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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsRe Platner - We can bask in our purity
As we sit in places like Delaney Hall, after they round us up.
Don't mind the maggots in the food, they are little badges of honor
no_hypocrisy
(55,513 posts)Dems abandoned him despite Weiner being a firebrand on the floor of the House.
He could have shown current Dems how its done.
He lost his seat. He lost his wife. Perpetually monikered with disgraced.
And did his resignation materially help the Party or just sustain the status quote?
LisaL
(47,610 posts)because the girl was underaged. I guess you don't realize that, or what? I don't think he could have served from prison, by the way.
It would be kind of difficult to vote, no?
EdmondDantes_
(2,143 posts)Under no circumstances should we stand by that. Platner's texts going to adult women is entirely different (provided it was with consent). People can make arguments about his tattoo and his reddit posts being disqualifying for them. I'm very glad I don't live in Maine where I think either likely choice is deeply problematic.
But when you have to downplay someone's actions or relying on whataboutism it's not a convincing argument. It's not as simple as we are inherently good because we have picked the right party. My biological dad is a Democrat, he's also an abusive jerk and rapist. Sorry but the former doesn't give him a pass.
Fil1957
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Then after having been caught twice, he got caught sexting again! This time wearing under shorts lying on a bed with his son.
As if this wasn't enough, he got caught one more time, this time sending porno to a minor, in which he served 15 months in prison.
Platner is nothing like Weiner, who is a covicted felon and registered sex offender.
karynnj
(61,149 posts)It was because he was caught again and the FBI got his laptop that they found several Clinton emails that his wife opened on a shared computer when HRC was SoS. These led Comey to announce they were reopening the emails investigation and the. 3 days before the election to announce none were not seen by them before.
I know there was a period when Weiner was popular here because he was outspoken, however that never made him someone either improving Democratic chances or accomplishing anything in the House.
LisaL
(47,610 posts)It's an addiction, no matter what it costs them.
karynnj
(61,149 posts)His wife and any political career. It's too bad that he might be to blame for Trump ever becoming President.
Fil1957
(921 posts)LisaL
(47,610 posts)His stupid laptop.
Fil1957
(921 posts)stopdiggin
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Wow !
I guess we then have to pose the question ... IS there such a thing as disqualifying character or behavior?
Or have we now entered territory where anything (meaning virtually anything) goes?
All good?
(Note: have NOT put Platner in the same category as Weiner - but the issue remains, does questionable behavior (any behavior?) now becomes 'no go', 'hands off' -- because, 'purity' ?)
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sarisataka
(22,866 posts)is AIPAC money.
Anything else (apparently) up to and including soliciting sex from minors is a "maybe"
ShazzieB
(22,948 posts)In case you forgot what Weiner did, he was sexting a 15 year old. He committed a crime, he went to jail for it, and he's now a registered sex offender. No matter how much any of us may have originally liked him, he deserved what he got.
As much talk about pedophiles as there is at DU these days, (calling Trump one, ranting about the Epstein files, etc.) and about Trump and other criminals never having to face justice, I'd call this a win. Here's a sex offender who got caught and paid for it. Losing a popular congressperson sucks, but any other outcome would have been worse.
mr715
(4,341 posts)with the help of DU's great hero, James Comey
Boo1
(501 posts)dalton99a
(95,651 posts)and
"Work harder to get your rewards in heaven"
orangecrush
(31,326 posts)TSF, and then look at Platner.
The cognitive dissonance of the purists is staggering.
karynnj
(61,149 posts)Our hope is enough people will come out to vote to get someone who will with their first vote help us take the majority to put a stop on so many bad things.
delisen
(7,447 posts)A lot of Republicans got taken in by Trump and his backers They got taken over and cast aside.
A lot of Democrats are wiser.
I'm not sure.
BannonsLiver
(20,905 posts)Thats my purity stim.
Ferryboat
(1,279 posts)What was gained? Gary Hart , John Edward's both were effective in
politics but certainly had bad judgment in personal matters.
The rethugs have no problem looking the other way. Life is messy and the older I get, the more forgiving I've become.
Being idealistic is for amateurs.
What do we expect from a country founded by Purtitans.
question everything
(52,476 posts)that each day brought new allegations that demanded his response and interfered with his senatorial work.
questionseverything
(12,010 posts)krawhitham
(5,094 posts)WhiskeyGrinder
(27,278 posts)LisaL
(47,610 posts)But Franken was a different story. He was already in a Senate.
