I think it's the internet/manosphere/4Chan that really helped make this happen.

... is that a lot of the behaviors common then don't fly now. What is different is how much of that tolerated bad behavior increased in violence.

Guys used to do a lot hitting of the women in their lives and nobody said nothing. Now they murder them, maim them. Men may be hitting less, but they are murdering more.

...there's always fentanyl. How about trying to be a better person who makes the world better too?

Try it. You might like it.

There is way more profit in perpetuating the world as it is!

How dare you suggest such socialistic drivel!!

(Massive sarcasm... )

For women to like you, you have to like them first. You know. Get some women friends. Hang around with them. Talk to them. Laugh with them. Cry with them. Take an interest in their lives without trying to figure out how to trick them into having sex with you. (By the way. It’s no trick. You’ll see. It’s amazing!)

To be blunt. If you want women in your lives, include them in your lives.

On the other hand, smart men have recognized this forever, and act accordingly. The rest of the men seem never to get it at all, and continue to behave like assholes.

to do in reducing male violence. There's no shortage of work if you're looking, guys. We could use the help.

Get outside. Take a class. Join a club they're interested in: hiking, biking, visiting museums, etc. They'll meet people and they'll learn to interact.

I am not sure how to change it, to be honest.

We kind of let them program us for screens a long time ago. This is just the latest step in their distractions tour.

If we are too busy attacking each other, we won't see what the 'elites' are doing to us. If we are constantly sitting in our houses and being fed shit, we won't get together and realize that it is they who are perpetuating the issues and they who seek to escalate things to insure even more profits.

But yes, women are not to blame for the delusional world that is 'incel life'. Profits are.

There are so many aspects of our bias society that owe their continued existence to profits. There are whole industries that were created and are flourishing thanks to said biases and inequity. Changing them would remove those profitable industries.

So, you know they are not interested in changing a thing.

Love affairs also serve to dehumanize women in the minds of those afflicted with this self gratification device.

and other similar male influencers. They teach men to be jerks and to think that behavior is acceptable.

I'd like to give examples, but it's basically "whatever sells", and to preserve the oligarchy, whatever outrages.



What "sells" is mostly in "The Seven Deadly Sins"



Porn? Get Rich Quick schemes? Weapons? Quadruple Hamberders? Hmmmmm.

Without these, what economy?

Anyway, I rant at some length here about being hoodwinked for profit.

https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1324&pid=4222

Spoiler:

Don't blame God for your ills. Blame Liberals. It was some Fox-watching idtiot in Texas, and as long as foolish slogans are in vogue......

For Pete's sake, are we to take this kind of thing seriously? Some Republican farmer loses his wife and his farm and socialism is to blame. If the pooor guiy is a Democrat, then capitalism is to blame? The miery of acute loneliness, if it to be addressed at all, should be addressed by dealing with the cause of said person's loneliness, and not some pre-packaged political formula that is more of a feel-good for the healer than for the afficted. I haveen happily married to a dedicated social worker for decades, and not once has she looked for (or found) solutions to helping her cases in political sloganeering. I can imagine a scene--

Herr Müller, what is wrong? You seem utterly depressed!"

"My wife divorced me two years ago. I haven't met anyone new. My business is not doing well. I just want a partner to share my life with me."

"Well, we'll get to work on that right now! Cheer up! Let's go tax the rich and you'll feel much better!"

Simplistic solutions offered for complex problems usually do not solve anything, and insult the sufferer. I have lived for many decades with a woman who has spent her whole professional life learning just that. I'd rather not go there..