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Celerity

(51,186 posts)
Tue Jul 29, 2025, 02:46 PM Tuesday

Mom, You Taught Me to Say "Never Again." Well, It's Happening Again.





https://newrepublic.com/article/198202/israel-gaza-genocide-never-again-happening-again

https://archive.ph/9mc26


Naeema, a 30-year-old Palestinian mother, holds her malnourished 2-year-old son, Yazan, in the Al-Shati refugee camp, on July 23.

Dear Mom,

It’s time for us to talk about Israel.


There was a while, half a year or so after the Hamas attack on October 7, 2023, when we weren’t talking with each other about much of anything. After months of sending dueling articles over family text threads on either the profound depravity or unfortunate necessity of Israel’s war in Gaza, it became clear that—like millions of other Jewish families across the country—we were talking past each other. So I mostly stopped engaging altogether. I just found it too bewildering, painful, and enraging to watch someone I love seemingly turn a blind eye to the indiscriminate death and destruction Israel was inflicting on Gaza.

But you’re my mom, and I’m your son, so this silence was unsustainable. Eventually, the freeze in our communications thawed. All that was required to maintain our détente was one unspoken rule: We do not talk about Israel. My therapist certainly approved. Yet the bewilderment, pain, and anger are all still there. As Israel’s crimes in Gaza continue to escalate, and the unspeakable horrors of those crimes pierce deeper into our brains, these feelings have been getting harder to ignore. At some point, it will do lasting damage to our relationship, and I don’t want that. So we need to talk about Israel.

Specifically, I need to express what it’s doing to my heart to see you—and much of your generation—fail to grapple with Israel’s ongoing genocide in Gaza. Because that is what we’re talking about here. Gaza now has the highest number of amputee children per capita in the world, Gazan children are being purposely targeted by IDF snipers, all civilian infrastructure across the region is being systematically leveled, Gazans are being regularly massacred at Israeli-run food distribution sites, and mass starvation is underway. This isn’t a war Israel is prosecuting, and hasn’t been for a long time, if it ever was. What Israel is pursuing, in the words of former Israeli Prime Minister Ehud Olmert, is “indiscriminate, limitless, cruel and criminal killing of civilians,” not from “some disproportionate outburst by some soldiers in some unit” but through “government policy—knowingly, evilly, irresponsibly dictated.”

And while campaigns of “indiscriminate, limitless, cruel and criminal killing of civilians” do not need to constitute genocide to morally necessitate opposition, there is a growing consensus—among those who know far more than we do about what is really happening in Gaza, and those who know far more than we do about genocide—that what Israel is doing in Gaza is, in fact, genocide. That is the conclusion of human rights organizations that have been operating on the ground there, from respected Israeli organizations like B’Tselem and Physicians for Human Rights Israel to international organizations like Amnesty International, Doctors Without Borders, and Human Rights Watch. And it is the conclusion of genocide experts like the president of the International Association of Genocide Scholars and the editor in chief of the Journal of Genocide Research.

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Mom, You Taught Me to Say "Never Again." Well, It's Happening Again. (Original Post) Celerity Tuesday OP
Thanks for sharing this EdmondDantes_ Tuesday #1
Governmentrnment policy--knowingly, evilly, irresponsibly dictated. Ping Tung Tuesday #2
This nightmare is so maddening. 😢 Dave Bowman Tuesday #3
Thank you for posting. niyad Tuesday #4
Thank you for posting! BlueMTexpat Tuesday #5
Great article Bettie Tuesday #6
Is it wrong... BurnDoubt Tuesday #7
I would say morally yes it's wrong EdmondDantes_ Tuesday #10
I wouldn't wish this happening to anyone. Dave Bowman Tuesday #8
Thank you for posting, hard truths being spoken ... cliffside Tuesday #9
ftr, that pic is of a kid w genetic disease. mopinko Wednesday #11
That was a different child's (Mohammed Zakaria al-Mutawaq) pic, not the child's (Yazan) pic used in this article Celerity Wednesday #12

Ping Tung

(3,177 posts)
2. Governmentrnment policy--knowingly, evilly, irresponsibly dictated.
Tue Jul 29, 2025, 02:51 PM
Tuesday

Thank you for posting. I expect the apologists will arrive soon to continue to deny the obvious.

BurnDoubt

(875 posts)
7. Is it wrong...
Tue Jul 29, 2025, 07:23 PM
Tuesday

to wish that the perpetrators and supporters of this travesty live to die in this way?
How will it feel when the world looks away?
One day, Israel will have a parade to honor this event.
This is how it works.
Blood. Sand. And Tears.

EdmondDantes_

(710 posts)
10. I would say morally yes it's wrong
Tue Jul 29, 2025, 09:51 PM
Tuesday

I get the instinct, but I'd rather they live to understand their actions are abhorrent and change.

cliffside

(1,141 posts)
9. Thank you for posting, hard truths being spoken ...
Tue Jul 29, 2025, 08:39 PM
Tuesday

".... Yes, there are Israelis—including our Israeli family members—who strenuously oppose what is being done in Gaza, but it is clear that they represent a disturbingly small minority. The reality is that Israeli society has, to a concerningly widespread degree, been radicalized, such that it is beginning to display characteristics of the societies that have facilitated genocides in the past—including, to just come right out and say it, the society that committed genocide against our people. And this gets to the real crux of my letter.

Growing up, every aspect of my Jewish identity was connected to the Holocaust: through stories we were told by Grandpa about his childhood in Germany; the trip we took with him to Treblinka and Auschwitz; books we read like Maus and The Diary of Anne Frank; movies we watched like Schindler’s List and Life Is Beautiful; songs we sang like “Ani Ma’amin” and “I Still Believe”; visits we made to the Holocaust Museum and Yad Vashem; and a million other everyday comments at Sunday School, Hebrew School, Passover, family get-togethers, and more. In so many ways, it was instilled in me that there’s nothing worse than supporting the perpetrators of genocide, nothing more cowardly than staying silent in the face of genocide, and nothing more virtuous than standing up against genocide.

And I’m so grateful for this! It’s a credit to you and our family and our Jewish community that “Never Again” was the morality that I was taught as a child and that has influenced so many of my choices as an adult...

But I need you to try. I need you to step out of your echo chamber for a moment. I need you to at least consider the possibility that what Israel is doing to Gaza is, in practice if not scale, what was done to our ancestors. In short, I need you to be the parent I have always looked up to. The role model who taught me right from wrong. The mother who taught me to say “Never Again.”


mopinko

(72,828 posts)
11. ftr, that pic is of a kid w genetic disease.
Wed Jul 30, 2025, 10:33 AM
Wednesday

mom doesnt look like she missed too many meals. neither does the sibling in the full pic.
nyt issued a correction.

Celerity

(51,186 posts)
12. That was a different child's (Mohammed Zakaria al-Mutawaq) pic, not the child's (Yazan) pic used in this article
Wed Jul 30, 2025, 11:00 AM
Wednesday







Yazan, the child whose pic is used in my OP's article:



the OP pic:



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