This guy isn't even nominated yet.
WhiskeyGrinder
(27,278 posts)resignation helping Dems beat Roy Moore that same year.
LisaL
(47,610 posts)did nothing for the long run.
BannonsLiver
(20,905 posts)EdmondDantes_
(2,143 posts)And being against someone repeatedly touching people without their consent isn't puritanical. It's basic appropriate behavior.
Being against a guy who was indicted for campaign finance related to cheating on his dying wife is also a good thing in my view.
And going back 40 years, the world was different. But I'll give you Gary Hart.
mr715
(4,341 posts)He elevated his party by making it.
He remains a stalwart. He remains invited to all the best parties.
He recognized that he was not owed his seat, and that there were many others that could do the job as well as he could.
So he did the ethical, moral thing and elevated the Democratic party.
Quiet Em
(3,073 posts)If you want to put all your eggs into the Maine basket go for it.
I'm going to concentrate on GA, NH, NC, TX, OH, MI, and AK.
KPN
(17,540 posts)questionseverything
(12,010 posts)mr715
(4,341 posts)flashman13
(2,593 posts)Irish_Dem
(82,708 posts)LisaL
(47,610 posts)Why do we need to nominate someone with so many issues?
orangecrush
(31,326 posts)Irish_Dem
(82,708 posts)Smart people acting stupid.
Skittles
(173,178 posts)WTF happened to integrity
Irish_Dem
(82,708 posts)As are good judgement, common sense,
and desire to actual win our battle against the MAGAs.
I come from a military family and learned to be in it to win it.
I can put niceties aside, but cannot endorse abject stupid strategies
guaranteed to make us lose the battle and sell our soul in the process.
Skittles
(173,178 posts)and I don't like military service being used as a defense to act like a fucking asshole.
Nixie
(18,138 posts)popular First Lady were over some industry standard speeches and she was a proven Democrat over many decades. Attacking her brought us here, fighting to even get back what we had a few short years ago. None of this would be happening.
In the meantime, the war on millionaires and billionaires seems to be over in certain purity circles a billionaire is bring actively pushed in California.
So all the reverse psychology attempts fall quite short of reality.
mcar
(46,421 posts)who were on social media slamming HRC because she (gasp) gave speeches, who proudly voted for Jill Stein and who were the same people who screamed about "Killer Kamala" are now the ones lecturing us about "purity politics."
Nixie
(18,138 posts)about what the purity tests really were about. You nailed it. 👍🏼
Cha
(320,973 posts)The "purity tests" were okay for VP Kamala Harris when so much was at stake.
But don't even have an opinion on this if you don't live in Maine. It's the hypocrisy.
P.S., I wish he would stop tearing down Democrats. We need to win across the Country to take back the Midterms. He can't do it alone.
betsuni
(29,348 posts)HILARIOUS! Not even a "hold my nose" or "lesser of two evils." Well, the true evil was giving a paid speech
, right geniuses.
duckworth969
(1,419 posts)Feeding the clicks is unhelpful.
Neither is keeping the issue alive.
People of Maine, decide not someone from Topeka.
Yeah, it blows. Shake yer head and grouse all you want in private.
But NOT online.
Dont feed the machine, thats a vote for the Bad Guys.
orangecrush
(31,326 posts)They read like this was breaking news, that he had been sexting women during the campaign.
Upon reading, it turned out this happened during a rocky period early in the marriage, his wife said they had worked through it and she was 100% behind him, and had confided in a campaign aide who betrayed her.
Ratfucking by the corporate media, pure and simple
stopdiggin
(15,688 posts)Gotcha !!
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Red Mountain
(2,386 posts)feel free to criticize the behavior and expect him to behave.
After the election, if he's our candidate.
stopdiggin
(15,688 posts)(this was dealt with months ago)
I also think that Platner has proven himself (all by himself, and on a number of different fronts) to be a questionable 'pick'
If he turns out to be 'your guy', then so be it. But - have to admit there's a big "Sheeesh" involved there too.
Red Mountain
(2,386 posts)wouldn't try and pretend otherwise. He's a flawed candidate.
He's also proven himself, on a number of different fronts, to be a candidate who says a lot of things voters want to hear.
Does he believe them? Is he just pretending to be a Dem?
My guess is yes and no.
Either way, better than the alternative. Hopefully.
stopdiggin
(15,688 posts)to be pulling the lever for ' the lesser of two .. '
That's just plain common sense - and hard won knowledge of bedrock reality, and necessity.
