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xmas74

(30,096 posts)
Sat May 16, 2026, 04:57 PM Saturday

New update on cancer treatment-fired from work

First, I want to thank everyone for the well wishes and donations. I'm still replying from the post linked below. It's been a rough week.
https://www.democraticunderground.com/100221229275

As of May 14 I was terminated from my employment. It was stated that I didn't get my FMLA in on time. They use a third party company called Reliance Matrix. Initially Reliance filled out my claim as intermittent but my doctor's forms call the treatment as continuous. I received an extension on May 7 for May 22 as a new deadline. My company stated I needed a Return to Work deadline-my dr stated she couldn't give one since they believe treatment will be extended. An email dated May 14 was sent out with my separation papers with the reason stated above.

I am mostly worried about paying full COBRA until I'm approved for Medicaid. It's extremely expensive and if i lose coverage during any of this they could delay my treatment until my new coverage starts. https://gofund.me/0e2c38dc5

I'm furious.

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New update on cancer treatment-fired from work (Original Post) xmas74 Saturday OP
I am so sorry! Diamond_Dog Saturday #1
I work in Medicaid xmas74 Saturday #4
I am so sorry. sheshe2 Saturday #2
It's why insurance shouldn't be tied to employment nt xmas74 Saturday #3
Is this horrendous outfit susceptible to boycot? WmChris Saturday #5
Not really. xmas74 7 hrs ago #24
You need to find a lawyer immediately angrychair Saturday #6
👆🏼 dweller Saturday #8
I plan on making calls today. xmas74 7 hrs ago #25
Best of luck my friend angrychair 7 hrs ago #28
I am furious right there with you. This needs to change. Marie Marie Saturday #7
There's no reason for it. xmas74 7 hrs ago #26
How awful! We need insurance that is NOT tied to employment, brer cat Saturday #9
I am so sorry xmas74. Been there with no health insurance and very ill. Clouds Passing Saturday #10
This is very infuriating. I am sorry. LoisB Saturday #11
This obscene level... GiqueCee Saturday #12
The nine most terrifying words in the English language...: OhioBack2Blue 5 hrs ago #29
I agree with everyone here, get an attorney. I prayed for you. Stay strong. You have a very good case. Joinfortmill Saturday #13
We really do . . . AverageOldGuy Saturday #14
Yep, the best healthcare money can buy! state of stupid Saturday #15
This message was self-deleted by its author bmichaelh Saturday #16
It is so sad that this is the way it is for most of the population. Figarosmom Saturday #17
Interesting book on this, When McKinsey Comes to Town, The hidden influence of the World's Most Powerful... multigraincracker Saturday #18
I am a cancer patient myself. hurple Saturday #19
Marta and I are in again Omaha Steve Saturday #20
File a complaint with the EEOC for wrongful termination. Ms. Toad Saturday #21
kick question everything 19 hrs ago #22
So sorry this happened. Cyber hugs. Nanjeanne 19 hrs ago #23
Get a lawyer. Tommy Carcetti 7 hrs ago #27

Diamond_Dog

(41,036 posts)
1. I am so sorry!
Sat May 16, 2026, 05:04 PM
Saturday

American healthcare sucks big time! I hope your Medicaid comes through ASAP. Good luck with your treatments. I have been there.

WmChris

(784 posts)
5. Is this horrendous outfit susceptible to boycot?
Sat May 16, 2026, 05:29 PM
Saturday

If so who are they because I for one will choose not to use their services if I know who they are. Hope you find resolution to your health and insurance quagmire.

angrychair

(12,501 posts)
6. You need to find a lawyer immediately
Sat May 16, 2026, 05:34 PM
Saturday

Last edited Sat May 16, 2026, 06:39 PM - Edit history (1)

You need an employment lawyer immediately. That is illegal. I'm not a lawyer but it sounds like you have a strong case but I would absolutely talk to a real lawyer. Typically they take your case on the contingency of payment for winning, much like an injury lawyer.

dweller

(28,667 posts)
8. 👆🏼
Sat May 16, 2026, 05:45 PM
Saturday

Do this , and let them know you are looking for pro bono representation.
Most lawyers have to do some pro bono work at times


Good luck


✌🏻

xmas74

(30,096 posts)
25. I plan on making calls today.
Mon May 18, 2026, 10:16 AM
7 hrs ago

They've done this to several others since they started pushing AI.

Clouds Passing

(8,189 posts)
10. I am so sorry xmas74. Been there with no health insurance and very ill.
Sat May 16, 2026, 05:56 PM
Saturday

Hugs Tears Healing 💚

GiqueCee

(4,734 posts)
12. This obscene level...
Sat May 16, 2026, 06:05 PM
Saturday

... of corruption is in the DNA of capitalism. Healthcare in rural Thailand is better than what we are subjected to.
Private Equity is a cancer that has infected healthcare on every level, and it should be wiped off the face of the Earth, but corporatism is the overarching cause of all our problems; it permeates and poisons every aspect of our lives.

OhioBack2Blue

(200 posts)
29. The nine most terrifying words in the English language...:
Mon May 18, 2026, 01:08 PM
5 hrs ago
I'm here from corporate, and I'm here to help.

Establish Dems all shush me when I say this....
F them.

Joinfortmill

(21,668 posts)
13. I agree with everyone here, get an attorney. I prayed for you. Stay strong. You have a very good case.
Sat May 16, 2026, 06:24 PM
Saturday

AverageOldGuy

(4,157 posts)
14. We really do . . .
Sat May 16, 2026, 06:31 PM
Saturday

. . . have the best health care system in the world!!

Right????

🤬🤬🤬🤬

Response to xmas74 (Original post)

Figarosmom

(13,327 posts)
17. It is so sad that this is the way it is for most of the population.
Sat May 16, 2026, 07:07 PM
Saturday

It's really a crime that insurance is connected to employment. And most states are making Medicaid contingent to employment too. Yet once we get sick from a catastrophic illness you are fired.

Sending positive vibes and hopes for it all to work out. I'll do what I can to help.

multigraincracker

(38,034 posts)
18. Interesting book on this, When McKinsey Comes to Town, The hidden influence of the World's Most Powerful...
Sat May 16, 2026, 07:15 PM
Saturday

Defend, Deny and Delay. It'll make your blood boil.
Try to apply for SS disability and find a lawyer that handles laws on disable workers.
Best of luck, my heart goes out to you.

hurple

(1,362 posts)
19. I am a cancer patient myself.
Sat May 16, 2026, 07:24 PM
Saturday

2 years post-op and 1 year post chemo.

I work for the state of Illinois, in an agency directly under the governor's office. They bent over backwards to accomodate me throughout the process, including a year of full-time work from home during recovery and chemo.

I agree with several of the other posts, get an employment lawyer and sue their asses off!

Ms. Toad

(38,817 posts)
21. File a complaint with the EEOC for wrongful termination.
Sat May 16, 2026, 11:47 PM
Saturday

You don't have to have legal counsel, but having legal counsel (someone experienced in employment law) will increase your chances that all relevant information is presented to the EEOC in the best/most comprehensive light.

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