.
Sat Apr 19, 2025, 10:06 AM
Saturday

I've done this from time to time when confronted by your strategy, just out of a sense of morbid curiousity.

Almost all of the time, I think of the wisdom of the ignore list and ignore the sub thread; in any case others are doing what I would have done, albeit less offensively. If I find something that offends my senses and which may inspire the generation of a response, a somewhat rare event, I can always create a new thread of commentary on the offensive thing expressed by my unfriend.

Here's an example of such a thread in response to an "ignoree" who claimed, that giant wind turbines were more sustainable than small wind turbines, a nonsense claim:

A Commentary on Failure, Delusion and Faith: Danish Data on Big Wind Turbines and Their Lifetimes.

hlthe2b

(109,233 posts)
10. It can be very useful function especially in the "heat of argument." That said I usually only keep
Fri Apr 18, 2025, 09:27 PM
Friday

Someone on it for a few days or so. When I have had a half dozen blocked, I usually find that they have been permanently "departed" when I remember to check in six months or so...

But, it can be a helpful feature when we enter one of those controversy-driven periods. Right now, Trump and his ilk pretty much have most of us united against them rather than each other. So, I guess there is that.

TomSlick

(12,341 posts)
13. I can't bring myself to put anyone on the ignore list.
Fri Apr 18, 2025, 10:13 PM
Friday

I want to know what everyone, even the most obnoxious, think.

I have learned over time that there are some folks to whom I should not respond.

RobinA

(10,309 posts)
23. My Ignore List
Mon Apr 21, 2025, 12:02 PM
Monday

is kinda long, but it's made up mostly of name callers. If you ever called me a concern troll for worrying that Trump would win, you are probably on it. Also, The Edward Snowden affair got a lot of people ignored. Can't even remember what the problem was.

TomSlick

(12,341 posts)
32. I've been a lawyer for years, including 28 years as an Army Judge Advocate.
Mon Apr 21, 2025, 07:29 PM
Monday

Over the years, I've been called everything except a child of God. As a result, I have grown a pretty thick skin.

RandomNumbers

(18,547 posts)
16. I use it sparingly, and when I check it, I frequently find some are FFR'd
Sat Apr 19, 2025, 10:26 AM
Saturday

which gives me a little validation for my judgement

ProfessorGAC

(72,378 posts)
18. No Such List Exists For Me
Sat Apr 19, 2025, 07:32 PM
Saturday

I've never used the Ignore feature. I can remember the few people I found so annoying that I could ignore the posts from them without any automation help.
It's quite a small number anyway, so it's not like I'm remembering 20 posters. Just a handful & most of them are long gone.

NNadir

(35,625 posts)
19. I need it, because I anger easily. That said, the list apparently hasn't been maintained well. I'm only aware...
Sun Apr 20, 2025, 07:11 PM
Sunday

...of five or so people on the list of 52 people currently on it. I went through it; two have had posting procedures revoked; one is flagged for review. About half of them apparently haven't posted in years.

A fair number of have been dinged a number of times, a few multiple times.

Most of them I can't recall how or why they ended up on "ignore;" probably I wanted to express what I thought of them, and thought better of it.

I envy you for your balanced view and higher level of tolerance.

Unfortunately I can be unable to contain anger. The good thing is that I know it.

It's childish, I know but the technical tool of the "ignore" button is one I actually appreciate. Some of us need it.

AKwannabe

(6,730 posts)
21. I do once in a while and just did...
Mon Apr 21, 2025, 10:16 AM
Monday

Only have 7 (been here 8 yrs).

One is FFR and one hasn’t posted in over a year but can tell they are lurking since they do rec posts.

One of them has over 2000!!!! Posts in 90 days! Super tired of seeing that poster on main page and trending but that does happen when people are controversial I guess.

One likes to hear themselves talk I am very sure of that and calls themself a “writer” and is super egotistical…I’ll stop there! Lol.

I am sure I am on a couple ignore lists because I don’t back down! (Tom Petty)

Niagara

(10,515 posts)
30. AKwannabe ....
Mon Apr 21, 2025, 06:36 PM
Monday
One of them has over 2000!!!! Posts in 90 days! "


Most likely the same one that I have on ignore.

My first interaction with them, right out of they gate they basically said that I was stupid. I didn't read their comment any further and immediately placed them on my full ignore list.

They say that voting has consequences but so does treating others badly.

You have ally right here. I didn't register to DU to be cruel to others.



NNadir

(35,625 posts)
34. If it's the same one I'm thinking of, it went away sulking apparently, close to FFR status.
Tue Apr 22, 2025, 10:12 PM
Tuesday

For a while I thought it was a bot.

bucolic_frolic

(49,920 posts)
27. Some don't like me, a few hate me, some are patronizing
Mon Apr 21, 2025, 02:08 PM
Monday

My ignore list is yooge. At times I'm blunt. Etiquette is not my strong suit.

The ignore list and jury system are a way of defusing conflict in a democratic way, which is what you do in a pluralistic society. Tolerate. There are things worth fighting over, but most things are not.

People get SCOTUS cases over religion in cakes. If they'd start baking the Devil in there the legal profession would have a payday. I don't know why this doesn't happen. But I can't get worked up over it. Probably they won't agree with me, and the sun will come up tomorrow either way, and breakfast will be on the table.

Niagara

(10,515 posts)
29. I don't check that list too often
Mon Apr 21, 2025, 06:31 PM
Monday

Most that I have set on my ignore list have been FFR'ed (flagged for review) or PPR'ed (posting privileges revoked).


I like the fact that we all have our own thoughts, feelings and perspectives.

There is a civil way to address people and then there are condescending, uncivilized and toxic people here on DU. I have zero tolerance for the later. We on DU should act like we're all the same team because we are.

I don't believe that putting people where they belong is considered immature. I believe it's a necessary tool to use in both in person interaction and on the internet.

I treat toxic people as they should be treated. Nonexistent.








Angleae

(4,696 posts)
31. I've erased my ignore list a couple time.
Mon Apr 21, 2025, 06:48 PM
Monday

Then quickly realized why I put those idiots on there in the first place.

Elessar Zappa

(16,328 posts)
33. Yes, I periodically check it and remove people.
Mon Apr 21, 2025, 08:30 PM
Monday

I’m sure I’m on some people’s list, I can admittedly be an asshole sometimes though I really do try to stay nice.

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