My argument would remain with those that would imply that these things (issues of character) - simply don't matter any more ... Because .. "the world we live in .. " - "the other side .." and yada, yada. It DOES still matter. I'll I'll not be talked down from pointing to a lack ... (honesty, decency, basic moral character, etc.) If I have to elect a person with a questionable track record - so be it. But please don't tell me I'm not suppose to notice (or comment on) all the warts in evidence.
betsuni
(29,348 posts)Anyone damaging the Democratic Party with lies that they're corrupt, "ignore" the working class, don't fight, both sides, all is lost, is basking in their own stupidity for nothing.
Platner's situation isn't a purity test.
Cha
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Nailed it!
jmbar2
(8,208 posts)After MeToo, Epstein, Swallwell, tRump, Hegseth, etc., we should recognize this behavior. Exploitive, narcissistic, and entitled behavior towards women. And women are supposed to shut up about it and "stand by our man".
Yeah, he says all the right stuff, he's charismatic, and we really need Maine. But he treats women like crap, and we are supposed to shut up.
The video from his wife was painful to watch. Their marriage is still young. They have invested their whole lives into getting him elected, and now could lose it all because of his entitled dick. His wife is having to fall on her sword, and try to save his candidacy because they will both lose a lot if he gets dumped. Double penalty for her - getting cheated on, and now having to save him from the consequences of his selfish, entitled behaviors.
Not mentioned are the responses of the other women he has been harassing. Most of them are probably Dems. They are put in the same spot. Because of the precarity of the seat, they have to keep silent about what he's been up to. We don't have the full picture on that, and may never know because of the pressure on them to not talk, or lose the seat.
All of the women are expected to shut up and support him because we want the seat. We have learned nothing from the victims.
SMDH...
LisaL
(47,610 posts)Why do we need to nominate someone with that kind of issues? And who knows what else is going to come out. Susan Collins is presumably waiting until after the primary to release her opposition research.
questionseverything
(12,010 posts)Anyone who doesnt support the murder and mayhem Israel heaps on the rest of the world gets millions spent against them by AIPAC and the minions they pay
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LisaL
(47,610 posts)NT
MorbidButterflyTat
(4,815 posts)As usual, expected to sit down and shut up, get over it and disappear while the entitled white guy "saves" us.
Excellent post.
mr715
(4,341 posts)orangecrush
(31,326 posts)He actually was unfaithful while in office.
I had the best 8 years of my life under Bill Clinton, and actually was able to break out of poverty and enjoy my life during his terms.
What he did with his dick was between him, Lewinsky and Hillary and was none of my fucking business, as I see it.
jmbar2
(8,208 posts)Platner is an unknown opportunist with poor judgment, who treats women like crap. I don't live in Maine, but given the choice between two unknowns, would prefer they elect the other Dem without the baggage.
stopdiggin
(15,688 posts)pinkstarburst
(2,098 posts)This is not my race to vote in, but I cannot believe there is not a single qualified candidate in all of Maine that we could have run.
TheSphinx
(8 posts)should maybe think about leaving party politics all together.
Politics is not for the weak stomachs.
LisaL
(47,610 posts)Or we wouldn't have had Trump.
TheSphinx
(8 posts)or else we would have President Harris right now.
They chose excrement in human form over a perfectly qualified woman because he campaigned on quickly and forcefully improving the cost of living. They were lies of course, but it shows how you win elections.
LisaL
(47,610 posts)Did the cost of living improve any?
Or are we all going downhill in a handbasket? Should you be believing a known liar?
Maybe we shouldn't just be concerned with winning elections, but whether the candidate is actually going to deliver on whatever they are promising?
TheSphinx
(8 posts)In party politics that's ALL that matters. Winning.
Leave the policy to the policy wonks, not the candidate.
LisaL
(47,610 posts)If that's the goal of the election, to make the candidate happy?
mr715
(4,341 posts)I seem to suspect 2016 Trump was probably very upset he lost because he didn't seem to want the gig.
If a politician is happy they won an election, it better be because they can deliver on their promises to improve the lives of those that voted for them.
Otherwise, I hope that a dour and internalize the gravity of the responsibility of their investiture.
sop
(19,495 posts)Democratic party's progressive agenda and ideals forward most effectively. It's a pragmatic choice, not a personality contest.
Skittles
(173,178 posts)politics shouldn't include THAT, especially Democrats
TBF
(37,369 posts)the guy is barely alive at this point, is the most hated man on this planet, and Americans are NOT better off.
