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Archae

(47,113 posts)
Wed Apr 16, 2025, 11:42 PM Apr 16

I just saw a program on a channel on my smart TV that shows people playing cards. I ended up crying.

One of the things I used to love doing with my Mom was playing cribbage.
We were pretty evenly matched, and we had fun playing.

Mom died 5 years ago.

Watching a couple people playing a match on the TV, I actually started crying, I sure do miss her.

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I just saw a program on a channel on my smart TV that shows people playing cards. I ended up crying. (Original Post) Archae Apr 16 OP
... Drum Apr 16 #1
Thanks, I sure do miss my Mom. Archae Apr 16 #2
I hear ya... Drum Apr 16 #3
Sorry about your Mom Zorro Thursday #4
Never played Cribbage with my Mom. But Dad would skin me, all of the time. If I had $.03 in my pocket OAITW r.2.0 Thursday #5
I get it. With my mom it was often Scrabble.... electric_blue68 Thursday #6
I'm so sorry. 😭. My Mom taught me to play cribbage too, and I miss her very much, as well. LiberalLoner Thursday #7
Grief has no expiration date. I still find myself missing my dear Mother-in-law at times, and she died in 2000! HeartsCanHope Thursday #8
So sorry, Archae. I know that feeling. ... littlemissmartypants Thursday #9
Your Mom Clouds Passing Thursday #10
We have something in common there, Archae! True Dough Thursday #11

Zorro

(17,244 posts)
4. Sorry about your Mom
Thu Apr 17, 2025, 12:17 AM
Thursday

Cribbage is my favorite fun and challenging card game.

Spent lots of time playing against other sailors in times long gone by.

OAITW r.2.0

(30,041 posts)
5. Never played Cribbage with my Mom. But Dad would skin me, all of the time. If I had $.03 in my pocket
Thu Apr 17, 2025, 12:19 AM
Thursday

I'd lose it at Cribbage. Eventually. I played him even.

electric_blue68

(20,971 posts)
6. I get it. With my mom it was often Scrabble....
Thu Apr 17, 2025, 01:45 AM
Thursday

Last edited Thu Apr 17, 2025, 02:27 AM - Edit history (1)

She'd beat me about 2/3rds of the time.

I had the bigger vocabulary, but she'd been doing crossword puzzles for a pretty long so she could "see" spots on the playing for potential words better than me.


Oh, I miss her. Been almost 17 yrs (gah).
The pain was so fierce the first yr or 2, eventually it lessened a lot. Now it's a rare more intense feeling, but mostly a wistful sadness.

And a lot of wonderful memories I share w my sister, and others!

LiberalLoner

(10,955 posts)
7. I'm so sorry. 😭. My Mom taught me to play cribbage too, and I miss her very much, as well.
Thu Apr 17, 2025, 02:49 AM
Thursday

It never really stops being an ache in your heart.

HeartsCanHope

(991 posts)
8. Grief has no expiration date. I still find myself missing my dear Mother-in-law at times, and she died in 2000!
Thu Apr 17, 2025, 05:27 AM
Thursday

I just try to be grateful for the time I had with her, and be glad that she is still with me in my memories and heart.

littlemissmartypants

(27,213 posts)
9. So sorry, Archae. I know that feeling. ...
Thu Apr 17, 2025, 03:43 PM
Thursday

My mother and I shared a love of Far Side cartoons. Now every time I see one, I cry.



❤️

True Dough

(22,761 posts)
11. We have something in common there, Archae!
Thu Apr 17, 2025, 08:19 PM
Thursday

I come from a family of cribbage players. True story: I only had a hand of 29 once in my life, but I never got to play it. Even worse, I was playing my mom and she counted first to go out, leaving me BEHIND the skunk line!!!

A very memorable evening, but for the wrong reasons. But I did enjoy playing cards with mom. She's been gone 13 years.

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