Father of service member killed in Iran war said he never told Pete Hegseth to 'finish' the job
Source: NBC News
March 19, 2026, 7:27 PM EDT
WASHINGTON Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth met privately Wednesday with the families of six service members who died in the Iran war and, in a press briefing the next morning, said the message he got was consistent and supportive. What I heard through tears, through hugs, through strength and through unbreakable resolve was the same from family after family. They said, Finish this. Honor their sacrifice. Do not waver. Do not stop until the job is done, Hegseth said.
One of the people he met at Dover Air Force Base in Delaware was Charles Simmons. His 28-year-old son, Tech. Sgt. Tyler H. Simmons, was among the six crew members killed when their refueling plane crashed in Iraq last week. Simmons recalled his exchange differently. I cant speak for the other families. When he spoke to me, that was not something we talked about, he told NBC News in an interview Thursday.
Simmons said he spoke separately to Hegseth and President Donald Trump at Dover and was grateful for the warmth that both men showed him. He and Hegseth spoke mostly about Tyler, his impressive service record and the speed with which he had advanced in the military, Simmons recalled.
He said he told the defense secretary, I understand theres a lot of peril that goes into making decisions like this, and I just certainly hope the decisions being made are necessary.. Asked if he said anything to Hegseth or Trump about the need to keep fighting the war, Simmons said, No, I didnt say anything along those lines.
Read more: https://www.nbcnews.com/politics/donald-trump/father-servicemember-killed-iran-war-never-told-hegseth-finish-the-job-rcna264297
Chasstev365
(7,681 posts)Lovie777
(22,854 posts)Ray Bruns
(6,305 posts)
sop
(18,474 posts)With tears in their eyes.
Javaman
(65,652 posts)as the music swelled and the wind tousled his hair.
surfered
(13,231 posts)Midnight Writer
(25,349 posts)Reminds me of Trump telling people Princes Dianna had bought a condo in one of his buildings in NY.
She hadn't, of course. But Trump knew the rumor would bring in a lot of status conscious wealthy people who would pay a premium price to live at the same address as the Princess.
suegeo
(3,136 posts)I believe a sociopath would make the hairs on the back of my neck stand up.
republianmushroom
(22,282 posts)Playingmantis
(620 posts)Lying is just part of the game for them...
mdbl
(8,605 posts)I won't even bother talking to them anymore.
orleans
(36,871 posts)maybe all the rest of them said finish the job, avenge my child's death.
but i doubt it.
Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin
(135,335 posts)Attilatheblond
(8,801 posts)Hegseth is afraid of photographs and now microphones. He is in full panic as his failures are matched only by his ridiculous lies. He has to know the boss demands more than just a pretty face now.
LetMyPeopleVote
(179,214 posts)Hegseth said "family after family" of service members killed urged the administration to not stop until the job is done." The father said he appreciated the compassion that Hegseth and Trump showed him during their visit.

https://www.nbcnews.com/politics/donald-trump/father-servicemember-killed-iran-war-never-told-hegseth-finish-the-job-rcna264297
What I heard through tears, through hugs, through strength and through unbreakable resolve was the same from family after family. They said, Finish this. Honor their sacrifice. Do not waver. Do not stop until the job is done, Hegseth said.
One of the people he met at Dover Air Force Base in Delaware was Charles Simmons. His 28-year-old son, Tech. Sgt. Tyler H. Simmons, was among the six crew members killed when their refueling plane crashed in Iraq last week.
Simmons recalled his exchange differently.
I cant speak for the other families. When he spoke to me, that was not something we talked about, he told NBC News in an interview Thursday.
Simmons said he spoke separately to Hegseth and President Donald Trump at Dover and was grateful for the warmth that both men showed him.
oasis
(53,621 posts)your gung-ho ass over there.
turbinetree
(27,455 posts)and we should hold the 6 maga Supreme court justices that said that leader of that maga party has immunity for this current shit show unfolding before our eyes.........is Barron Trump going to go and fight............