The fact that he was able to pull a coup on the government is not something to emulate, it is something he should serve time for. There is no way I can look at what he has done and say "Oh it looks like that works - let's do that team blue".
Just no.
What we need to get tough on is resisting in a way that CAN take him down. The complete Epstein files should have been released years ago, and I have some good guesses as to why they weren't. Let the chips fall where they may and release them now.
MorbidButterflyTat
(4,815 posts)I hope he means it.
TheSphinx
(8 posts)This is true in any war or competition.
Biden thought he could "turn the page" on Trump and beat him by ignoring him and look what happened.
They took advantage of that and RAN HIM OVER.
MAGA is ruthless against us with no shame and if we cant strike fear into their hearts then they will keep beating us over the head. We are at risk of losing 2 more SCOTUS seats for fucks sake.
Nice time is over.
TBF
(37,369 posts)I said RELEASE THE EPSTEIN FILES.
Are you afraid of what's in there? I'm not. They already took down a Prince, let's take down the rest of the MFer's.
Is that tough enough for you? I think they not only raped and brutalized girls, I think it's possible they killed some of them. It's time to release it all. As I said above, let the chips fall where they may - and I mean that.
TheSphinx
(8 posts)Calling for things do NOTHING. Take action. Trump feels cozy and safe enough to promote and broadcast a trashy UFC fight on the White House lawn.
If Dems were smart at countering Trumps misdirection tactics, they would use that opportunity to embarrass him on national TV and draw attention back to the files. Get someone to get in front of the cameras with photos of Epstein and Trump.
Organize a protest close to the WH and use airhorns to drown out the talking and disrupt the fight.
TBF
(37,369 posts)I do like the airhorn idea, though, that has merit.
sarisataka
(22,866 posts)are you the new bouncer?
For some reason the new bouncer is afraid of the Epstein files. But I'm not. Release them all, clean house. Starting with the White House.
Nanjeanne
(6,668 posts)they would have had this been a case of underage girls or unsolicited, etc - it basically shows a guy who chose poor judgment in his marriage and its up to his wife to forgive him. Sexting is a newer phenomenon and its done by many many people. Had texts been a thing years ago Im quite sure we would have found many of our politicians involved in it. If I way this against getting universal healthcare, decent and affordable housing, education and wages its desperation on the part of some anti Platner people in search of a story.
LisaL
(47,610 posts)I am sure it's coming.
questionseverything
(12,010 posts)Thats the real story here
When AIPAC is pissed the candidate is doing something right!
FascismIsDeath
(277 posts)A lot of us warned folks that this guy had too much baggage. If we don't beat Collins this time, the people who refused to listen and continued to back this guy when we had a chance at choosing someone without all the drama will be squarely to blame for it.
surfered
(14,546 posts)But Platner did this to himself. If reporting is correct, he texted multiple women. How could he expect it not to come out?
LisaL
(47,610 posts)NT
Skittles
(173,178 posts)WTF
Renew Deal
(85,415 posts)Thats pretty much it.
Irish_Dem
(82,708 posts)And heck, woman are just asking for it anyway, right.
And if they are child rapists, all the better.
orangecrush
(31,326 posts)Having an affair does not make someone any of those things.
Irish_Dem
(82,708 posts)I want to make sure I am adhering to the new morality correctly.
Americans are fine with men raping and beating up children.
So I guess everything else is fine now too.
That makes it easy.
Anything men do sexually is A-OK.
The victims be damned.
Just like the old days.
The patriarchy is alive and well.
orangecrush
(31,326 posts)As in he just sexted women who had no idea at all of who he was?
I'm sorry, I didn't read that anywhere
From his wife -
"I confided deeply personal details about my marriage to someone I considered a friend, she said. I trusted this person with the most private chapter of our lives the early days of our marriage before any campaign was on our mind.
Our marriage today is stronger than ever before, she added. I know the man I married and the husband he has been to me on the best and the worst days of my life. That hasnt changed, and it wont.
https://www.nytimes.com/2026/05/30/us/politics/graham-platner-maine-senate-texts.html
Or doesn't her opinion count?
Have a great day.
Irish_Dem
(82,708 posts)But as you keep telling me, it is all fine and OK.
orangecrush
(31,326 posts)Source, please?
LisaL
(47,610 posts)Here. you can view his alleged profile in a towel. At least he is wearing a towel. Could have been worse, I suppose.
