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Biophilic

(6,690 posts)
Sun May 24, 2026, 08:12 PM 13 hrs ago

My high school class in 1964 had 57 people.

One of those was kind, gentle guy from a farm family west of the city. He was a very talented artist, but obviously his family didn’t have the funds for Art School. He went to Nam instead. He didn’t return. I think about Paul often. He was a special human being.

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My high school class in 1964 had 57 people. (Original Post) Biophilic 13 hrs ago OP
Great post for Memorial Day senseandsensibility 13 hrs ago #1
My class had about 650 kids PJMcK 13 hrs ago #2
And I also grieve for the ones who came home wounded in body or mind, niyad 10 hrs ago #12
You and I graduated the same year. COL Mustard 1 hr ago #16
1967 here. About the same number of grads. Joinfortmill 13 hrs ago #3
... anciano 12 hrs ago #4
A lot of us lost friends in Vietnam BeneteauBum 12 hrs ago #5
A classmate from fifth grade for me IbogaProject 12 hrs ago #6
64 also. tavernier 12 hrs ago #7
... littlemissmartypants 12 hrs ago #8
My SO's brother recounted the story of his friend. Festivito 12 hrs ago #9
Many of those who survived suffer from severe PTSD. surfered 11 hrs ago #10
106 in my 1963 class. MineralMan 11 hrs ago #11
1968 reporting in. ShazzieB 10 hrs ago #13
I'm so sorry you lost your friend MustLoveBeagles 9 hrs ago #14
Appreciate you sharing this special remembrance. We are of the same generation. My graduating class of 105 in 1967 lost KitFox 8 hrs ago #15
Six from my class didn't make it back. dedl67 52 min ago #17
My uncle was the only male in his highschool class to survive WWII sab390 24 min ago #18
I graduated in '65... GiqueCee 20 min ago #19

senseandsensibility

(25,570 posts)
1. Great post for Memorial Day
Sun May 24, 2026, 08:14 PM
13 hrs ago

And there are thousands and thousands more. Each life was important. That's what the holiday is all about. Thanks for sharing.

PJMcK

(25,135 posts)
2. My class had about 650 kids
Sun May 24, 2026, 08:20 PM
13 hrs ago

This year marks our 50th reunion.

More than 100 of my classmates have died. Many different causes.

I feel fortunate to still be alive. I grieve for those service people who never came home.

niyad

(134,102 posts)
12. And I also grieve for the ones who came home wounded in body or mind,
Sun May 24, 2026, 10:50 PM
10 hrs ago

and for their loved ones. I spent many years trying to help heal the wounded minds.

COL Mustard

(8,405 posts)
16. You and I graduated the same year.
Mon May 25, 2026, 08:48 AM
1 hr ago

I remember how proud I was to graduate in the Bicentennial Year, with all the patriotic displays and fervor that we had back then, at least in my part of the country. We've lost so much since then, and the pace is accelerating.

I know several of my HS classmates have died since then but I'm sure there are others that I don't know about.

Not sure if we are having a reunion, so graduation may have been the last time I saw some of those folks.

BeneteauBum

(797 posts)
5. A lot of us lost friends in Vietnam
Sun May 24, 2026, 09:15 PM
12 hrs ago

Friends I knew in high school. I remember the first death of someone I knew…..I was a sophomore. Also, many of us lost relatives in WW2 and Korea. I had an uncle die on the Bataan death march. The horrors of war should never be trivialized and the sacrifices of people defending us should always be memorialized.

Peace ☮️

IbogaProject

(6,088 posts)
6. A classmate from fifth grade for me
Sun May 24, 2026, 09:23 PM
12 hrs ago

He was the very first causalty in Desert Storm the first Gulf War.

tavernier

(14,523 posts)
7. 64 also.
Sun May 24, 2026, 09:29 PM
12 hrs ago

Several died in Nam, but the one I especially remember told me once that I was the first girl he ever kissed.

Festivito

(13,923 posts)
9. My SO's brother recounted the story of his friend.
Sun May 24, 2026, 09:47 PM
12 hrs ago

His friend, Jesus, did not make it back from Vietnam alive. His eyes welled up after all these years as I listened.

My close neighbor told another neighbor friend that he should go to Vietnam. She carried the memory of his death until her own.

As I work as a civilian on a military base, the memory of Vietnam is not with the young people there. My condolence to all those with memory.

ShazzieB

(22,916 posts)
13. 1968 reporting in.
Sun May 24, 2026, 11:05 PM
10 hrs ago

75 in my graduating class. I didn't stay in touch with any of those people, but I wouldn't be surprised if some of the guys got drafted. Now I'm wondering if they did and if they all made it back.

One of my cousins got drafted but never left the states. He ended up in the quartermaster corps after basic training and spent the rest of his hitch in Ft. Dix, NJ.

I'm sorry to hear about your friend Paul. There were too many like him.

KitFox

(599 posts)
15. Appreciate you sharing this special remembrance. We are of the same generation. My graduating class of 105 in 1967 lost
Mon May 25, 2026, 01:31 AM
8 hrs ago

two of our classmates in Vietnam and another committed suicide 3 months after coming home. We had all been in school together since first grade and it hit us so hard. I lost two of my former students: one in Afghanistan and one in Iraq. I cry every time I look through my school yearbooks and see their sweet little 7 year old faces smiling back at me. My mom’s brother was killed in World War II so I sadly never knew him. I choke up every Memorial Day and Veterans Day when I put out my flag.

sab390

(223 posts)
18. My uncle was the only male in his highschool class to survive WWII
Mon May 25, 2026, 09:24 AM
24 min ago

When I went to my 5th highschool reunion more than 10 percent of the boys were dead. Half from drugs, half didn't come back from Vietnam. I had a graduating class of 400.

GiqueCee

(4,795 posts)
19. I graduated in '65...
Mon May 25, 2026, 09:28 AM
20 min ago

... and when I went for my draft physical, I got a 1Y instead of a 1A because I was too light for my height. Hard to believe, looking in the mirror now. When they went to the lottery system, I got a high number, so I never got called up.
'Nam was a war that should never have happened, which, to my mind, makes the loss of 58,220 young lives all the more tragic. And the 303,644 who came home wounded will likely attest to that.

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