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gopiscrap

(24,474 posts)
Sat Sep 27, 2025, 10:57 PM 10 hrs ago

Looking for advice

Last edited Sun Sep 28, 2025, 01:02 AM - Edit history (1)

I want to share the plight of a young girl from Frankfurt am Main Germany who during the war became a refugee. Her name is Lieselotte (nick name Lilo.) She was born in Frankfurt in 1933. At the age of nine, Hitler had decreed that the nations' children were the future of the Third Reich. Since all major cities were being bombed into rubble, Hitler had ordered that all children from the age of 6 -15 be evacuated and relocated from all the major cities. Frankfurt, being the financial and banking center of the nation was one of those cities. Because there wasn't any transportation available, Lilo (along with many others) was sent to walk to an orphanage just inside the Austrian border during the winter of 1943. It took forty six days to do so. Five days after the war, the director of the orphanage gathered all the children together and gave each child the equililant of 8 dollars and then sent them on their way, telling them the Austrian government couldn't afford to keep them.

Once again, there wasn't any transportation, so Lilo spent the next 4 months wandering from town to town in order to get back to her parents. Lilo slept in fields, bombed out builidlings, in churches when they were kind enough to house children. doorways and alleys. She was shot at, had garbage and rocks thrown at her. She slept in door ways, bombed out buildings, churches when the pastor was kind enough to let her do so. In her fifth month of wandering she was spotted by and picked up by an American military battalion. She was driven to a Catholic orphanage in Northern Germany and spent the next four months hoping her parents would come and find her. During this time she took part in the only recreation available, singing in the Obern Kirke Kinder Chor. Each Saturday the girls would be lined up against the dining room wall while parents came and searched for their missing children. Finally on the fourteenth week, her parents came and she was repatriated and sent home with them.

Because she had to walk through the Bavarian Mountains with substandard foot wear, during the winter, her feet and left leg were frost bitten. When she became pregnant with her first child that frost bite turned into gangrene and in order to save her baby's life, she had to have her left leg amputated just above the knee. For the rest of her life, every time she heard a siren or low flying plane, she cringed. She also endured the stares of people looking at her artificial leg, her little boy endured teasing most of his childhood. She had numerous health problems and was always watching her weight. Too much weight, the leg wouldn't fit. Underweight and the leg would slip off. After many illnesses, Lilo died at 51.

THAT LITTLE GIRL GREW UP TO BE MY MOTHER

My question is, I have been approached by a book writer who wants to tell her story...it wouldn't be just this episode, but about being in Germany and born the same year Hitler took power, also about her travails and her acclimation upon coming to the US. My biological father left when she had her leg amputated in the 7th month of her pregnancy. She married a career military person who passed away when I was 6 because of war related injuries.

Should I tell him to go for it, or do think it's old news and not that compelling?
Just trying to get some opinions...thanks Mike C

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Looking for advice (Original Post) gopiscrap 10 hrs ago OP
Oh, that's a story for sure! Elessar Zappa 10 hrs ago #1
HIghly compelling. elleng 10 hrs ago #2
Seems compelling to me Easterncedar 10 hrs ago #3
Sounds incredibly compelling to me as well! Kudos to your incredibly brave mother... Rhiannon12866 10 hrs ago #4
Do you have the info to share with the writer? SheltieLover 10 hrs ago #5
Great advice. Writing this story will be a journey to honor the memory of the mother's determination to live Deuxcents 9 hrs ago #8
No doubt! SheltieLover 9 hrs ago #9
I'll agree. Deuxcents 9 hrs ago #10
I was her son gopiscrap 9 hrs ago #14
are you kidding? RussBLib 10 hrs ago #6
You raise another point to negotiate: profit split if picked up for film SheltieLover 10 hrs ago #7
That is The Pianist less the piano. usonian 9 hrs ago #11
I am an only child gopiscrap 9 hrs ago #13
BINGO! usonian 9 hrs ago #15
thank you so much gopiscrap 9 hrs ago #16
It is my great pleasure! usonian 8 hrs ago #18
Not sure what kind of story Tree Lady 9 hrs ago #12
This story needs to be told Wifes husband 9 hrs ago #17
That's a story canetoad 8 hrs ago #19
History has to be documented swong19104 8 hrs ago #20
Please share her story orangecrush 8 hrs ago #21
Such a great story godsentme 8 hrs ago #22
Yes, with contract. deepblue 7 hrs ago #23
I would buy that book. KentuckyWoman 7 hrs ago #24
ABSOLUTELY, DEFINITELY, and ASAP, get started on it! calimary 7 hrs ago #25
Compelling story of perseverance. I would buy it. LoisB 7 hrs ago #26
In this era of American Gleichschaltung this story MUST be told 303squadron 5 hrs ago #27
DO IT! no_hypocrisy 5 hrs ago #28
Make sure this book writer is not a scammer. Irish_Dem 3 hrs ago #29

SheltieLover

(73,903 posts)
5. Do you have the info to share with the writer?
Sat Sep 27, 2025, 11:10 PM
10 hrs ago

Will you have editorial rights to ensure that the story is told factually, to your satisfaction?