"Law enforcement officials at the time described Kik as the problem app of the moment, noting it was used by roughly 40 percent of American teenagers."
https://www.themainewire.com/2026/05/maine-democratic-senate-candidate-graham-platner-kept-sexually-suggestive-account-on-app-dubbed-predators-paradise/
orangecrush
(31,326 posts)Yes, The Maine Wire is widely recognized as a right-wing publication. It operates as the media arm of the Maine Policy Institute (formerly the Maine Heritage Policy Center), which is a conservative public policy think tank
LisaL
(47,610 posts)Next time specify that you only accept left wing sources. Considering it has a photo of him (at least the tattoos match) in a towel, WTF does it matter if it's a right wing publication or not?
orangecrush
(31,326 posts)To cite right wing sources.
See ya.
LisaL
(47,610 posts)but can I link to cnn?
It doesn't have a photo of him in a towel (only the description of it), though, but he used KIK.
"CNN has not independently confirmed the existence of the text messages. CNN did verify that an account on the messaging app Kik appears to belong to Platner. The account, under the username phustle0331, features a profile photo showing Platner shirtless in a bathroom with a towel on his waist and uses a handle similar to ones on his since-deleted Reddit account and a now-deleted Instagram account."
https://www.cnn.com/2026/05/31/politics/graham-platner-democrats-campaign-revelations
Exultant Democracy
(6,599 posts)You asked for a source; that is a clear reason for doing it. It also does us no good to not know how this story is evolving across the media landscape. In this instance, the reason for citing this source is clear and consistent with the values of helping us support the best candidate on June 9th. Maine democrats still have time to change course, and it is very fair for people on this site who feel alarmed by Planter to build the case for why he is a coin flip in a race where a boring D could win in a walk, given the polling data.
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orangecrush
(31,326 posts)To betray his wife's trust?
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orangecrush
(31,326 posts)mr715
(4,341 posts)The GOP ones are thrilled that they get a merc with a former nazi tattoo. They ain't deep thinkers.
RandySF
(86,729 posts)or did he send texts to women out of the blue? One of these is harassment.
MorbidButterflyTat
(4,815 posts)Oopsie!
There's much more to this.
RandySF
(86,729 posts)and Im referring to campaign staff.
mr715
(4,341 posts)Then, sometimes, they might send a message that says something a little risque like "You look so pretty holding that No More Genocide Sign", and then it just spirals from there.
Maybe they weren't random.
Maybe we should let him and his wife handle this.
Maybe sex is fine.
MorbidButterflyTat
(4,815 posts)Or maybe his wife of two years was simply a necessary encumbrance to enhance his Senate campaign? Like denying a Nazi tat is a Nazi tat?
He and his wife could've handled it privately if he wasn't running for office.
I bet his wife doesn't think her husband's sex and apparent relationships with other women is "fine."
mr715
(4,341 posts)I am not in the business of shaming people's sexual habits.
TBF
(37,369 posts)There are plenty of women who stay with men because there are myriad issues that come up if you've been married a long time - you've got intermingled families, kids, a good income, health insurance - and all of a sudden, the spouse is in the spotlight with a stupid mistake (or mistakes). Hillary Clinton even did it, and she was pretty accomplished on her own. It's not just that women are brought up to "stand by their man" - there are a lot of practical reasons, especially if you're over 40 and gave up your career (if you ever had one) to raise your kids.
She may have the independent funds to leave, she may not. She may be watching to see how this race plays out. Maybe she's willing to forgive him to keep the status quo. Women can be very pragmatic. But I wouldn't assume she still loves him.
mr715
(4,341 posts)There is a vast spectrum of love out there. Maybe they're best friends but they don't have sex. Maybe they've come to terms with that. Maybe they haven't.
It is still nonetheless not my business, nor does it speak to policy outcomes. It is only if we assume malice or illegality does this become an issue of political relevance in re: the Senate race.
Incidentally, I watched her video. I think I sensed that she was deeply hurt and suspect she was just straight up cheated on. Which makes Graham Platner a bad guy, but still a better one than Susan Collins. And still a better political player than his opponent in Janet Mills, even though I supported her.
TBF
(37,369 posts)but I did want to clarify the point on women and why they stay in crappy relationships.
mr715
(4,341 posts)Relationships are about choices between individuals, and I hope Graham Platner's wife is in a situation where she can make hers. If she were in an abusive relationship, I would be one of the first people on this forum for ditching Platner.
TBF
(37,369 posts)that just amplifies all the rest I spoke about and makes it worse.
