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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsMy wife's in surgery. I hate the silence in the waiting room.
Last edited Fri Apr 18, 2025, 11:38 AM - Edit history (1)
Update: The doctor called. She's in recovery. The procedure went well and was sucessful.Trying to read to keep my mind off it. The doctor is well rated and the procedure as heart procedures go is low risk. Still I'm really stressed. We're an hour into it according to the progress monitor.
I don't want to turn the damn TV on. It would make me crazy.





Hope all goes well despite your anxiety.
Walleye
(39,752 posts)Its frightening beyond words. I hope sincerely everything turns out all right for you and she recovers fully and quickly.
sinkingfeeling
(55,073 posts)Hang in there.
LoisB
(10,182 posts)
Gore1FL
(22,411 posts)It keeps my mind occupied and deals with the blood pressure I get worrying.
My thoughts are with you and your wife.
brer cat
(26,900 posts)Alliepoo
(2,686 posts)The time in the waiting room is awful. Im sending all good vibes to your wife and a big ((HUG)) to you as you are waiting to hear from the doctor. I know it will all be good but that doesnt make the wait any easier. Let us know when you hear!!!
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Clouds Passing
(4,433 posts)Karadeniz
(24,234 posts)True Dough
(22,761 posts)May you be a short time away from relief and reassurance.
Wicked Blue
(7,885 posts)
SheltieLover
(66,761 posts)And comfort to you.
KitFox
(289 posts)your world is at a standstill. Hoping the blissful relief when the doc approaches with good news comes soon! Sending hugs to you and your dear wife. Please keep us updated. 🩷
Solly Mack
(94,834 posts)Hope all goes well.
Jarqui
(10,625 posts)Even medical procedures that are deemed 99.9x% likely to be successful can drive me crazy
Your wife married the right person.
Duncanpup
(14,328 posts)NNadir
(35,629 posts)Thanks for all the good wishes.
Sienna86
(2,152 posts)Glad things are looking very positive. Hang in there.
wordstroken
(1,084 posts)I truly know how you feel as you wait. The silence can be overwhelming.
Great news of your update. So glad shes in recovery and doing well.
electric_blue68
(20,971 posts)eppur_se_muova
(38,922 posts)A little late for best wishes for the procedure, but I can still wish you both a good recovery.
Several years ago, my mom had her heart stopped and restarted to try to bring her afib under control. It's probably the lowest-risk cardiac procedure you can get, but just the thought was anxiety-inducing -- anything concerning the heart is, whatever the doctors say, so I can sympathize. (She came out of it fine, but still with afib.)
NNadir
(35,629 posts)...for quite some time. They've been managed with propranolol, but apparently with age, the drug loses effectiveness.
Apparently it's a familial genetic thing with her mother and uncles, an extra node.
We figured we'd deal with it before the country collapses which it seems to be doing.
eppur_se_muova
(38,922 posts)cardiologist seems to think it's not a good idea at her age (88). She just had the "jumper start", which sometimes resets the rhythm. She relies on metoprolol, which is not as strong, but more selective, than propranolol. (Plus Xarelto to avoid clots, plus levothyroxin to offset the side effects of Xarelto ...)
Lots of luck to both of you. Mom's lived with her condition for years now, but no one has ever said her condition was genetic, so maybe not as reassuring as we'd like.
ProfessorGAC
(72,379 posts)Hope recovery goes quickly.
JMCKUSICK
(1,987 posts)claudette
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