If so, will s/he be sharing book profits? Not sure how you are planning to do this, but it will take someone with intimate details of Lilo's life story many hours sitting with the writer to convey all the info.

I feel it has great potential!

Please let us know what you decide?

Deuxcents

(24,164 posts)
8. Great advice. Writing this story will be a journey to honor the memory of the mother's determination to live
Sat Sep 27, 2025, 11:28 PM
9 hrs ago

Thru impossible odds. Best wishes 🌺

SheltieLover

(73,903 posts)
9. No doubt!
Sat Sep 27, 2025, 11:35 PM
9 hrs ago

But it's still her story & any profits from books or filn rights should be shared with her heirs imo.

gopiscrap

(24,474 posts)
14. I was her son
Sat Sep 27, 2025, 11:54 PM
9 hrs ago

I do have intimate knowledge of what she went through, there are also some other adults who she knew and talked with about this

usonian

(20,841 posts)
11. That is The Pianist less the piano.
Sat Sep 27, 2025, 11:50 PM
9 hrs ago

But choral music could be a unifying thread.

I can help you with any classical music.

Seriously, if well done, a gripping story.

Think about what you carried forward (or any siblings)

usonian

(20,841 posts)
15. BINGO!
Sat Sep 27, 2025, 11:59 PM
9 hrs ago

You know music. I am only familiar with some classical masses and requiems. Mozart, Verdi, Brahms and Bach mainly.

Beethoven for his 9th.

Best wishes. Even in this forum, you have paid an awesome tribute to your mother.

Onward.

Tree Lady

(12,757 posts)
12. Not sure what kind of story
Sat Sep 27, 2025, 11:50 PM
9 hrs ago

Non fiction biography, or historical fiction. I read both and if you don't have all the details historical fiction could make it extra compelling.

I have always been interested in stories from WW2 times, how people escaped, survived, had courage.

Depending on who the writer is and how good they are could be a great story.

canetoad

(19,525 posts)
19. That's a story
Sun Sep 28, 2025, 12:24 AM
8 hrs ago

Definitely worth telling. I know we have had eighty-odd years of WW2 survival stories, but we are old and there is a different generation making the films now. They look for different angles, different emphases to the film-makers and writers of our day.

Go for it.

deepblue

(52 posts)
23. Yes, with contract.
Sun Sep 28, 2025, 01:40 AM
7 hrs ago

Well, this person approached you, not wanting to rip you off, which is a good start. This person wants to tell the story, that's a good sign. However, I wouldn't let it happen without a contract prepared by a lawyer. By retaining some aspect of film rights, no matter how far down the road that may happen, you can avoid a potential scam there, which is the most likely one, in that it can shoot through the whole project if it turns out to be the primary motivation for it.

Something about the story is compelling to this person. That's what you really want to know. So ask that person.





KentuckyWoman

(7,290 posts)
24. I would buy that book.
Sun Sep 28, 2025, 01:45 AM
7 hrs ago

Just sayin'

Also, be sure to protect your own rights to your own story.

calimary

(87,916 posts)
25. ABSOLUTELY, DEFINITELY, and ASAP, get started on it!
Sun Sep 28, 2025, 02:07 AM
7 hrs ago

This is one helluva real-life story that deserves to be shared as widely as possible!!! This is one PROFOUNDLY AMAZING story of triumph over adversity, and courage over despair!!!

It will inspire. It will offer hope. And that’s something we all DESPERATELY need, ALL of us, and right NOW! More than EVER BEFORE in our lives.

And YES, DEFINITELY follow the advice of KentuckyWoman here: take the steps needed to LEGALLY protect your own rights to your own story.

303squadron

(750 posts)
27. In this era of American Gleichschaltung this story MUST be told
Sun Sep 28, 2025, 03:30 AM
5 hrs ago

Old news? Not compelling enough? I cannot even begin to tell you how much this story needs to be told.

This story evokes empathy. It is the one word that pushes back against the horror of the Nazis - both then and now. And it’s personal and thus will connect with people. The movie Empire of the Sun comes to mind.

Please….tell the story.

Irish_Dem

(75,316 posts)
29. Make sure this book writer is not a scammer.
Sun Sep 28, 2025, 06:08 AM
3 hrs ago

Are they asking you for money up front to write the story etc?

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