LisaL
(47,610 posts)I guess that's a thing too.
mr715
(4,341 posts)I don't do it, but a lot of politicians do.
LisaL
(47,610 posts)As far as I am concerned, this dude is a cheating creep.
At least I don't live in Maine so I don't have to vote for him.
Not a threat to democracy though. Susan Collins is.
LisaL
(47,610 posts)NT
jmbar2
(8,208 posts)If he falls, she loses everything. He has put her in a very tight spot.
TBF
(37,369 posts)and I really wouldn't want to be in the shoes of Maine voters, either. I'm not trying to judge them for unseating Susan Collins even if it is messy. Similarly, a tight spot. She really has done a lot of damage over the years.
MorbidButterflyTat
(4,815 posts)He shames HIMSELF.
MineralMan
(151,682 posts)What's the point, really. Who's running in YOUR state and what are you doing about that?
LisaL
(47,610 posts)Whether we live in Maine or not.
MineralMan
(151,682 posts)Who is running for Senate in YOUR state? How is that campaign doing? What about your House district? Would you like my opinion about who you should vote for?
Why do we focus on other people's elections. What influence do we have if we don't live there?
Maine will sort out its own election, I have no doubt. I will not think any more about it, because I have zero influence there. I'd rather any Democrat over Susan Collins, of course.
LisaL
(47,610 posts)I don't get your point.
And our primary (in my state) is already over.
MineralMan
(151,682 posts)We have a Governor to elect here. We have a Senator to elect here. I have a House representative to elect Here. I have a state Senator and a state House member to elect here. So, I'm focused on those. I'm not going to bother you with those elections, though. You have nothing whatsoever to do with the, and I'm not interested in what you think about them. You don't vote here.
So, that's what I focus on.
Your primary elections are over? Then it's time to start working on electing people in your general election, isn't it. How's that going? What are you doing in those races? Why are you bothering about Maine? Do you want my opinion of your candidates? You'll have to tell me who they are, see? If I have time, I'll look at them, if you like.
mr715
(4,341 posts)I look forward to hearing about the governance of the honorable former Senator Klobacher
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stopdiggin
(15,688 posts)you're being a bit myopic here.
People are interested in Platner (and that race) because ...
He's definitely a 'character' - and at the same time might represent defining character - for a party and country.
Does this guy represent who we are? (and not just Mainers, but Democrats and/or Americans as a whole?)
Skittles
(173,178 posts)we talk about POLITICS AND POLITICIANS, and not just the ones in our own states
LisaL
(47,610 posts)Especially considering Senate elections affect all of us.
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MineralMan
(151,682 posts)Unless you have influence somewhere on the elections there, nothing you say matters, frankly.
How are elections going in your own state? Who is running for Senate and your House district? Do you want my opinion about that? Sorry, I'm busy here in my own state with elections here. Go and vote and get out the vote where you live. That's POLITICAL!
Skittles
(173,178 posts)ALRIGHTY THEN
Ishoutandscream2
(6,791 posts)Understand our state quite well. Doesnt mean we cant walk and chew gum at the same time. But, he obviously knows more things than the rest of us do.
LisaL
(47,610 posts)with people from all the states? Seem like you should be posting on some local board, then.
MineralMan
(151,682 posts)We share a President and Vice President, don't we, along with all of their appointees. People from all states vote for them. So, here I am. I do hope you don't mind, but I'm not going anywhere.
Why are you questioning my presence on a national political discussion forum?
That's troubling to me, somehow.
Ishoutandscream2
(6,791 posts)Like I mentioned above. He has a sense of superiority and talks down to others.
sarisataka
(22,866 posts)Being concerned about a candidate's history of homophobia, misogyny, rape apologism, potential Nazi sympathies and possible sexual harassment is "basking in purity"
I'm not sure if I am a fan; the old version feels more like what we claim to stand for; the compromises appear to be what we once criticized in others.
LisaL
(47,610 posts)NT
orangecrush
(31,326 posts)Same go for Bill Clinton?
He actually was unfaithful while in office.
I had the best 8 years of my life under Bill Clinton, and actually was able to break out of poverty and enjoy my life during his terms.
What he did with his dick was between him, Lewinsky and Hillary and was none of my fucking business, as I see it.
sarisataka
(22,866 posts)did he suggest woman were responsible when they are raped
did he "unknowingly" wear a Totenkopf for twenty years
There are things that were once disqualifiers as breaches of our core values that we now casually dismiss. I do not like what that says about our commitment to our values. It reminds me too much of the end of Animal Farm.
stopdiggin
(15,688 posts)always been a bit suspect in the Ethics 101 department.
(Oh - and incidentally, he really didn't .. _
EX500rider
(12,798 posts)He a "hard working oyster farmer" who also gets $4800 a month from the VA for 100% disability.
To avoid going over income limits for that, he pays his wife instead of himself for both the campaign work & oyster biz work.
A former Platner campaign aide told the Substack Judge Street Journal that the campaign paid a salary to Platner's wife rather than to Platner himself "for a few reasons": "One, the optics of a candidate drawing a salary from the campaign committee isn't great, though I don't think your family getting paid from the campaign committee is great either," the staffer said in November. "Two, if Graham drew a salary from the campaign, his disability status and his disability payments would be put at risk."
Blue Full Moon
(3,683 posts)Push out Al Franken again. No
orangecrush
(31,326 posts)It's a ratfucking technique that the right has down to a science.
Blue Full Moon
(3,683 posts)After Trump and Bush Sr.
I will say what I said when they did this crap to Clinton. It's the Platner's business and no one else.
orangecrush
(31,326 posts)ShazzieB
(22,948 posts)I live over 1,000 miles from Maine. If I lived there, I would vote for whatever Democratic candidate ran against Collins. I don't, so it's not my call.
Should the Maine Dems have vetted him more thoroughly? Maybe. Could they have found a candidate with less "baggage"? Maybe, but I wouldn't bet on it. Imo, Platner's "baggage" has been blown way out of proportion, imo, and there's no guarantee of that not happening to anyone else who ends up running against Collins in November.
These days, it's possible to find "dirt" on almost anyone. Right now, there are bots working around the clock to dig up something that can be used against any Democrat who has a chance of flipping a red Senate seat to blue, because the margin there is so razor thin. Republican strategists are worried about the midterms, they're frighteningly skilled at turning molehills into mountains, and they're funded by billionaires with endless resources. They can find a way to tar anybody.
Meanshile, Mainers obviously like this man, and they're the ones who are going to decide this. The rest of us need to keep our eyes on the prize - flipping Collins' seat to blue - and support Platner if Mainers choose to put him on the ballot in November. Priorities, people.
orangecrush
(31,326 posts)Thank you.
EX500rider
(12,798 posts)20 years with a SS tattoo & working as a Blackwater merc & very questionable online posts are just the facts to me, not sure how you "blow" those up, they are what they are.
ShazzieB
(22,948 posts)It was a drawing of a skull that was similar but not identical to the image the SS used. Many people (including me) who have actually seen what the tattoo looks like have said they never would've connected it with the SS or with Nazis. Also, he was very young and drunk at the time. When he found out what it was, he had it covered (because covering a tattoo is much faster, easier, and cheaper than having one removed). So yes, the tattoo has been blown WAY out of proportion, imo.
As for the Reddit posts, they were also made a long time ago when he was much more immature and also dealing with mental health issues. I can easily believe that a young man could make comments online that are not a reflection of his opinions years later. He has admitted they were wrong.
The Blackwater thing is icky, but he was just out of the service at the time, didn't know what to do with himself, and was attracted to it because it sounded like what he'd been doing for the past few years and felt familiar. Big deal.
The sexting is also icky, but it's private business. It's not criminal as long as everyone involved was a consenting adult, and I'm sure we'd have been told by now if they weren't.
None of this stuff is anything to be proud of, but I think it's been taken out of context and spun to seem much worse than it really is. I expected many people would disagree when I made that post, but that's life.
LisaL
(47,610 posts)At some point, is he going to be considered a mature adult? Seems like he should be, at 41. His sexting didn't happen many years ago. It's not a youthful indiscretion
As far as I am concerned, it's not showing good judgement on his part.
EX500rider
(12,798 posts)
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And having it for almost 20 years leads me to 2 conclusions, he knew what it was (and friends have said he did) and left it there until called out about it or he was too stupid to know he had a SS tattoo (not just any SS but the Death Camp guards tattoo), neither a good look IMO ymmv
ShazzieB
(22,948 posts)He has always said he had no idea what it was when he got it, that he picked it out of a book the tattoo artist had. That sounds 100% believable to me. When I was researching this thing myself, I found a Reddit thread about it (in r/Maine, linked below) where people were talking about it. Some were horrified by it, but a lot of others said they would never have recognized it as a Nazi symbol. (I didn't know what it was myself.) There were also some vets talking about stupid stuff they did when they were in the military. A lot of people said they believed him when he said he didn't know what it was when he got it. Here's a link to that thread: https://www.reddit.com/r/Maine/comments/1odcx9l/graham_platners_new_tattoo/
The Reddit discussion was of course inconclusive, just a bunch of people expressing their opinions, but reading the comments there helped me clarify my own thinking on the matter.
Imo, the Totenkopf is one of those things that if you know what it is, you can't unsee its meaning, but from what I've been able to glean, there are a loads of people who just see a skull with no particular associations other than Halloween or maybe pirates. I was one of those people myself until this thing with Platner hit the fan, so I'm not about to insist that ANYONE with such a tattoo MUST have known what it meant and deliberately chose it for its SS associations.
I admittedly have not looked into any of the other stuff as deeply as I have with the tattoo (although I plan to do so now), and I'm really not interested in getting into any protracted arguments about Platner's fitness for office. I expressed an opinion that I expected would be controversial, and I (rightly) assumed some would disagree. C'est la vie.
LetMyPeopleVote
(182,727 posts)I have seen a great deal on this. This is just one example that Collins would use against Platner in a general election campaign.
Link to tweet

I have seen some other oppo that pesters me including the material on this thread.
TommyT139
(2,435 posts)https://www.advocate.com/politics/graham-platner-homophobic-posts
Obviously he's the Dem candidate, but let's not gloss over the many many many flaws here.
Samael13
(135 posts)But i really dont think this is a purity thing or anything like that the voters chose him and in the end thats their decision. We can all think what we want supporter or not unless we live there we dont get a say and I wont shame democrats in another state for voting who they feel best represents them
RockRaven
(19,801 posts)means that you are voting for the Party to have a majority and therefore control, or not. That's it. That is the choice: which party do you want to have power. The people don't matter much by comparison.
mr715
(4,341 posts)We are not marrying them.
They are not our friends.
They are not our heroes.
They are not owed our faith.
They are vehicles for policy, that is all.
They are bound by principles to do least harm, but they by their very nature will do some harm.
This is why I am annoyed when people are on a first name basis with their candidates, or go looking for heroes.
PS - I'm a hypocrite because Sec. Clinton is a hero of mine.
TBF
(37,369 posts)they care not about all of the heinous things Trump has done in his past, is doing currently, and will do in his (hopefully limited) future. They say things like "we need abortion illegal in all 50 states - Trump will do it for us". And he packs the court to try to get there. Here in Texas I literally saw things like that on my facebook feed.
But what else is he doing? He is making himself nearly as wealthy as the rest of the billionaires he is protecting, he is completely ignoring the courts and congress in favor of authoritarian rule, he is an adjudicated sexual offender, he is defacing our White House, he has dismantled our great society, and the list goes on and on.
THAT is what you get when you completely ignore "people" and just focus on party. That is what MAGATs did, and now they're trying to pay for their $5/gallon gas w/the rest of us.
I'm not saying you shouldn't look at the platform and generally go with them - but if you have one candidate that stinks to high heaven, yes, I'm saying - slow down and took a look at that person.
stopdiggin
(15,688 posts)really CAN get away with murder ( figuratively?, literally? ) - as long as he scores us enough touchdowns?
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LymphocyteLover
(10,230 posts)GPV
(73,402 posts)not go there lightly.
delisen
(7,447 posts)Last edited Sun May 31, 2026, 04:54 PM - Edit history (1)
The stories about Morris Katz, Platners advisor, are disturbing.
Bluestocking
(827 posts)If I lived in Maine he would get my vote.
delisen
(7,447 posts)Costello is Blue and has much experience but his campaign did not resonate so far.
I would be unlikely vote for Platner because of his lies. If the reports that his campaign guru , Morris Katz, threatened Genevieve McDonald are true, I would definitely not vote ,for Platner.
gibraltar72
(7,632 posts)Platner has warts. Collins has Ebola!
DoBW
(3,350 posts)united we stand
https://secure.actblue.com/donate/graham-for-america
orangecrush
(31,326 posts)W_HAMILTON
(10,449 posts)It's interesting that NOW they want the purity tests to end, with this obviously deeply flawed candidate who keeps stepping on his own dick.
Too bad they didn't end them back with Hillary, Biden, Kamala, etc.
betsuni
(29,348 posts)is still popular. The magical three words of pointless division.